Hey guys, well I’m back from the army. Well, for those of you who remember, (and the people who don’t can read this thread What to wear when telling a coworker I like her, and reading her mixed signals ).
First of all I would like to thank all of you who gave me advice and holding fingers for me.
Well, I did it. I came up to her, told her that she is cool and I find myself thinking about her a lot. I have to say, like catlord said would happen, I was physically shaking, very hard for me to talk at first, breathing very heavily (I do think though I managed to hide it fairly well). I was wearing 1 drop of A314 on my chin, 1.5 spray ammo on my neck, and 1-3 sprays of IO (all sprayed about 5 hours before the conversation).
Her reaction – completely shocked, shy. She said we should sit down, while the whole conversation she barley looked at me.
She told me she was going out with someone. I asked her if it was serious, and she said she didn’t know.
Anyway, she had no idea I liked her, completely shocked (or at least that’s how it looked, and she said she didn’t notice). After that I tired to break the ice, so I kind of laughed and asked her why she was so shocked and bummed (her still not looking at me) while saying I’m the one who should be bummed (said playfully). After that she complemented me on the nerves to come up to her and tell her.
My situation now – I’m a total wreck. Guys, I am so depressed, I know this is sick and I shouldn’t be going for this one girl, but I CAN’T stop thinking about her. Seriously, my health is starting to be compromised. I am experiencing stomach aches for the past 2 weeks.
I do try and act like nothing happened when I’m next to her. But the fact is, I can’t stand the fact I can’t be with her.
So much for IOI’s I thought I was getting.
Your thoughts,
Gam
I said all that to say, you never know what someone is thinking, or how they are thinking it.