I got great hits off AMMO/IS combo last time on this woman who I am developing a bond with. She knows I am taken and she is still willing to become friends with me. She even calls me “family” after I spent time living at the hotel she works at for the past month since I was friendly to her and all her staff.
However, today I tried AMMO/IS/IH and wish I hadn’t. I think IH makes me either depressed or too serious and I come off as unflirtatious. It’s funny because I had a good discussion with my sports injury therapist all about work, life, and guitar but it too was very serious.
I was definitely not in a great mood although I wore shine. Could it be honesty takes away from the happy mood?
I felt I had to start all conversation with her while she worked. She replied back but there was no chemistry.
I need some help here. # 1 I will drop the Ihonesty. #2 she is spanish about 24 years old and I see her at work during the daytime. I’m running out of things to talk about.
I would just think its me but I don’t think it is. I think i phucked up a mone blend. I know we can’t be more than friends unless we turn into phuck buddies which is a remote chance as I can’t even get her to converse with much interest.
Could it be this gorgeous woman is boring? I doubt it.
I think I come across as too serious. I am also running out of subjects to talk about with her. Any idea what to do. I saw her twice this week for 30 min conversations at her work while she multitasked as she is a front desk supervisor.
I might be best just staying away from her for a good 4-5 days to let some time interval pass between us. The last thing I need is for her to think I’m trying too hard.
I can’t ask her on a date as she knows I am taken. I can’t just keep talking to her as she doesn’t show great interest in me so what do I do? How do I escalate matters. I’d like to become close friends with her and maybe evolve into more but I want that happy go lucky, charmy, carefree, flirtatious, sensous, and confident side to come out of both of us like it did the time before last.
With IH in there I feel like my power confident aura is gone. I get better connection but the charisma is history, Its almost like I become a sap. I want to be a charmer not a sap. Maybe IH is a disaster for me?
Any tips? Remember she is a younger woman 25 ish and spanish.
dsouza