Unfortunately for us girls, there seems to be greater weight placed on physical attractiveness and less on personality and intelligence.
A nerdy looking guy can attract a “hot girl” more easily than a nerdy looking girl can attract a “hot guy”. Maybe because guys are more “visual”, and girls like to go a little deeper into the guys personality and behavior before making a decision or judgment of “attractiveness”.
So, no, a guy doesn’t have to be super hot looking, because “handsome is as handsome does”.
A slightly dorky overweight guy who is fun, smart, considerate, thoughtful is a million times more attractive, appealing and sexy to me than a perfectly built guy who looks like a model but acts like a rude selfish jerk.
Based off your self description I doubt this is an issue you’ve dealt with personally. Guys don’t whip out Mr Bo Jangles for plain janes
Come on now Kitty, you mean to tell me Chippendale’s became the most successful striptease act in the world because women got hot watching these guys shake their shaved and oiled down …personalities?
So, no, a guy doesn’t have to be super hot looking, because “handsome is as handsome does”.
Welp, that means I’m fucked, and not in the good way
Okay, I admit, I’ve never seen Chippendale’s personally (though aren’t they gay?). I don’t know why, but I’ve never felt like “wow I just have to see Chippendale’s”, lol. Honestly, it seems like a bit of a silly circus.
But as a guy, which would you rather have for a mate? A physically beautiful woman who speaks and behaves like a selfish two-faced potty-mouthed nasty bitch who only thinks about herself and what she wants, or a not-bad-looking (but not totally model material either) woman who is sweet and caring and down-to-earth and fun to be around?
Sometimes a person’s behavior can make a person look more physically attractive or more physically unappealing to the beholder.
Haven’t you ever met a women who looked really hot at first, but as you got to know her, you realized what a nasty bitch she was, and then she started to look not-so-hot?
Or have you ever met a woman who looked not-so-hot at first, but as you got to know her (and her awesome attitude and personality), she started to look more attractive than you initially thought?
Of course the whole package would be great (a hot sexy guy who is also a fun and caring person). But we can’t always have everything, sometimes there are trade-offs, and you have to decide what qualities are more important to you (example: great looks vs. great personality), and also what qualities you would rather have in the long run (and be honest, I mean, how long could you stand to be with the physically “gorgeous” woman who is also a totally nasty bitch?)
I’d rather a physically beautiful woman who is sweet and caring and down-to-earth and fun to be around. You can have both too I have had them…beuty bring in the eye of the beer holder sometimes
I know, but I’m just being "devils advocate’, lol. so if you couldn’t have it all in one package, which would you prefer? (and you have to pick one or the other )
Of course I would prefer a person that’s actually likable over a total bitch on wheels no matter what she looked like. Moreso than that I appreciate class, style, sophistication and culture in a woman…yes me I can hear you snickering!
Example, if she’s never heard of Stevie Ray Vaughan but owns a Justin Timberlake album her tits can’t possibly be big enough
Women that swoon over Edward Cullen couldn’t pay me to sleep with them.
If at any point during the conversation she turns to celebrity gossip and what star is sleeping with so and so…I will literally run away waving my arms over my head and screaming “You shallow vapid moron!!!” Yes…I’ve actually done this.
You’ve eliminated 99% of the women in the world, and 100% below the age of 40. Stevie Ray is really old skool and mostly liked by middle aged men on whisky and Mary Jane…
Well if it was about looks I’d NEVER get laid! Seriously…
I just got back from Spring River and my God I met a super hot 19 year old blond who by everyone’s opinion was super hot. I spent some quality time with her observing the inside of my tent. That’s another post for later though.
I can tell you this and I am the example: If you believe you are anything other than amazing, nobody else will either. There were about 20 guys chasing after this girl and she spent the weekend with me. I made her chase me. I was the prize. Believe in yourself, that is the secret.
I’m the short balding older guy Tisha was talking about. When I walk into a room I figure out a way to own it make it mine, most of the time talking to as many people as I can. Pretty soon you become the person you think you are(or can be) to other people. This may take multiple times of going to the club. The way you carry yourself can be a powerful tool, not to mention adding the mones.
My favorite mix that I just discovered 1 drop a314 on the wrists spread on my head 3 shots of ammo to the back of the neck!
Hot or not. Well yes I am hot, and I have been told Cute and handsome. And this from women no less. But they say I give off this Vide that they described as “the grim Reaper”. A bit of IS and IO and Mr Reaper is gone.
It weould appear teh IS and the IH and or IO takes some of the edge off of me. Gives me a more gentle roundedness as oposed to a cold eyed killer typoe of look. Really i am a nice guy, just seems i have an edge
I have had them…beuty bring in the eye of the beer holder sometimes 
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