As Requested: The REAL deal on using EW (Factors you may not have considered..)

Hi ladies,

I’ve had a couple of PMs asking if I could perhaps incorporate the post I made today about the importance of knowing WHAT you are putting out there when you use Essence of Woman, into a thread, as it seems some of you are worried it will be missed by many people, since it is in a thread about Pink Sugar and MMU.

So, here is my original post, and I would ask Lor, Ilsa, Dolly, Tisha and any others who added their posts to please consider copying and pasting them into this one, so that we really do have a good comprehensive databank for new users of Essence of Woman to utilise.

So what I said was this:

I am actually going to bring something to the table here:

It is very important to understand that Essence of Woman shows intent. Lor mentioned this last night to someone new, and I was really glad to see her do so, as I feel because most of us who have used Essence of Woman for years are very enthusiastic about it, and the results it gives us, perhaps almost every new woman to join the forums here has bought it, but is not actually aware just HOW potent a part of your Pheromone weaponry arsenal it really is.

Essence of Woman says I am ready for sex. I am sorry to be so darn blunt about this, but that is the case.

Essence of Woman is nothing more than pure 100% synthesised copulin concentrate, made to garner male attention, and it is a fail-safe for women - when used properly.

A few of the newer ladies here had no initial success, and to be honest, at least three of us who have used it for years, were seriously scratching our heads, but little by little we worked out the problems, and now I think all except perhaps Hotmama have found that it really IS a product which ALWAYS works for a woman when she wants to attract (and more) a man, once you have got the right balance for YOU to use..

There may well be people on these forums who can in fact wear Essence of Woman to work, and it would gel for them if they did so, but for many of us, a product which blatantly SCREAMS “DO ME NOW” is really not the way to go in the workplace.

Now, Something like Instant Sexiness A or B, is not the same scenario at all. Unless you have like Ilsa and myself, a VERY ramped-up X20 copulins version, the copulin content is nominal in the Instant Sexiness product, and is fine to wear to work. Even Lust After Me unless again you ramp it WAY up, (I have X20 in that also), just doesn’t have that same effect.

Essence of Woman though, is NOT to be played with, and it is NOT an easy product to get right, which was one of the main reasons I took so long making the very long post in the sticky at the top here, as when I started out with pheromones years ago, reviews and correct data for FEMALE Pheromone users was very thin on the ground, and I have been intent on trying to save people from making mistakes by either incorrectly using products or wasting money on ineffective products, for months now.

I really cannot stress enough that Essence of Woman shows intent. Dolly like me has used it for years, and she occasionally likes to use it for mischief outside of it just being her and her SO, but if you use the search function, you can find my posts about the night my SO ended up a VERY Angry Bunny - at his best friends, because the one time I didn’t realise I was not going to be with “The Man” on my own from the start to the finish of the night, we had to pick up something from one of his friends, and it was terrible. His mates were coming onto me like you would not believe - and they had known me for almost 11 years at that point! I have NEVER again worn Essence of Woman anywhere I will not be with my SO.

So… be careful what you wish for, as the saying goes.

  • If you wear Essence of Woman out and about,
  • if you wear it clubbing with the girls
  • If you wear it just going SHOPPING,
    PLEASE be aware that you ARE transmitting the signal that you are ready for, and up for, sex.

I might sound like I am being overly-cautious here, but a pure copulin concentrate like this which DOES ramp the Testosterone spike from Baseline to qpprox, 140% in as LITTLE as 20 minutes of a man encountering a woman wearing it, is not for playing games with. Again, I talk about this in detail in Laurie’s sticky at the top of this forum.

You might just find yourself in a right pickle of bother if you wear Essence of Woman for example the first time you are with a guy that you don’t really know, and even worse - know nothing ABOUT, so you have to make sure what your body is signaling by you wearing the Essence of Woman (I am ready for sex - and NOW) is the same as what you WANT to be saying.

What I am really trying to say here is, NO-ONE likes a tease, and if you use Essence of Woman without having the mindset “I WANT SEX” you need to be very aware that men will THINK you want sex. Fair? No, of course it is not fair, but then is it fair of a woman to wear a product SCIENTIFICALLY-PROVEN to augment a man’s testosterone level by over 130% VERY quickly, and make him want her like no other - if she has no intention of following through?

Again no, it is NOT fair.

No, always has to mean NO, and there are no two ways about that. However, if you DELIBERATELY apply a product which indicates without any question, your intent - then you turn around and mind-shag a guy after he is only after all responding to the signals YOU are putting out there - you need to think HARD about just WHERE your responsibility for your actions begins and ends.

Essence of Woman is an amazing product, and if you want to have full-on, animalistic sex, and you have worked out the method of application that works best for YOU - then it IS absolutely at the time-being unbeatable, until Michael comes up with his own copulin concentrate elixir, but if all you want is to get a wee bit of attention and harmlessly flirt - do NOT opt for EW. Instead opt for amazing products like Instant Sexiness, Shine, Instant Honesty and Instant Openness.

I am only saying THINK before you just add Essence of Woman into the pheromone equation.

Ail :slight_smile:

I definitely agree that intent is a big factor. By that I mean, based on what I have read on this fourm, that your intention should be similar to what your intentions would be if you went out in a see-through top. LOTS of attention, not all of it positive. I have never actually worn a see-through top in public, but it seems like common sense to expect a big reaction if you are waving a red flag in front of a bull (best analogy I could come up with).

I have not had the success with EOW that so many others have. . . not sure why. Maybe because I have read so many posts about being careful that I am actually a little afraid of it, and maybe that transmits as part of my intention. I HAVE worn it to the office, because with complete lack of response from my SO, I didn’t believe. But also erring on the side of caution, I only wore one drop split between my neck pulses. . .nothing.

fabulous post Ail.
NEEDS TO BE A STICKY .

i want to add to that a bit more, because its no lie that Essence of Woman is fun to play with.

we are using pheromones that are being displayed in a strength not found on the human body.

instead of wearing a smile, we are wearing a neon sign sometimes :stuck_out_tongue:

isnt that why we are here? we dig the neon signs?

we dig the upliftment of instant shine among many, and the serious gab-fest that insues with Instant Honesty .

the thing with cops though is that raising a guys test this way is more acute than say a specific diet, visual stimulation, working out.

your getting a quick “you might miss this unless you act now” feeling in someone who might be going in that direction anyway- in thought- and thought they would take their time with you. now they are rushed :open_mouth:

wearing the cop amounts in instant sexiness and Lust After Me is PERFECT, its a reasonable amount.
enough to feel girly and sexy and have a definate female vibe.

with that said, i NEVER want to be without my copulin mixtures.
i want to be the first to buy Androtics version of Essence of Woman.

timing in use is everything .

Sticky!

Sticky!

Should we all get out our pitchforks again? It worked on Jasmin last time . . . :smiley:

xoxo
jp

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Originally Posted by Ail view post

I am only saying THINK before you just add Essence of Woman into the pheromone equation.

True, so true…good post Ail!

And, yes, I do like using it for mischief…:smiley: just for funzies…

But, I would note to the other new users on here…I have been using it for YEARS, I know what type of reactions it will get, and how to handle that, and I am with a very non-jealous man…when we go out in public, he is used to the attention I get and he actually likes it…if you have a jealous mate, or are not used to the strong reactions, please wear only at home…

Sticky! Sticky!

Superb post. Thank-you so much. I absolutely agree, and I think that is why I have NOT yet purchased EoW is because it’s like playing with a Magnum when I am still only adept with a bee bee pee wee shooter. I’d rather learn about the affects on me and from me first with the sort of lighter/easiers pheros. And THEN bring EoW into my arsenal, when I am sort of at the graduate level of usage.

Thanks ladies, this is fabulous! OK, so a TOUCH of mischief is fun, but from me only at a very LOW dose! (who WAS that masked woman who walked through here to whom I responded with a / )

All the best!

April

Thanks for the update. Great post Ail, it should be a sticky.

I figure that wearing a tiny smidge of cops is beneficial because it puts me on even footing with the ladies who naturally produce a lot of cops. However, wearing even a drop of copulins formulae like EoW definitely sends me message, “I’m ovulating so let’s mate,” and it’s best to avoid sending mixed signals.

Moving this over from the Pink sugar thread.

I was one of the ones who was having trouble getting the EOW to work. I didnt give up though and with the help of the girls and alot of reading and re-reading it happened.:smiley: I for one will not wear it without my husband around me. I may put maybe a few drops in a large bottle of EO but I would not wear it neat unless I am home and the kids are out LOL.

I was not letting it set long enough and I was not using enough. I need 6 full drops and they work best in places that heat up like inner elbow, hairline and clevage. Since I am home and I am in my jammies (for a few minites :wink: ) when I use it sometime I will put it behind my knees or inner thighs.

My suggestion for newbies is if you really want to wear it out dont wear it neat. Get a atomizor from the store and fill it with a scent you like then just add a few drops and shake it up. Remember also just because a guy dosnt act like a dog in heat dosnt mean he dosnt smell it. He may just have alot of control or something. God forbid you are wearing alot and run into someone with no control of himself. I am not trying to scare anyone or make them not buy the product but I have been married for 19 years and the last 5 or so things have been kinda routine if you know what I mean. I noticed a few drops mixed in a EO and my husband was nicer sweeter and more talkative but not really horny. 6 drops straight and the kids have to go to my moms because they cant be in the house for this.:open_mouth: LOL.

Tisha

Great post, Tisha. I would give you rep points, but apparently I have to share the love around a little more. I appreciate your insights --maybe I won’t be giving up the use of it all together.

Waaaa…
Boy, I feel left out of the EoW club… What’s the password, again :smiley:?

No seriously,
I have been trying very persistantly to get it right, and even mixed up an Ail-inspired mixture of some wonderful oils and EoW..

And it’s not to say that it doesn’t work (as it does, in the bedroom, just not in a mind-blowing way like some of you have experienced. Just sometimes results in making the transition from a busy day to sex slightly easier).

it just doesn’t work for me in as blatant a way as Ail (like, nobody hits on me while wearing it out, for example.. no matter the dose), so that’s why I don’t understand why I shouldn’t wear cops in public..

If it did for me what it does for Ail, I prolly wouldn’t mind wearing it in public, just for sheets and giggles (plus, my man enjoys when I get attention from other males)…

I will keep trying, though. I can’t be the ONLY one wrong on this..

Hotmama

Yes, sometimes it takes a little bit of use to get it “just right” for you…most of the ones who were having trouble just weren’t wearing enough…

Try increasing your dosage to the point where you think it is almost too much…notice I say ALMOST…don’t go completely whole hog…then see what happens…that is how I finally found my correct dosage…:wink:

Alseides, where are you? :slight_smile:

she would be great to mention a dosage here …:stuck_out_tongue:

I think she mentioned 7-8 drops neat..

What about you, Dolly, how much is good for you?

I have a concoction of this great-smelling oils and EoW, about half and half, and it covers the scent really well. Do I double the amount when I use EoW diluted like that?

Yeah, I have some Essence of Woman mixed with oils like that. If I am going all out, I put one drop on each side of my neck, one on each wrist, and 1-2 in my cleavage. Then I cover with the Essence of Woman/oil blend. Try it…:smiley: it’s fun!

I don’t think my body produces cops any more…I was on really STRONG bc pills for about 20 years, and I think it KILLED my natural cops production…so I NEED a strong EW blend to get it to work…:wink:

I mixed 20 drops of ylang ylang essential oil (and a trace amount of musk and jasmine chems) into my bottle of Dirty with 5x cops, and it’s really mild and pleasant smelling now. Ylang is a great cover for cops - I could probably bathe in this and not start a riot.

Wow… do you think that BCPs affect copulin production? I’ve been on them nearly continuously for 13 years. I have often doubted that I produce natural copulins, but I have no idea how to tell if I do or not. :confused:

I read an article a while back that theorized that bc usage would affect copulin production. I think that is why I can practically bathe in them and not run a risk of OD…I have to use a lot to get a reaction…

Oh they absolutely do - massively so.

Particularly in women under 40, as they tend to be prescribed very strong Monophasic bcp due to their Oestrogen levels, and then the natural copulin output is virtually nil.

Women using Monophasic bcp (Biphasic does not lower the copulin output as radically, Triphasic will lower it only slightly) Nuevo-Ring, Erthro-Cept patch (both last are banned here in the UK as of February this year) and also Depo Provera (that would be me) do NOT have a high natural copulin output at all.

It’s why Dolly and I can practically swim in Essence of Woman with no ill effects whatsoever. :slight_smile:

Ail :slight_smile:

Im, not sure, then from what i read we all produce a sort of couplin, so wouldn’t we all send a message of that sort, but the guy i was with was very calm and at ease, but aggressive, but yes i agree we must make this a sticky

I have to agree with Ail and Dolly. I was on the pill on and off for 18 years and I think that is why I need to use alot of EOW for it to work. I was being to cautious before because of the stink factor and because most of my earlier information on EOW was from the love scent forum and they really scared the hell out of people when it comes to EOW. I know that was the beta batch they were talking about but they even said the new batches had to be diluted, outside, wearing gloves LOL.

HotMama Hang in there you will get it. I was really getting disappointed that it wasnt working and I was reading a post by dolly about BC and how she can wear alot without ODing. It was something like 2 or 3 am when I said what the heck cant hurt to put alot on neat. I will just shower after hubby go’s to work. Well he got up and I didnt really expect much but holy cow what a complete turn around. He was so late for work.

Tisha