Newbie first experience with essence of woman

So I just got my shipment… will return with my SO reaction… by the way it doesn’t stink that bad.

Sooooooo as of now I have no results… my SO didn’t even bat an eyelash… so disappointing. Im going to keep in wearing it. Maybe better luck tomorrow

I don’t know how much you wore, but I know if you do a forum search you will find a lot of great info about dosing. Someone, it may have been Tisha, has said some people need to wear much more of it than others. Also, the people close to us are used to our phero signature and it takes a little more time for them to adjust to changes. I know I read one thread where the poster said they had to use a whole lot more than I would have thought neccessary, like 10 drops or something like that, before her husband responded.

Don’t give up! Don’t be disappointed, it’s research! Read and get a little more guidance and keep on trying! You will get it right!:slight_smile:

I did read some stuff.. I read that certain births control will stop or slowdown our natural pheromones…of course im on it. So I added somemore… letting it settle for a while… I hope I didn’t put on too much.

Still no reaction…I added more drops…but nothing. He was acting weird, aggressive but not in a sexual way. Almost in a “about to have an argument” way. Very wierd

What product or products are you testing right now and are you using the sweet spot method?

I am using the EOW now and i have been putting drops on my wrists and my chest.

I am trying it out at work today… maybe ill get some hits from these guys. will keep you guys updated throughout the day.

so i think i got one hit… a random guy that i walked past started up a random conversation with me. Im not sure if it was the makeup or the cops but i did see something out of the norm.
-also now that im thinking over it my SO has been chasing after me a little, very little, more than usual. usually we are in bed already when the fun starts. I came in the room to get something, and bent down “sexy” and he was ready to go. not sure if that was a hit but it was a bit strange.

Hmm, usually cops are not encouraged at jobs because it is inappropriate depending on what kind of work you do.

What kind of work do you do?

I encourage you to open a journal to write down your findings whether you consider them a hit or not in more detail that way just like when you use a recipe to bake a cake we can figure out what is wrong and guide you accordingly.

Hi Indarican,

Yes, the Pill effects your natural copulins production. Women who use the Pill or are past menopause don’t produce copulins. So, if you’re on the Pill you need to use more EoW than a woman who is fertile/ovulating. The only way to figure out how much you need is by doing what you’re doing… adding drops until you get the response you’re after. :wink:

Your husband acting weird, in an aggressive rather than sexual way, actually makes sense if you understand what copulins do. When copulins are worn by a woman, they’re capable of raising men’s testosterone levels by 150% within fifteen minutes of exposure and high testosterone can make a lot of men feel aggressive. Think of athletes, the locker room… all that testosterone in the air pumping them up… :open_mouth: … you get the picture. Aggression and testosterone go hand in hand and some men can handle a surge better than others.

Even though, technically, copulins aren’t classified as pheromones, they do act like them. And often when you first start using pheromones it takes a while to see reactions, especially with people who know you well. They’re use to your “natural” signature and sometimes they respond in unexpected ways because you’re throwing them a curve ball. Although from what you’ve said it sounds like EoW is working for you. :slight_smile: It’s taking your husband a minute to catch onto the “new” you but he is responding.

Speaking of surges, whether you realize it or not you successfully managed to “re-direct” his aggression, in the direction you were hoping for. By bending over you steered him in the right direction. Good move! :smiley: :wink: You can also kick things up by adding some Instant Sexiness B and/or sweeten the deal with a spray or two of IH for more intimacy.

Although I know you were just testing out EoW at work to see if you could drum up a reaction, I do agree with Mick that you should be careful with cops at work. A little attention is nice, of course, but remember the signal you’re sending with EoW is a sexual one…one that clearly states that you’re willing and ready for sex. And that signal doesn’t discriminate, it goes out to everyone in your vicinity. How a man manages himself when he’s effected by EoW depends on the man. Some can better control their impulses than others. While a more controlled man might engage you in conversation and admire you with long glances, another might pursue you with wanton abandon… ya never know. So, think about where you’ll be wearing it and who you’ll be around lest you send that signal to the wrong person(s). It’s a good thing to consider if you don’t want to inspire unwanted attention/sexual advances.

Anyways, I think you’re doing better than you think you think you are. You just have to remember to work it to your advantage. If I were you, I’d invest in some shoes that require tying, lol. :wink:

Bella

@bella
Ok no more EOW at work, although i didnt notice anything except for that one instance but better safe then sorry right!! So the aggression is a sign that its working? i was under the impression that this was a sexual thing, im not sure i want to use EOW if its going to make me and him fight :confused:. unfortunately i cant remember how many drops i used… maybe it was too much?
thanks for your insight, i really appreciate it!

You might wanna get TUTH(Turn Up The Heat) and dab a a biit behind your ears and let him smell it or a couple of drops on his pillow. see how that works.

be quick. TUTH just got back in stock and the men are always on it!

I don’t know if you’re using too much EoW. If you think so, try using less and see if you can still get a response. The aggressive feeling he’s getting is due to the rise in his testosterone levels from being exposed to EoW. It is a sexual signal but, as I said above, some men can handle a surge of testy better than others. Maybe your guy is one of the ones who can’t handle it and there are reason for that. Among them could be that he just produces a lot of natural testosterone and being exposed to more just brings out his aggressive tendencies.

I’m sorry, Sarafina, but I don’t think TUTH is a good idea. That would just be adding fuel to the fire and not in a good way, because TUTH is mostly Androstenone and she’s already having trouble with her husbands aggression. So, that would more the likely just push him over that edge.

Personally I’d skip it and use more social molecules, such as the ones I suggested above, to smooth things out a bit. :slight_smile: In fact, if the aggression continues, I might opt out of EoW altogether and go strictly for the socials. Often you can get more of the reaction you’re looking for with the social molecules rather than the sexual ones. Even Instant Shine is attractive on it’s own! Give it a whirl, Indarican, you’ve got nothing to lose. :wink:

Bella

thanks, ill try smaller doses! im waiting for my IS and Instant shine to come…so excited to try them out.