Bad Day with IS/b :(!

[Bella]

@CookieGirl

Ugh.

Had a pretty crappy day with the SO. To be honest, I was excited to try IS/b since I do consider myself more kittenish than …tiger..ish? Yeah. But by the end of the day, we argued about three times and I cried all three. Jesus. I mean, I’m not gonna lie and say I never ever cry in our arguments but not THIS much.

Instead of feeling kittenish it felt more like… watching kittens getting punted in the face. And I was crying almost hysterically, much like a wounded animal. Very uncharacteristic. Who does that nowadays ?

So, this was your first time out with IS/B. By your description it wasn’t a very good time. Meh, it happens. Sometimes even with the best laid plans it doesn’t quite work the way we’d heard about or would like it to.

Any pheromone can take a little getting used to. The first few times I used P74, I crashed hard. I use TAA instead of Instant Shine, 'cause Shine gives me a dull head. Everyone’s different in their reactions, even to the same molecules. Both IS/B and IS/A can have profound self effects.That’s why it’s important to start with one spray and work your way up. We all over use something at some point and have had a not so pleasant reaction. I’m gonna say that you should have probably started with one spray and worked your way up from there. I think you used too much to start out. Sometimes it’s just a case of becoming acclimated to certain pheromones.

Wearing too much TAH can make you feel run over and it can make people feel as though they can run over you as well.

Next time try one spray to the back of your head/neck.

This isn’t as odd a reaction as you might think, Cookie. I think you’ll find the ladies comments in this thread enlightening. I hope it helps.

Here, the link - Can TAH be responsible?

I had 3 sprays of IS/b, one to the wrist and two on my neck ( one in front and on back) today. I should mention that I had four drops of EOW layered underneath, with Pink Sugar. This is the newest EOW and when it dried down it smelled alot like rotten…fruit.

I think your confusion comes from the way the girls have been describing the new batch as compared to how much the older ones stunk. Though it’s weaker, the new version of EoW still stinks. So, don’t think it’s weird…the rotten fruit smell you’re getting is spot on. You probably already know…but just in case…after applying straight EoW it’s important to let it dry down thoroughly, at least 10 minutes but I wait about 15-20. Then apply your cover. If you’re afraid of stinkin’, you can always spray or roll it directly over the spots where you applied the EoW if you want to make sure it’s really covered.

So.. alright, it sucked. My question(s) of the day is 1. Does anyone else get really emo over this and 2. Its awfully coooold here and I feel like people have to practially be on top of me, to be affected by it. Any tips to help with diffusion in chilly weather ?

So, it sucked. That’s OK, you’ll live to freak yourself out another day.

1. Yes, pheromones are very mood directed. (the point Whitehall makes, about your cycle, is a good one and may speak directly to the reaction you had while wearing IS/B) Sometimes it’s like a snowball, if ya get my drift. It can grab hold whether your mood is positive or negative and take you for a ride. 2. Applying pheromones in cold weather doesn’t give you a whole lot of choice for application points. Where I live it’s parkas, boots and turtlenecks for the most part. Hair is my primary application point in winter. Though neck and wrists work, also. I spray my wrists and push up my sleeves to expose them.

Bella