IS/B report: received insults while wearing it in a combo, unlike my usual IS/A

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Ok, here is my official IS/B report. I wore Is/B + Ew (2 teeny drops) + mx 135 + mx 274 + popularity potion from Lp (all in different spots).

My normal mix is this but IS/A replaced instead of IS/B.

Put my mixes on, felt extraordinarily sexual and confident (more than Is/A?),
so hung out w my girls, they were giving me extra special treatment in a good way.

Got a mirage of insults following gf hangout and terribly sensitive to them (very unusual for me).

Insult #1- some street guys, screaming “hey theres another one of those anorexic white girls”. The ridiculous part of that comment is I am 15 pounds overweight (everywhere), and my doctor will back me up on that one.

Insult #2-hung out w my gf and her husband, he continuosly was arguing with me, my point of view AND told me I was an idiot after I WAS defending male pov on an issue for another gf. I have never hung out w him wearing any of my mixes, and I never plan on it, my gf grabbed him and ran off, I was stuck with the check???

Insult #3-standing on a train platform, big dude w dreadlocks, came up to me and started screaming I was taking his daughters seat, I ran in the other direction TERRRIFIED of any form of violence from a guy. Im only 5’4, I started tearing up uncontrollably, had to exit subway and cab it home, totally trembling and terrified.

Im not sure if IS/B is ready for city-folk or maybe there is just a lack of respect for overtly femme energy, but this definitely will be my last IS/B round.

Back on the A team…

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Oh my goodness. All I could think of is that those people were really rude to you, rude people, pheros don’t make people mean, it naturally comes out, so I feel like those people were naturally a**holes (but then this is my point of view)

I’m not very helpful, but I’m really sorry about your experience, I don’t know what to say.

Hope things for well for you, and don’t make mean people win sweetie. There are those days where life is such a bitch, and all we can do is fuck it.

Take care sweetie!
xox
Selva

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Wow. Reps for brave phero experimentation. At least now you know you’re an A-girl and not a B-girl!

For me, B softens my rough edges - that bitchy critical demanding side just smooths right out, I relax and laugh more, I’m easier on myself and others. I’m more of a good-time girl, but there’s no way I’m ever going to be somebody they can intimidate or roll right over, even when I’m wearing IS/B.

I totally subscribe to the theory that choosing A vs B is a matter is balancing, not matching, one’s personality.

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Thanks for your support msselva and carrie.

I am very confident in my femininity, I probably appear outwardly to be more of an Is/B girl naturally. My body IS marilyn monroe/monica belluci. Because of the incongruency of my thoughts/ideas and emotions (always ready and excited for Calculus or higher sciences and humanitarian efforts) Ive had to transform my personality and work extra hard to prove my brain and my personality as not a ditz but as a tough woman.

I really feel IS/A has made that bridge for me.

Im sad because deep down I am probably more IS/B in my feminine essence, but femme is soo out and disrespected (especially in big city, where I live), that anything is deemed better, so I like many of my gf’s transform ourselves, arm ourselves so to speak and become the tough-girl acting brood men love, just for respect.

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Woah! lady, consider yourself lucky! I’ve just got Ds, and love handles no matter how much I diet or exercise :frowning: – yuk!!! I’d kill to have an hourglass body like marilyn monroe! :open_mouth:

omg, I can relate myself to you! I’m a total nerd too (one of my example: got my own office when I was 17 as a photo editor) but when people see me, they just stereotype me as the stupid girly girl. lol, reminds me, there used to be a guy in my class last year, and he HATED my gutts, because of his really quick jugdement since he thought that I was such a ditz and stupid LOL!. But after he knew me, he was like woah “there is a nancy drew in this betty boop” lol. That’s how some of us are.

But, never let them put you down, some people will make assumptions and judgements real quick. You can’t make everyone like you and respect you, seriously, don’t beat yourself down about it. It’s part of nature, some will treat you badly, cause their stupid, jealous, know that they don’t have a chance with you, while others will wonder hmm…who is that young lady?

However, I love the fact that you’re standing up for yourself, and you’re like, “hmph! I’ll show you people that I’ve got the beauty and the books too!”

Ah ok, yea most people unfortunately don’t respect femme

Geeze, I feel like most of it come from the television, like marilyn munroe, pamela anderson, paris hilton … and movies like “legally blonde” :roll_eyes: sigh if there was a same amount of blondes but portrayed smarter! Things are sooo stereotyped!

okay, lol, I think I went sooo off-topic lol

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That reminds me, I do have a blonde girlfriend who is really beautiful and she plays into the whole dumbblonde cache to very skillfully manipulate people into getting what she wants. She has perfected this into an artform, her own kids even get tricked! I would say that some of these “dumb blondes” can be far, far smarter than the rest of us…

Back to my b nightmare, It was very interesting because I am normally the woman who fights back, I can have a REALLY nasty tongue if provoked, but on b, I just felt so overly vulnerable, fearful and attacked that my normal defenses were shot down.

Msselva, You made me laugh trotting down memory lane with you!

Betty-Boop and Nancy Drew rolled into 1 giant nerdball (with sexy D’s to boot!).

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Wow Julia what an unfortunate experience. Its a shame to have to put on a false face to get by.
Your gf H sounds like an asshole.

Yea, maybe re-work that combo. Funny, I have had some negative stuff from my IS/A + LAM combo. Maybe just too much women for people.

Shame on your blonde friend for acting ditzy. She is giving the rest of us a bad name. I am constantly treated like a dumb blonde when out in public. That makes me behave more reserved so I dont look stupid, then I get labelled as stuck up.

Why do we women have to put so much thought into this. Are men really that shallow that they only can see our physical attributes?

I am starting to get disgusted. Most of my adult life I was a FATTIE FATTIE FATTIE. Yes, no other way to say it. I ate all day. 2 Big Macs - no problemo - where is the third? I was pretty invisible (even tho i am a blonde) just the fat mom who picks up her kids.
Since I have lost a significant amount of weight (50lbs) - the SAME people are treating me DIFFERENTLY. I am the same on the inside. Nothing has changed. Except the way everyone is nice to me. Its really hard not to lose respect for these people.

Julia it seems like you got your perspective back after that nightmarish incident. Its them, not you. There is nothing wrong with you.

Oh and for the record. :smiley: I AM PROUD TO BE A NERD! :smiley:

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I’d be curious for you to try your day over using mx 274. It seems to get great reactions from people trying to take care of you and give you stuff!

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Oh no, Julia! I guess people took you for an easy target to their unkind words… Definitely that GF of yours needs a talking to, her attitude’s so not on.

Funny thing how we’re IS/A or IS/B… I’m IS/A but I have a colleague, if I wear it around her, we turn into total bitches. To the point of fighting at the office :0

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OMG Julia I am so sorry that you had to go through that. What a bunch of dick heads these guys are. There is nothing wrong with you or with the pheromones. There are a lot of crazy, messed up people out there. I believe the people that were unkind and vicious towards you are really f___ked up and the pheromone mixture just brought out who they really are.

MX274 always makes me feel happy. Give yourself a few sprays it will brighten your day!!

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Mmmm. Yeah. I agree, TAH and TAL are tricky to manage. If you are fending for yourself, TAL is better and I don’t think TAH helps much. IMO TAH highlights a certain vulnerability, and many folks are healthily attracted to that. These same people are likely to defend you when there is trouble, but you must ask for their assistance if and when you need it. There are also people who need to vent and they look for targets who won’t fight back, and TAH can attract them too.

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Thanks Ladies for the support, I did really need it!

Kitten, I think your right on with the Tah/Tal descriptions, the vulnerability highlighted by Tah IS far too great a risk for me to handle here in the big apple, definitely would try again if I were a country babe.

In hindsight I now see what you mean Carrie, pheros are great for balancing, not matching ones personality. I think if I were more Is/A naturally I would need tah to soften up, but the opposite is more my case and Is/A certainly gives me that edge up in all my affairs.

Btw everyone, I did speak to my friend, I did set her straight.

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Julia.

Good to hear you talked to your friend. What was up with that anyway?
Hopefully she will be treating you with the respect you deserve from now on. Otherwise thththttttttttttttttttttthhhhhhhhh!

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Last night was 1 BIG, BAD UGLY and AWFUL night. But, Im over and past it.

I dont have a problem getting respect, ever. especially not w her, so not an issue for me now, you live, you learn and you reassert yourself every now and again.

On to bigger and better…

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Awww shitty night! (((hugs))) REPS for your attitude today though. Always on to bigger and better things - life is just too short!

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Thanks LadyD., hugs back!

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Poor you! hugs And how dare the husband and his girl leave you with the check?? I have to agree with what Kitten said about attraction to certain pheros though. There will always be a-holes for that, but never let it stop you from being who you are.

Reppy because it takes guts to make a post like that.