I’m a guy in my mid-20s based in the San Francisco bay area, and I guess the subject line sums up the entire reason I’m here. I’m still a bit uncertain about the effectivity of all this, but as of late I’ve been on a roll in terms of trying out new things- things that’ve greatly enhanced my self image and interpersonal relationships.
So I’ve heard about pheromones, read up on them, read the posts on this site a bit, and like what I see so far. Time for me to jump in, and, see if things work for me.
Hey there, welcome. If you write about what you plan to use them for i.e women, work.. people may be able to suggest some products. Plus you get the store discount!
Have you decided which products you’re interested in yet? Ammo & instant shine seem to be the most popular among the men here, but I also suggest either instant honesty or instant openness. They’re both great for conversation and make skepticism impossible once you’ve noticed people reacting to them.
The advice you receive is dependent on the information you give, we’re a friendly group so don’t hesitate to explain what situations you’d like to use your new pheromones. The mens sticky section tabbed at the top of the forum there are also a great help to get familiar with the products.
I actually did some study on picking up women last year (books, web discussions, no seminars unfortunately as they were EXPENSIVE), but I found that I actually used the techniques for a wider audience. I used the techniques to be able to lengthen and deepen discussions with friends at work, balance rapport with new and old friends, and even relate to other members of the family. In short, what I took from the whole PUA thing was not really picking up women. Truth be told, I’m still FAR from being able to really “pick up” anybody. But I’m infinitely more sociable now, and have learned not only how to make new friends, but how to maintain personal relationships as well. Funny enough, I’ve become known as “the life of the party”, after growing up really quiet and reserved. And I guess the part where I started hearing about women finding me cute came as a byproduct of all that.
So where does all this pherotalk come into play? Phermones + Action = unbeatable combination right? I feel I’m at a stage where I want to take where I am a step further. I want to take it up a notch and completely become the person I want to be. Right now, hmm, I’m probably a good 50-60% there.
I want to take the social skills I have now, combine them with pheromones, and see if I can become a leading man straight out of a movie. Haha.
I’m actually looking to get Instant Shine, Instant Female Magic, and A314. Instant Openness seems to be fun too but that’s still a “maybe” for me.
Situations? Hmm… I guess I’m looking to get the ff. out of all this:
a. Be the Alpha. Be able to grab attention and command respect. I’m thinking this would be most helpful in the workplace since I’m a mid-20’s guy in an office campus filled with 35-50 year old Masters/Doctorate-degree holding tech professionals. But also, it’d be nice to walk into a room and just “be there”. I’m kinda getting the notice upon entering a room a bit already but I feel it would be nice to amplify this somewhat.
b. Be the life of the party and/or help brighten people’s days. You know you always love being in the company of people who make you feel good. I’m trying to work on this verbally/in action with other people at the moment, and would love to try and combine it with Instant Shine.
c. I’m not going to lie. I like women. I like being around them.
d. Be able to talk to anyone, anywhere, about anything.
All of these things I kinda improved upon in my personal life already as a result of my independent PUA study last year, and I want to work on amplifying the skills to obtain what I really want, which is to pretty much be a guy straight out of a movie that every other guy wants to be.
Hello Browned and welcome to the forum.A lot of us were very skpetical at first but we are nere because pheromones have proven very effective for us.What they are not: a magic formula that will bend people to your will. What they do: They give you an edge in a variety of social situations. But you have to take positive action in order to take advantage of the edge they give you. You will also have towork with them a little at first to see how the products work for you at what doses.So - if you tell us a little more about yourself: personality, what you want to do with the pheromones, - we can help make the right recommendations for you. All these products work, but not every product is appropriate for every situation.Plus Tisha will come by and send you a $15.00 gift certificate.Looking forward to hearing more from you.
I have no doubts that pheromones worked for all of you. It wouldn’t make sense for all of you to stick around if they didn’t. I’m actually really excited to try this stuff out (probably once my discount arrives ), and right now, as I said , I’m looking into Instant Shine, Instant Female Magic, A314, and Instant Openness.
As for my personality, you could probably say I “learned” to be sociable. I used to be the kid who stayed indoors and played 1-player videogames. I couldn’t even see the value in multiplayer games. I had friends, but I always valued (and still do) a lot of time alone. Thus, to a point, my social life suffered. Then I made life adjustments. I still love spending time alone in the house, where I can do whatever I want, but throw me in any social situation and I’ll make it through. I party, make new friends really easily, inject humor into situations, and have even become known as the life of the party, when I used to be the “reactive” guy. My personal network of friends in an environment where I’ve lived for only 2 1/2 years is growing constantly now, where it never grew at all in my first 1 1/2 years. Everything happened practically in 2007.
As I said before, what I want to do is take all that and move it up a notch. Up the social interactions, up the social status, up the attraction, up the quality of life as a result. Then maybe once I get settled in, I won’t need to rely on pheromones as often as in the beginning. My philosophy is, whatever gets me to my goals, as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone, is worth trying.
Quick question though: Let’s say I use Instant Shine today and hang out with friends, and they literally feel the energy and feel better. What happens tomorrow when I don’t use it? Do they say, “Hey. This guy’s different today. I don’t feel as good around him as I did yesterday.” ?
No after they are exposed to it they subconsciously associate it to you. So as long as your basically congruent with the pheromonal vibe your sending they will still recall that upliftment and comfort around you. The feeling will be more prominant when wearing the mones but once you have them off it will still be recalled.
If you have any other questions just let us know,
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), and right now, as I said , I’m looking into Instant Shine, 
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