Been in the lab...

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports
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I wrote on my Newbie introduction page what happened the first night I got my products and was told that I should post over here to get more of a response…

Well, a lot has happened since then. Here’s my strategy.. I thought 2 sprays of Ammo smelled like pee so I reduced it to 1 (on the chest) and I haven’t had any problems. I use 1 drop of A314 by my ears and jaw and then finish it off with 1 spray of IS or Instant Honesty, whichever I’m in the mood for.

One woman (this is all at work) that I haven’t talked to in a long time because she was on a different shift came over to talk to me and condole me about my wife’s affair. She seemed like she kept on wanting to leave to get back to work but couldn’t pull herself away. She stayed talking to me for 20-30 minutes. She is 4 months pregnant and was getting married 2 days later. After she left my male coworkers, jokingly, asked if I was the one that got her pregnant and if she was marrying me…

I have noticed that woman talk to me more, of course, I am not sure if it is because of the 'mones or if I am looking that good since I lost 50 pounds. They do constantly tell me I look great which makes me feel good since my wife never gave me compliments.

I had been doing all of this to get my wife back but it seems she has moved in with this kid. She never comes to work so I can’t work the “magic” on her. I guess it’s time to move on to greater quests… back to the lab…

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Hi Dale. Sorry to hear about your situation. I’m a recent divorcee, so I understand the pain of a crashing marriage all too well. If I may, perhaps a little non-pheromone advice might help. Actually, it looks as if you’re already doing what I’m intending to tell you, so just keep it up. That would be taking care of yourself first and foremost. You’re working out and losing weight, which is fantastic. The depression that comes with a breakup can be severely damaging to your health, so make that your #1 priority. Get that exercise, take a good multivitamin daily, and don’t be afraid to treat yourself to some new clothes or an expensive new cologne (Might I suggest Green Irish Tweed? Hehe. Check the Parfum forum for a recent post about it, including some good sources.). Women aren’t the only ones who can find solace in self indulgence like this, and nothing quite salves a bruised ego than looking in a mirror and realizing just how damn good you look in that new outfit, and/or how good that new cologne smells on you. (GIT is a great cover for Neroli-based pheros, and works well with the Game scented ones. Just allow the Game scented stuff to dry down completely before covering).

The point in all this is to raise yourself up above the mire that dwelling on current events can suck you into. It’s easy for me to suggest it all, and I know it’s hard as fuck to pull off at first, but it does get easier. No matter how crappy you feel on the inside, try to project a sense that you’re getting along just fine, thank you very much. People notice this, not the least of which will be your wife. Even if you’re not seeing her at work, others might be in touch with her and may feel compelled to mention “Have you seen Dale lately? I hardly recognize him…”, etc.

Plus, this also sets into motion a principle of “Going first”. Going first simply is another way of saying “Fake it til you make it”, and it does work. It’s hard at first, but eventually your body–and most of all, your psyche-- can’t help but fall in line with a constant conscious effort to be in high spirits.

Now with regard to pheromones, you’ve gotten some great advice in your other thread. Instant Honesty is a wonderful product, as is Instant Shine. Ammo and TUTH complement them both by adding that sexual edge to it, TUTH being the more potent of the two. A314 is also something you can’t lose on, so good on you for getting a hold of the stuff.

Oh, and I also saw that you wondered if you had to shake the pheros due to some oddball spraying at first. You’ve probably already figured that out, but that’s just what happens when you first use the spray. Gotta prime the pump. Shaking is not necessary.

A belated welcome to the communiuty to you, and please keep us posted on your progress!

-D4

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Okay, I took your advice and got Green Irish Tweed, the 2.5 Tester from Frangrancex at $86 (which I thought was a really good price)…

Now, If only I could afford a new wardrobe – none of my clothes fit me anymore… one thing at a time.

You know the awful thing is, I have to work with her and see her and know that she is with some punk kid… and he certainly isn’t going to smell as good as me!!

Thanks for your help data4.

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Dale, take it from another guy who knows the pain you are going through, when I divorce my first wife, it took me three years to get my head straight, those three years impacted on my next relationship and is one of the reasons that I am now getting divorced for the second time!

Take it one day at a time and get your head around what has happened. Once you have achieved that, dump those thoughts of anger and despair in your mental ‘recycle bin’ and move on with your life, leave others to theirs. Discover who you are and be that person, only then can the right partner find you. If you don’t get rid of your mental baggage, you risk making mistakes the next time round, causing further pain to yourself and someone who is completely innocent.

Sending you all the support I can.

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I do take it one day at a time… and, this is the first time in 4 years that I have been concentrating on me. Everything I did before was for her and I am now paying for that.

I am a member of infidelity sites but I like this site better because you get to hear happy stories and situations instead of cheating spouses and what they have done to their marriages/families…

I still have a lot of anger but I work it out – I am going through my 3rd session of P90X and I look really good – like the one guy says in the infomercial… “I wish I looked this good in High School…” :slight_smile: For all out there that want to get back in shape and are serious about it; I recommend P90X (highly). It ain’t easy and it takes commitment but it is worth it in the long run, I believe, and so do all the women that see me at work.

Just waiting for my GIT to arrive in the mail now. I’m going to be looking and smelling good…

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Interesting weekend…

My son is home from college and he came over to the house this past weekend. I had a couple of my friends over for a cookout. I had worked the previous night so by the time 6 or 7PM came around I took a nap on the couch. When I woke up I heard lots of joking around downstairs at my bar.. so I investigated. My son had invited some of his friends over and they were all having a good time playing drinking games.

I had never used TUTH but since there was an attractive younger woman present I wanted to see what would happen. Let’s just say she was hanging on me all night. One time, she thought of a song and I told her I had it on iTunes, at which point we came upstairs to my computer I’m using now and I sat down in my chair. No sooner did I do that when she sat down right on my lap and proceeded to give me a lap dance as the song played. WHOA… She wanted to listen to that song about 5 times in a row… :slight_smile:

Good stuff…

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How much did you apply, SD?

Thanks!

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1 spray to chest and 1 to wrists – so 2 sprays of regular strength TUTH… I covered with GIT.