best mones for the following

hi all, newbie here…wondering which one would be best for REALLY grabbing a womens attention…also whats best to where in a public situation vs
vs bar or party? also, would you really need to be around that person for at least how long…addtionally would have to were a combo of several…thanks.

jim

stickies at the top of the mens forum. ch-ch-ch-check them out