Case in point, I had a nice little three day weekend, had no major plans but to veg so no need to wear any mones. Let the residuals go away with time and a few showers. Got up for work this morning, figured it was a coworkers birthday so I’d go totally social and cut back my intimidation vibe. I went with two shots of IO and Three shots of Instant Shine. NO none or rone in my mix whatsoever…first time in two months I had no A314 or TuTH on.
Now for the most part nothing majorly drastic happened. But there’s this one little cutie that very playfully punches me from time to time. Like I said playfully, even flirtatiously. But today with no Rone or None on she suddenly turned into a bitch on wheels! Shit testing me like mad. I mean snide bitchy comments at the drop of a hat. Not angry, I hadn’t done anything to make her mad, just bitchy for the sake of being bitchy…and I was wearing my “happy mones” too!
Way I figure, she’d gotten used to my sig which normally has A314 as a base with some TuTH added in. Today without it, my sig might have seemed…weak? in comparison and she was shit testing me for congruency perhaps. I get a strong inclination she’s been interested and sensing a sudden lack of the power vibe she felt compelled to “test” me and see if I’m actually the kind of guy she’s sensed I was up until now.
That’s my theory anyway, anyone else have any other thoughts or similar experiences like this?
I tuned her out, the worse she got the less acknowledgment I gave her and the more invisible she became. I never reward bad behavior with attention.
As for why women shit test men, well the theory is basically that they do it because their interested in you and are testing your boundaries to make sure you’re as strong and assertive a man as they need. If you can’t stand up to them, then they can’t count on you to stand up for yourself when they need you to. A woman needs to know that if she gets pregnant with your child that you’re a go getter and have the backbone to be a suitable provider/protector. Yesterday she saw me for the first time without me wearing either none or rone based products. If she’s interested like I think she is, she probably sensed a weakness in me she hasn’t sensed before and reacted by shit testing me to see if I was still congruent with the A314 and TuTH she’d sensed on me for the past two months.
I hear you RAD. Honestly women play that double standard card way too much when it comes to shit testing. They expect you to put up with their verbal garbage. If a girl acts out of line with me I’ll ignore her too. If she really gets out of line I’ll put her in her place with my own words.
Best way to know if mones work IMO is to talk to the girl, get her a little comfortable, and key point try to push the kino boundaries (touching boundaries) Unless your really smoothe without mones you usually can’t break down social physical boundaries that fast. I’m not saying grope her or touch her in inappropriate ways by try touching her leg/knee/ her face/ her hand or other areas that you wouldn’t normally touch at first meeting with a girl. See how she reacts. If shes open to it I accept that its really mones at work to a certain degree. Obviously this test isn’t full proof because some girls are naturally more open to touch such as latinas or more outgoing girls but try this on a more conservative perhaps shy type. Its easier when you pick the appropriate target that you know theoretically wouldn’t be so open to you so fast.
DIHL’s are typically a rare event without mones so thats a typical indicator for me. When a girl is playing with her hair frantically like OCD or fixing her clothes constantly or touching up make up at an inopportune time (They can always go to the bathroom/washroom to touch up and come back to class because it just shows a little frailty of her own confidence when see her applying makeup in front of me)
Ho lee shit!!!
Ok so today I go back to my old mix…sorta. I apply my usual A314. 1 drop behind the ears, on split between the wrists, then added one to the center of my chest. Did my usual two shots of TuTH. I left the shine out though, intentionally but I still had a to go of IO on hand just in case.
So I get to work and my little shit tester starts in almost immediately with the sarcastic little comments. I jokingly point out our height difference and explain that I can’t hear her very well. (I’m 6’2", she’s 5’1") so she steps up on me (Bait taken). And she starts ballbusting me over nothing in particular same as yesterday. I’m smirking the whole time. I let her go and make like I’m adjusting my shirt to get a good waft going and then fold my arms so my wrists are basically inches from her face.
She’s still going for a minute, mockingly saying that me standing tall with my arms crossed doesn’t intimidate her etc. After a about a minute of this she stops and looks like she’s waiting for a response. I say nothing.
She starts shifting her weight, looking around avoiding eye contact…she actually looked almost annoyed with herself for not having anything else to say. After a few more seconds she sighs and apologizes for “being such a bitch” and swears she doesn’t know why she was acting like that.
So I reward her by saying that I forgive her and that I like her better when she’s nice like this. She actually blushed before saying that she should probably get back to work. Took a minute for the effects to kick in, but when they did she went from tigress to kitten.
I need AD to start restocking the 15 ml size of A314 so I can make sure I never run low!
The IO contains androstenols, which would make a man appear more feminine. Since you didn’t wear any nones, my guess is that she was wondering where that strong vibe from you went.
I wouldn’t take it too seriously unless it happens regularly. May not even been a shit test but merely her monthly hormonal upheaval. Little freakin’ angel and hell bitch for 2 or 3 or days. Splash A1 on her face and she’ll snap out of it. I wear A1 2 or 3 times a month for that very purpose. Works like a charm but is pretty useless otherwise.
Incidentally androstenol is a mone common in abundance to both sexes. It is not male or female but does signal health, fitness and social receptiveness. What makes it masculine or feminine are the other mones on your body coupled with your persona and appearance.
For getting laid, I find it more useful than even my beloved NPA.
