Hello everyone. I just became interested in the topic of pheromones as:
I am recently divorced (late 40s in appearance, but actually 53) and back in the dating pool.
I saw a youtube video that got me to thinking that just maybe there is something to this.
I am a biologist, so I’m aware of the extremely powerful role pheromones play in the animal kingdom (they are basically chemical messengers)
So, here I am ready to learn and try some things out.
My first question is this, what would be the best pheromone for attracting mid-late 30s to 40 year old asian females? Particular those that are well-educated, career types, perhaps with children (if that matters). I guess I am more interested in establishing a Long-term romance, but f something physical occurred, I am not going to prevent it. I do see that the women I am interested in tend to like successful males.
While I am successful in my career, I am a bit shy. Once the conversation starts, I’m good, but I want that something extra to draw them in and begin the attraction.
So, what would your recommendations be? I saw in some previous posts that A314 might be a good choice.
Welcome Bob to the forums,
You were right on track with your ideas with A314 but you could also try Instant Gentleman as it’s less intimidating. You cou could also layer any of the above with one of the socials like Instant Honesty or instant Openness to make the approachable factor high. Asian women tend to be a little none sensitive so you have to take that into consideration.
At your age you can easily pull off the A314 status vibe, so I’d go with that one as my base mix. Try the B spray first so you can figure out how the product works for you, you can still invest in the oil later.
Asian ladies in general tend to like androsterone better than androstenone, so that’s another vote for A314. A314 = a successful leader vibe.
In their 30s-40s I’m pretty sure you can add some TUTH to the mix to sexualise your A314 base without intimidating them.
IH or IS are also good for steering the A314 into more bonding/romantic directions.
Thanks for the replies. I will definitely be trying your recommendations.
Quick question, what does the research or your own personal evidence say about the differences in women with or without kids? You might theorize that brain chemistry could change upon child birth making a women more attracted to “a protector” as opposed to “a conqueror”. Or maybe both those male types are sensed as being the same. Perhaps I’m thinking about this too much.
Anyhow, thanks for the replies, I will see how it works!
A314 should certainly be your first choice for Asian-orientated and mature (ie over 30) attraction mixes. IG is also useful but by your 40s/50s you are in the age range where the A314 vibe is bang-on.
Alongside A314, you should consider IH, Instant Shine and yes, a fairly overt sexual like TUTH is fully usable, even around Asian women. Although you probably won’t need as much as around a similar-aged European woman. So you will need some testing to find your best dose. You also get exceptions to the Asian/low Androstenone rule and I have been pleasantly surprised a number of times by superb Asian responses to hi-TUTH mixes and even extreme signatures like A314/IJ!
However, another phero I’ve found very useful around Asians is P75, as in the right combos, it carries a lot of attractive qualities without the negatives on Androstenone - but it can be rather severe with A314, so I usually use it with more social/party products like IO or MX297 instead, or a good social/feelgood moderator like IH/IS. Personally I avoid using IO and A314 together in mixes as they counteract each other confusingly.
Another factor with Asians is that some races do seem to do better with more overt Androstenone compared to others - Thai and Korean especially, whilst Japanese and Han Chinese are responsive to a much lower dose.
Age is probably more of a factor than kids IME - women start maturing into liking a more solid, mature, trustworthy and traditionally masculine vibe from their mid to late 20s-onward, kids or no kids.