I wear pheromones almost about every other day. I was wondering that if my mones are being exposed to the people I hang out with everyday, will my mones changed their behaviors as well rather than what they perceive me as?
Example, I wear a314. People perceive me as intimidating or CEO. But I wear is around friends. Eventually, they will get used to it. Will their behaviors become as them wearing a314 themselves or only how they perceive me?
I feel like my mones are changing my friends personalities. Which is a good thing because they are starting to see there is a whole you different life out there to experience. They are also realizing they are becoming a better person.
When you update your clothing to a new style, or even more (as in the case with A314), upgrade a few pay notches, your friends and the entire community of people who interface with you have no choice but take notice.
You start wearing a tailored suit around your friends still wearing polos and jeans, and they treat you differently. If you lose a lot of weight or gain a lot of muscle, people treat you differently. Some can’t run with the change and alienate you. Some grasp harder and rise with you.
And then one day you don’t wear the suit, or you don’t wear a314, and amongst your pre-primed social group, the group who already accepts you as their ceo on-his way up friend, they will still perceive you as their last perception of you, until you prove to them otherwise.
The interesting thing about perceptions is that they are constantly changeable.
What have you noticed with your pheromone usage lately? Are your friends still friends? Have you been attracting others out of your league?
actually, this has been one of the biggest concerns lingering in the back of my mind since I started screwing around with mones. Safe to say I’m monitoring this thread until one of those pheremone sorcerers makes an appearance.
If your mones are beginning to change your friends, their outlook on life, and their perception of you, what happens to them if that common denominator leaves the picture? Will they go back to their idea of life as they know it or cling to you even more? After all, that makes you the catalyst for their change. And, unknowingly, the pheromones are the foundation(the real catalyst) of it all.
That is a very interesting experiment indeed of how greatly even second hand contact of external chemicals can alter the mind. Sort of like how second hand smoke physically affects non-smokers, maybe.
If you disappear, they are likely to always have that pheromoned idea of you. But if you show up without the pheromones, and you happen to be dependent on a314 for confidence, they will think you are out of sorts that day. And it will probably affect them as well because there is no “contact smell” so to speak for them to thrive from. How much improvement have they made in their lives just by being around the pheromoned you?
That has happened to me as well on a few occasions. Don’t worry about it, it will pass. Your friends will get used to it.
I’ve been doing wild changes in pheromone sig from one day to another for years now and never gave much thought to how confusing it may be to people I meet frequently. Poor bastards. It still hasn’t alienated but very few acquaintances.
Like John Sebastian mentioned, some can’t cope with the change but that’s OK. I suppose those people have you neatly set somewhere in their mind’s own hierarchy and don’t like anyone rising above. You’re better off without such people since they’d try to hold you back, whether you keep using mones or not.
Yes - stick with it. Friends and other social hierarchies can often be uneasy/unsettled for a while when you use pheros around them. Similarly if you chop and change your sig a lot.
Give it a bit of time and stick to a similar basic sig around them till they get used it it - They will and usually for the better.
I noticed their personality starts to change to where they decide to actually better themselves! Wearing a314, they want to be boss. And they are not nearly the boss type, except one. When I wear ammo, one starts to go crazy since he has psychological issues. I feel bad that these certain outbursts happen when I wear certain ones that trigger these emotional responses.