If someone has known you for a long time will they still be effected by these products? Or are they more effective when dealing with new people?
I’ve found these things hit the hardest with people you don’t know.
However things like attraction that is buried and are scratching the surface for people you know, mones and some putatives, in my experiences have helped bring those feelings to the surface.
However, I did notice the respect shift from A314 over the last few months with people I’ve known for years.
If eg, if your female friend who’s been platonic for years and you start wearing attraction mixes, but she’s never ever had those feelings for you, then it won’t work. But similarly, if you have a friend with a bit of tension, it could work wonders.
Only real way to know how it works for you is if you try and test.
It can work for people you’ve known for some time. What is important to know, is it may take time for them to adjust to this new signature you’re sporting.
Let me give you an example. 8+ years ago when I first met my roommate and her biz partner I had long hair and a beard down to my chest and pretty much looked like a biker.
Over that time I’ve cleaned up the hair quite a bit and my clothing style has gone from wild to a bit more sophisticated and then sometimes back.
Well about two years ago it went back to a bit of wild. I brought out my old Harley wallet and chain and was wearing it one evening and my rommates biz partner made a comment like…“Oh yeah, you’re so butch.”
Why? Because she had grown accustomed to this “old” me who was wearing stylish shirts and keeping a short but stylish hair cut. This “new” me who was sporting his biker attire threw her off, even tho’ that’s the “real” me. I’ve been a pretty wild kinda guy and dresser since I was a kid in school.
People at work were surprised to find out I even have tattoos, they’re just not visible. They never knew me as the biker / rocker guy. Just the nice Starbucks guy who was pretty funny.
Well fast forward to the present, I wear that wallet and chain daily to work and play. I only bring out the nice wallet when I wanna dress up for an occasion that calls for it. No one questions it anymore, especially since I show up to work on my bike, it has now become ME, and they accept that part of me. Now women at work describe me as a “bad boy.”
This is the way it works with your mones. If you’ve never been the type that would put the moves on girls and now you’re wearing TUTH, a highly sexual mix, the girls who’ve known you will be confused, or actually laugh it off…for a bit. But become that guy and over a couple of months that’s the way they’ll see you.
The same with something like A314. If you’ve never been the leader around your house, work, group of friends, people will challenge your new sig. They won’t know why, they’ll just give you shit, poke fun of you, knock you down. But if over time you react to all that the right way, work on yourself and become the person who could carry off that sig they will come to accept that.
So what do you need to take away from all this. Become the man that you want to be through self-work and allow whatever pheromone signature you choose enhance that.
People you know well have preconceived notions about you. It takes some time to reprogram those notions but pheromones do effect them. First they just effect general behavior. You will see mood changes right away but not always the attraction or pull to you. They are not yet associating the signal to you. As you continue to use them suddenly they begin to connect the feeling with your presence. It just takes some time.
I found in my own testing that there are 3 important factors to signaling those close to us.
Repeated exposure… Try to be wearing the product every time your around them.
Congruence… Try to match your behavior to the signal your sending. For instance if your wearing Ishine and your being mean and moody all the time it just sends mixed signals.
Consistency… Dont change your pheromone signature until they begin to respond to the new one consistently. If you are changing around what you wear everyday they never get a chance to reprogram.
I have read it takes something like 21 days of consistent thought to change a persons notions but I think thats more for our own thoughts. I dont find it takes that long to start seeing results from those close to me. It really depends just how close they are to you. Someone like a spouse, best friend or close coworker will take longer. For me its around 7 to 10 days/exposures. For those you just come in contact with casually but are not close to its less. For me 2 to 5 days/exposures depending just how often I see them. For strangers or people you see daily that you dont normally interact with its usually instant. They feel the emotion and connect it right to its source.
Remember the feeling/mood changes happens instantly but the connection time to its source can vary.
One other thing, sometimes those close to us sense a change right away and react to that change by resisting it. Like moms for instance. She knows you and your mone signature. The sudden change can make them suspicious very quickly. Even though I haven’t lived with her in years the minute she came in contact with mones my mom new something was different and didnt like it. It wasn’t the signal she didnt like it was the change. She kept thinking something was wrong with me or I was up to something. She adjusted pretty quick when she saw I acted no different.
My husband on the other hand just kept looking at me funny like there was something different he just couldnt place. First it was just strange confused looks. Then he would start asking questions. "Did you get a haircut ? " “Is that a new outfit ?” things like that. He was trying to place the feeling to an outside source. About a week and he just adjusted and began to respond to the signal.
Some people close to us can take change easier then others. If your unsure then start slow and work up with the dosage so the signal is not so overwhelming. Its just another important reason to not over dose and layer 10 different products.
Tisha
It depends… if you go away from them for awhile, like a month or two, and then pop back up with a few A314, ig or ammo, they do see something differnt about you.
It doesn’t gurantee that their pre-conceived notion would change though ![]()
Tish pretty much hit it. And this is where I think mones have their greatest potential as self improvement tools. Being able to use ammo and generate attraction easier with a girl at a club is great, being able to use IG with a little IH to make a great impression when job hunting is awesome. But being able shift the attitudes of the people that are already in your life?..you can’t put a price on that.
People are creatures of habit and tend to resist dramatic change. Once somebody feels they have you pinned down and compartmentalized they don’t like it when you step outside of their perception of you.
Even and unfortunately especially changes that would be positive for you, can often times be met with resistance. This resistance can come in the form of dismissal, (oh jeez dude stop pretending to be something you’re not), ridicule (oh shit look who suddenly turned into a badass!), and outright discouragement (you keep trying to be this type of guy and you just have to accept that’s not you, you’re just gonna frustrate yourself by trying).
However, if you are trying to grow and change in positive ways, more confident, assertive, outgoing and social etc. the right pheromone mix can act as a lubricant that eases that transition. People you know will still take a little longer to be effected but the combination of changed behaviors with an aura that communicates that the changes are genuine and not forced will go a long way in helping people to see you in a new light.
Now as I said it takes time. This means not only regular and consistent use of the product, but also conscious effort to act in a way that is congruent with what you want to say about yourself with it. IE you can wear 3 drops of A314 every day for a year and if you’re still acting timid and/or shy the people you know will still see you as a timid shy guy…just a smellier timid shy guy. Strangers may give you great responses but lose their impression as they get to know the timid shy you. So the formula is like this.
Mones X Time +congruence= life changing effects.
Rad you help me like everyday with your posts.
Their are like a few kids that want to fight me over dumb shit and I don’t know how to fix it I know this is sort of unrelated but how can I fix this? I’ve been using respect products for a while and expecting respect/not letting anyone push me around it doesn’t seem to work though.
A most EXCELLENT example. You got my vote ![]()