I’m new here, but I’ve been trolling around the forum for quite sometime. Everything is so damn interesting! Hearing about these daily journals/stories, are truly an inspiration. Hell. I’m even thinking about incorporating things into senior project!.. No, I actually don’t know yet, but I’d probably spend some time researching these magical substances. heh.
WELL anyways, I wanted to ask a few things to those both new and experienced of how pheromones made an impact in your guys’ lives:
When using pheromones in a prolonged period of time, I wonder if it allows one to unconsciously become the person that they want to be. Not necessarily become a different person, but the person that the user perceives as “ideal”. Probably it also made a lasting impression on how people view you? How do the people (whom you know well) view you post-pheromones? I’ve read many journals and some people seem like they don’t need mones at all! However, they are constantly experimenting with new ones! Some just use things like the “socials” to lift the mood of everyone around them.
My thought is that, maybe pheromones are more powerful than we think they are! By affecting our and others mental processes… I’m viewing pheromones in a “self fulfilling prophecy” light. I really want to try this for myself, but feedback from everyone would be appreciated. Your guys’ feedback (both male and female) will only further my interest!
Did mones help you become a better person according to what you think a “better person” is?
I think that if you wanna do things that way, you definitely can!
It can’t be an “unconscious change”, however - that ain’t gonna cut it. YOU have to be the one to make things happen.
Example: I’m currently the best person I’ve ever been. Life is awesome. But pheromones have had very little to do with bringing this about. I have actually gone in, and looked at every facet of my life, outlooks, and behaviors, body, mind, and soul, and taken steps to improve them as much as I can, and becoming a very happy guy in the process, I might add!
I’ve got a million hobbies and interests (mones included), and my favorite one is my self, because it’s always changing and evolving in new directions and opening up doors and opportunities. As humans, we’re always learning, and it’s a beautiful thing.
Enjoy it!
Pheromones enhance and influence. They dont change people although if suppose you are using for example, Ishine all the time and it makes people feel your warm and upbeat… a pleasure to be around. The pheromone wont make you be that it just signals that. You have to actually be that.
A person who naturally emits the sort of mones that evoke these feeling does so because they are warm and upbeat. The mones do not make them this way. Its part of who they are.
Can mones influence you to become more warm and upbeat ? Sure but its not likely if its not your true nature. That is something you have to work on yourself.
It’s hard to say man. You can do it with mones, but you can also do it without them.
Personally, I’ve come to feel like everyone lives in their own reality, and its always on you to bridge the gap between your reality and someone elses. The pheremones might make it easier for you to bridge that gap, but the onus of action is still on you.
I have only been using mones for a few months, but what a few months its been, I wouldnt say they have made me a better person because I was a good person before, but what they have done is highlighted the good qualitys I already had going for me, this has allowed me to be seen in a more posotive light by people around me. They have encouraged me to be more social and to step my game up as far as women are concerened, because in order for you to see results you have to put the effort in first, Im not going to spend hundreds of dollars on mones then sit there in the corner quietly because I know thats not the way to use them.
So have mones changed my life for the better? NO not entirley but they have definitely given me a push in the right direction.
We are in my opinion the sum total of everything we’ve ever done and everything that’s ever been done to us (by people or random events). This means that on any given day, you are in subtle ways a slightly different person than you were the day before.
That said, I had tried various forms of self help and self improvement for my own person growth numerous times over the course of my life. One very sad fact I learned is that people tend to feel comfortable with keeping you compartmentalized in their own little mental box and will very often resist attempts on your part to change for the positive. This can be true of a best friend that thinks you improving your social status “beta’s” him, of a girlfriend that holds insecurities of your improvement creating a risk of you moving on to a woman you might consider “better” than her etc.
Usually the only people that are truly and genuinely supportive of your self growth and improvement will be parents as you are their genetic legacy and their genetic success depends upon your success.
Now, as for how this relates to pheromones. Attempts at self improvement will often come across as just that…attempts, ie trying. I was actually called a “try hard” ages ago when I was beginning to display more confident and assertive behavior. I was accused of trying to pretend to be something I’m not. Comments like this are both subconscious attempts at maintaining a social status quo, and outward signs of disbelief as my new behaviors were not congruent with the preconceived notions people had of me. I moved past that and grew anyway in spite of not using pheromones at the time but having seen the effects of mones now on both strangers and people I know I’m convinced that WITH mones, my transition would have been easier and met with substantially less resistance and reactance than it did.
If one is interested in reinventing themselves and creating a new life and lifestyle, mones won’t do all the work…but they will make your efforts easier. I believe that coupled with subconscious reprogramming, and an organized and systematic plan of conscious actions and deliberate behavior, a person can create a new upgraded version of themselves in a degree of transformation that’s truly mind blowing.
Yes! This is all what I meant. I probably worded my questions the wrong way..not necessarily focusing on unconscious change, but also subconscious.
But, however, it does seem that mones had brought out and emphasized an existing character in the user. And I do see that successful people who want to try pheromones, do tend to work hard and in the end revealing great results as well as improving social aspects of life. So from what every one is saying, mones just helps one go into the right direction, and from then on it’s all up to the user for self improvement. For some it only enhances the the “swag” they already have. Nonetheless, mones..seem pretty damn awesome!
You’ve brought a very interesting point Radman. Now to think of it, people around you DO inhibit self-improvement to some extent by envy and many other reasons… I see this with friends as well.
Are any of you guys viewed differently post-mones to other people? Without them do you guys still give off that vibe of respect, sexiness, calmness, happiness (depending what you use).
For example: Using Alpha products in a job that allowed one to believe that you’re the leader. I mean I do understand that A314 would only intensity that feeling. What I’m trying to say is, do people forget that feeling of inferiority and respect (when using A314) that they experience when you’re around?
I am not sure myself. It does seem that people eventually gain respect post-A314 by reading other posts. I do see that it just has a greater effect when it’s on. Not sure though!
I think the ideal scenario is that in the process of using mones, you become more congruent with whatever sig you’re giving off, so that you can actually be that person even without the mones.
I know that I use the products socially/to meet girls, and while they undeniably work, a lot of the changes have been internal changes on my end. One thing I always make sure I do is, whenever I take a day off from pheremones (2 or 3 days a week), I try to be as social and outgoing as I possibly can, just to remind myself that I’m actually that guy, and it’s not entirely due to a spray bottle I have in my room.
Yes if you give them reason to. For people who know you already and have preconceived notions about who you are it takes repeated exposures to A314 or any mone for them to reprogram there notions about you. Its not that they were not effected by what the mones are signaling. They do feel it but chock it up to “Chris having a good day today”. Then after that feeling is repeated each time they see you suddenly the subconscious starts to wonder “whats ups with Chris” this is when you usually get that resistance Rad was talking about.
The Chris I know is changing and some find it threatening and some find it scary because they are afraid you will forget about them. Eventually they get past that and as long as you display the qualities that go along with A314 to some extent this becomes there new notion of you. Until you give them reason to believe something else.
This is why we talk a lot congruency. Its not really acting as if, its not acting in opposition to your signature. So suppose your wearing A314 which is the trust respect leader mix but your not trust worthy, lacking in the qualities that bring respect and cant lead, then its a mixed signal and people will go with what they see not what they feel in most cases. A314 is more complex then that of course I am just using this as a example.
Now for people you dont know well or are just meeting they will get the signal loud and clear and as long as your not in opposition of that signal that is the notion they will carry about you. Strangers react much quicker then people close to us. With those close to you its a process.
As Rad mentioned every experience we have causes some sort of growth in us so technically we change just a tiny bit daily. Most people pay little attention to that. You get to choose how and what those changes will be. Dont rely on just mones. Actively become involved in your self growth. Participate in your self. I know that sounds strange but you would be surprised how many people just bee-bop through the day going through the motions without giving anything much thought.
I haven’t been able to comment back, and was a but busy. However, I did get my order! IS, IG, and IJ. Thanks Mickaelia**** (https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mickaelia)** for the GC and Ben for the awesome gift!** I will report and start a journal tomorrow!
And Thanks for everyone’s support and feedback! Will post up a link later. Please watch me and my noob-ness! YESSS!
Yes Johnny! I hope that IG and IS will enhance my already-friendly-easygoing attitude. It’s also good to see that you’re actively putting effort into this. I wish to do the same!
Thanks Tisha, you just summed it up! I do hope that I will able to see the change within myself as I use these mones. I will of course be active in this manner! Thanks for the inspiration
