It's ok I'm here now!

Hello to all and thank you for reading. This is the second re-write actually as I the first post I published wasn’t really in line with what was being asked of new members so it bothered me enough to re-write this and hopefully learn ya a little bit more about me.

I was born in Miami, FL. yes a real Florida native. As an only child coming from divorced parents I never had a really good example of healthy communication in relationships both professionally and romantically. I do believe that I am cut from a different cloth unique like everyone else, I pride myself on my intellect, creativity and disarming wit and charm. Sadly these qualities, though invaluable to me, have done nothing for my romantic life or to really impact my careers professionally.

Google had a link when I started exploring some off topic item. This site I found by accident and decided to check it out. I have been reading journals and seeing what others have done with mones which have been purchased and either this stuff works or there are about 50 employees typing testamonials everyday to validate these products to boost sales (note sarcasm is one of the many services I offer - tax, tag and title not included). :slight_smile:

I have lived in Vegas, Detroit, Miami and many other metropolitan areas where “what you can do for them before they do for you” is an expectation, a way of life.

My life has taught me that how you look is just as important to women as it is to men though most will deny it till their last breath I am proof it is true. With women especially in Miami and Vegas it was all about “the look” and for the most part being something you are not. I knew guys personally who put themselves deep in debt so they could lease the BMWs and buy the hot clothes so they could be part of that in crowd. I declined to play by those rules and just being myself with my cool sense of humor, gift of gab and fun nature all of the sudden landed me in the playing field all by myself and all of the sudden those traits I possess weren’t good enough. For the 2 years I spent in Vegas I remained single the whole time, literally not a single date for 2 years and it was the same everytime, for every woman I tried to talk with I was rudely dismissed as an “inconvenience”. A painful lesson that taught me in Vegas women are like sharks…they are always attracted to shiny things.

Most of my social life was similar to my Vegas tragedies. Awkward and not very astute in the ways of “the game” or getting the attention of those I was attracted to. So, as a self defense mechanism, I quit playing the game - I took my ball and left the playground and now at 43 and still single I have decided I will get what I want or stay alone. I am probably being unrealistic in what I expect to have in a companion but I don’t care, I will get what I want or stay alone, I am fine with it either way. Life is too short to settle and my attitude after hitting 40 was to never settle, and that is where my quest really started.

Professionally I never was able to play office politics probably because of my refusal to insert my lips into a manager’s anal cavity it was a taste I just couldn’t enjoy. After 10 years with the same employer, I feel like a pice of furniture, others know I am here, but no one really makes a point to express interest or really get to know me and my red swingline stapler :smiley: This has hurt me financially as I have not had a promotion or a raise in the last decade of my employment. I learned early on with this employer who shall remain nameless as they are hated by much of the country anyway that complaining does you no good; the adage says that the squeaky wheel gets the oil…at my job, the squeaky wheel gets ripped off the hinge, thrown out the door into the trash and replaced with a wheel that may no be as good but stays nice and quiet.

So enter the world of mones. Truly my own personal “undiscovered country” as science proves they exist and have an effect on human perception. I know that I have run out of ideas. I tried the whole pick up game thing that was highlighted a few years back by Neil Strauss - however after he let the cat out of the bag many of the tactics were being detected by women and more and more were suhtting down or becoming rude about it. It was all I kept running into so I dismissed it as a dead theory that worked at one time but now is just too exposed to be effective.

Pheromones however are subtle, no real art to this game other than how it is used and mixed. In conjunction with my humor, my wit, my ability to talk to anyone at anytime I guess I am hoping that mones will help to lend that edge for people in the office as well as in my personal life to take notice and understand who I am and why they should know me. No I don’t expect panties to fall off though you will get a hell of a write up if it actually does happen. I would like to see these random acts of interest from female coworkers and everyday women in grocery stores and restaurants who may show interest, give me the oppotunity to employ my humor and charm, enjoy a more deeper conversation and openness that I wouldn’t normally have had the opportunity to gain.

So there I am for all to discover the wonder that is me. Thanks for reading.

Welcome to Pherotalk russmatthess!

Pheromones definitely work but I think most people expect Axe commercials everytime they go out with them.

The over-the-top hits are few and far between.

Smartmones has a guarantee on the Instant line so there is noting to lose really

A great insight into the questions you are asking can be found in the journal section- btw my journal is titled “my notes”

As far as the science goes check out the pheromone theory section

Also to qualify for a giftcard you need to tell us a little more about yourself like: Age range/ general area/personality/ what type of settings you will be using peromones in/ what kind of effects you want to see

I hope you keep a journal once you recieve your products from your intro I think your journal would be very interesting

Cheers

Welcome russ to the mone forum, PheroTalk! :slight_smile:

Well, well, well. Skeptical, eh? Very Good! Best posters to have as you will no doubtedly want to check, confirm, and recheck everything you try on. As has been mentioned, to qualify for the GC to try some mones, basically, for free, tell us a bit about your personality. If you JUST want to see if MONES will have a causational effect on others, Give IO a try and IJ. Either will tell you, mmmm, yes, mones DO work. Now, as to getting a 9, those two MONES will likely not get you there. BUT, if you want to test and confirm their efficacy, these are the TWO I recommend.

On my sig are some excellent reads on how to use mones, how to read the reactions on others, and my personal journal as a skeptic trying these out.

Cheers!

1Alpha

Hi .. welcome to Pherotalk…

its interesting to see your healthy skepticism.. just to convince yourself if these work and not just a placebo effect.. I would suggest that you get a togo bottle of instant honesty and spray like 6 sprays on your wrists.. half an hour before meeting up with some casual friend..or a place where you get to interact closely with strangers..

that apart.. what do you hope to achieve with pheromones.. just curiosity or (if you feel it works) do you intend to use it for.. social life(women) or at work ??? do let us know a bit more about your personality, which part of the world you are from, your age etc..giving this info would also make you eligible for the 25$ gift certificate

Thank you all for the welcome. As for me, I guess its curiosity now. I currently live in northern Idaho, but with my job I have lived in Detroit, Las Vegas, Orlando, and even the Virgin Islands.

I’ve had no social life for most of my life and I am wondering if this stuff here will help open up the doors and break some ice personally and professionally.

I don’t expect the axe commercial results, but I would hope to see maybe some indicators of interest which are more pronounced than normal, even then I may not know what I am seeing since I don’t seem to understand what goes into successful networking.

I could keep a journal with results or lack thereof whichever the case may be but for right now I want to see if a product exists that will produce productive tangible results and not something I am subconsciously doing. Hope that is a good start to satisfy curiosity thanks again for the welcome and look forward to learning more.

Blatant responses, I would say IO and IJ. IO gets others just all bubbly around me. To the point of wanting them to JUST Shut Up! LOL! It can also get me gabbin’ if I’m not consciously restraining my mouth.
IJ Will give me a welling of an I don’t give a rat’s ass feeling. Others, will be offended or some few will be attracted to the bad boy vibe. It’s an obvious response mone.
Others, could be IShine and AMMO, which you can also try. The results will also depend on the environment, the wearer, and the relationships with those around you.
On my sig, Intro to Mones and how to know what are hits are great primer threads on all things mones.

1Alpha

Welcome Russ,

I can’t believe I totally missed your introduction.I looked and it did not make it into my inbox.

I was literally taking a run through the introductions when I realized this one did not look familiar.

Been doing this for a while I tend to remember the names I come across.

I can always count on my team to take care of my newbies in my absence or in your case when there is a mishap.

Thank you for your patience.

Your gc was issued!

Thank you for stopping by and its ok your situation has been the story of my social life for many years. Just no impact on peope I meet, and I would like to think I have a great sense of humor, a good sense of conversation and gift of gab and 99.99% of the time I smell nice…001% of the time is usually after a heavy mexican meal but we won’t go into that any further… :smiley:

Anyway thanks for taking time to say hi. :slight_smile:

Take 2

Hello to all and thank you for reading. This is the second re-write actually as I the first post I published wasn’t really in line with what was being asked of new members so it bothered me enough to re-write this and hopefully give a little bit more about me.

I was born in Miami, FL. yes a real Florida native. As an only child coming from divorced parents I never had a really good example of healthy communication in relationships both professionally and romantically. I do believe that I am cut from a different cloth unique like everyone else, I pride myself on my intellect, creativity and disarming wit and charm. Sadly these qualities, though invaluable to me, have done nothing for my romantic life or to really impact my careers professionally.

Google had a link when I started exploring some off topic item. This site I found by accident and decided to check it out. I have been reading journals and seeing what others have done with pheromones which have been purchased and either this stuff works or there are about 50 employees typing testamonials everyday to validate these products to boost sales (note sarcasm is one of the many services I offer - tax, tag and title not included). :slight_smile:

I have lived in Vegas, Detroit, Miami and many other metropolitan areas where “what you can do for them before they do for you” is an expectation, a way of life.

My life has taught me that how you look is just as important to women as it is to men though most will deny it till their last breath I am proof it is true. With women especially in Miami and Vegas it was all about “the look” and for the most part being something you are not. I knew guys personally who put themselves deep in debt so they could lease the BMWs and buy the hot clothes so they could be part of that in crowd. I declined to play by those rules and just being myself with my cool sense of humor, gift of gab and fun nature all of the sudden landed me in the playing field all by myself and all of the sudden those traits I possess weren’t good enough. For the 2 years I spent in Vegas I remained single the whole time, literally not a single date for 2 years and it was the same everytime, for every woman I tried to talk with I was rudely dismissed as an “inconvenience”. A painful lesson that taught me in Vegas women are like sharks…they are always attracted to shiny things.

Most of my social life was similar to my Vegas tragedies. Awkward and not very astute in the ways of “the game” or getting the attention of those I was attracted to. So, as a self defense mechanism, I quit playing the game - I took my ball and left the playground and now at 43 and still single I have decided I will get what I want or stay alone. I am probably being unrealistic in what I expect to have in a companion but I don’t care, I will get what I want or stay alone, I am fine with it either way. Life is too short to settle and my attitude after hitting 40 was to never settle, and that is where my quest really started.

Professionally I never was able to play office politics probably because of my refusal to insert my lips into a manager’s anal cavity it was a taste I just couldn’t enjoy. After 10 years with the same employer, I feel like a pice of furniture, others know I am here, but no one really makes a point to express interest or really get to know me and my red swingline stapler :smiley: This has hurt me financially as I have not had a promotion or a raise in the last decade of my employment. I learned early on with this employer who shall remain nameless as they are hated by much of the country anyway that complaining does you no good; the adage says that the squeaky wheel gets the oil…at my job, the squeaky wheel gets ripped off the hinge, thrown out the door into the trash and replaced with a wheel that may no be as good but stays nice and quiet.

So enter the world of pheromones. Truly my own personal “undiscovered country” as science proves they exist and have an effect on human perception. I know that I have run out of ideas. I tried the whole pick up game thing that was highlighted a few years back by Neil Strauss - however after he let the cat out of the bag many of the tactics were being detected by women and more and more were suhtting down or becoming rude about it. It was all I kept running into so I dismissed it as a dead theory that worked at one time but now is just too exposed to be effective.

Pheromones however are subtle, no real art to this game other than how it is used and mixed. In conjunction with my humor, my wit, my ability to talk to anyone at anytime I guess I am hoping that pheromones will help to lend that edge for people in the office as well as in my personal life to take notice and understand who I am and why they should know me. No I don’t expect panties to fall off though you will get a hell of a write up if it actually does happen. I would like to see these random acts of interest from female coworkers and everyday women in grocery stores and restaurants who may show interest, give me the oppotunity to employ my humor and charm, enjoy a more deeper conversation and openness that I wouldn’t normally have had the opportunity to gain.

So there I am for all to discover the wonder that is me. Thanks for reading.

tinkering with my earlier suggestion… after reading your rewrite. you can consider using A314 and IH on a daily basis at work. get some ammunition for men too since you are 43. get it in doublestrength it will save you some money..

AMMO is to project that sexy vibe… A314 for social status… you dont really need a BMW to project status… just read what users in this forum post about A314 and you’ll understand.. :wink: IH is very important.. you seem to have your guard up IH helps in bonding with people.. both people at work and in social situations…they feel that they have some connection with you and open up to you… use these for a few weeks atleast .. if possible keep note of things in a journal and look back.. I am sure you will be a believer and in terms of social results, way better off from where you started…

best wishes :slight_smile: