Hello to all and thank you for reading. This is the second re-write actually as I the first post I published wasn’t really in line with what was being asked of new members so it bothered me enough to re-write this and hopefully learn ya a little bit more about me.
I was born in Miami, FL. yes a real Florida native. As an only child coming from divorced parents I never had a really good example of healthy communication in relationships both professionally and romantically. I do believe that I am cut from a different cloth unique like everyone else, I pride myself on my intellect, creativity and disarming wit and charm. Sadly these qualities, though invaluable to me, have done nothing for my romantic life or to really impact my careers professionally.
Google had a link when I started exploring some off topic item. This site I found by accident and decided to check it out. I have been reading journals and seeing what others have done with mones which have been purchased and either this stuff works or there are about 50 employees typing testamonials everyday to validate these products to boost sales (note sarcasm is one of the many services I offer - tax, tag and title not included). ![]()
I have lived in Vegas, Detroit, Miami and many other metropolitan areas where “what you can do for them before they do for you” is an expectation, a way of life.
My life has taught me that how you look is just as important to women as it is to men though most will deny it till their last breath I am proof it is true. With women especially in Miami and Vegas it was all about “the look” and for the most part being something you are not. I knew guys personally who put themselves deep in debt so they could lease the BMWs and buy the hot clothes so they could be part of that in crowd. I declined to play by those rules and just being myself with my cool sense of humor, gift of gab and fun nature all of the sudden landed me in the playing field all by myself and all of the sudden those traits I possess weren’t good enough. For the 2 years I spent in Vegas I remained single the whole time, literally not a single date for 2 years and it was the same everytime, for every woman I tried to talk with I was rudely dismissed as an “inconvenience”. A painful lesson that taught me in Vegas women are like sharks…they are always attracted to shiny things.
Most of my social life was similar to my Vegas tragedies. Awkward and not very astute in the ways of “the game” or getting the attention of those I was attracted to. So, as a self defense mechanism, I quit playing the game - I took my ball and left the playground and now at 43 and still single I have decided I will get what I want or stay alone. I am probably being unrealistic in what I expect to have in a companion but I don’t care, I will get what I want or stay alone, I am fine with it either way. Life is too short to settle and my attitude after hitting 40 was to never settle, and that is where my quest really started.
Professionally I never was able to play office politics probably because of my refusal to insert my lips into a manager’s anal cavity it was a taste I just couldn’t enjoy. After 10 years with the same employer, I feel like a pice of furniture, others know I am here, but no one really makes a point to express interest or really get to know me and my red swingline stapler
This has hurt me financially as I have not had a promotion or a raise in the last decade of my employment. I learned early on with this employer who shall remain nameless as they are hated by much of the country anyway that complaining does you no good; the adage says that the squeaky wheel gets the oil…at my job, the squeaky wheel gets ripped off the hinge, thrown out the door into the trash and replaced with a wheel that may no be as good but stays nice and quiet.
So enter the world of mones. Truly my own personal “undiscovered country” as science proves they exist and have an effect on human perception. I know that I have run out of ideas. I tried the whole pick up game thing that was highlighted a few years back by Neil Strauss - however after he let the cat out of the bag many of the tactics were being detected by women and more and more were suhtting down or becoming rude about it. It was all I kept running into so I dismissed it as a dead theory that worked at one time but now is just too exposed to be effective.
Pheromones however are subtle, no real art to this game other than how it is used and mixed. In conjunction with my humor, my wit, my ability to talk to anyone at anytime I guess I am hoping that mones will help to lend that edge for people in the office as well as in my personal life to take notice and understand who I am and why they should know me. No I don’t expect panties to fall off though you will get a hell of a write up if it actually does happen. I would like to see these random acts of interest from female coworkers and everyday women in grocery stores and restaurants who may show interest, give me the oppotunity to employ my humor and charm, enjoy a more deeper conversation and openness that I wouldn’t normally have had the opportunity to gain.
So there I am for all to discover the wonder that is me. Thanks for reading.