Lwatkins,
Re P81, yes, it has a generally positive vibe. Pretty fun in fact. Except for that crying thing with my friend. Not sure what all that was about. I think maybe she was just feeling a little low or insecure at that moment, then I made a wisecrack and it hit a nerve. I give her shit all the time, as she does to me, so she should be used to it.
I like your description “combination of comfort and sexy arousal at the same time, that is a cross-over.” That is P81.
As far as attention getting/focus>>Yes. Lots of deep eye contact while she was talking. Held my eyes for a long time while talking, not shy at all. I do go back to it being a dis-inhibitor. This girl and I know each other very well, but we dont date. When we get together, usually for drinks, she normally will open up and tell me about her love life, but not right out of the gate. It will take 30-45 minutes and a couple Cosmo’s before she starts telling me about who she is dating, along with the nitty-gritty details. This particular night she jumped right in with the gory details. Maybe these phero effects, her insecurity in her current relationship, and my flippant remarks combined and made her freak out a little and cry. But she bounced right back and we had a great time the rest of the way. Who knows?? Sometimes girls just cry.
Re the P78, I just got it, and I think I only used it once so far, in a mix with some other things. I havent tried it solo yet. In fact, there is no better time than the present. I havent put anything on yet today, so I will blast myself with some P78 solo and report back later tonight or tomorrow.
P80? Cant really comment. Never tried it yet.