Cold marriage

Hi I found this forum through a google search. Trying to jump start a marriage that has gone cold. Anything is worth a try right now

Hello GDoughty4

Welcome to PheroTalk :slight_smile:

Hey listen if you tell us a little bit more about yourself your personality and what type of products or results your looking for in pheromones you will get a GC soo knock yourself out and it will help us get to know you abit better, we are all friendly here soo dont be shy :stuck_out_tongue:

Welcome on board Buddy

Ciao “J” :stuck_out_tongue:

Tell us about your marriage and your personalities.

hi ya. have some problems like you. Have a look at my journal (see sig)

Hi there,

Welcome to the forum.

Try IH to your wife. It can make her intimate and talk more personal with you. TUTH is also good for sexual attraction. It can spice up your sex life a bit.

Good luck to you

Hello g- and welcome to the forum.

I have been married for 20+ years and have gone through the ups and downs that you would expect during that time.

I use pheromones for several purposes - work, social and to enhance life at home.

In your case I would first use what we call the social products - in particular IH as already mentioned would be the first thing to consider. It is also my personal favorite. Good communications are key in any relationship and we also know women equate good communications to caring to emotional closeness to emotional intimacy which can lead to physical intimacy. IH in particular will help this as the beta nols both facilitate deep conversation and create a feeling of emotional closeness. IO helps generate general conversation if you need that from time to time to at least get some conversation started. IS will help her feel happy to be around you. If there are some sticky subjects that need to be discussed using IFM could help her feel relaxed and thus work with IH to bring out whatever needs to be discussed. Find the book “His Needs, Her Needs”. Read.

During the day for work I use A314 usually combined with IH. I mention this because not only is it great for work but one of the ladies (Phernoob) here in the forum said she got some for her husband for work but the alpha vibe it gave him also created a “spark” at home that certainly helped things in the romance arena.

When you start to get hings back on track then, during the evenings or on weekends, use Ammo when you around the wife. It is a balanced product but it has enough 'none in it to remind her you are very interested.

Then, on special occassions, date nights, or at the end of the evening you can throw in some TUTH to create a spark or fan a spark into …

But I would not move to the ammo or certainly the TUTH stage until you start getting things sorted out.

There is one more thing to be aware of: sometimes long-term spouses who know our phero-signature well do not always react well to a change in our phero-signature. Reactions can range from the funny like the wife who jumped/fell out of bed when her husband came to bed wearing 2-3 sprays of TUTH for the first time, to mild irritation (my and a couple other users’ moms) to slight puzzlement and suspicion (my wife and Tisha’s huband). The good news is that she knows you are going to be using them and will probably bee looking for a change. All the same fore-warned is fore-armed.

Hope all this helps. Keep us updated.

Hello

Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

A little more information about you and your wife will help us better suggest products that will fit your situation plus you will qualify for a Gift Certificate.

How old are you and your wife ?

Both of your races ? it helps because different races respond better to different products.

What do you mean by cold ? No sex or she doesn’t even interact with you.

Looking forward to your reply.

Tisha