I’ve read about come talk to me a few times on the forum and seen it described as an equal combination of Instant Openness and Instant Honesty so it was never at the top of my list of pheromones to buy. April (Thanks very, very much) however sent me a free Come talk to me togo with my last order and it’s now definitely one I will be re buying when it’s all gone. It doesn’t say mix 2 on the bottle so I presume it’s mix 1?
I tried it in place of Instant Openness in a mix I use regularly (4 Come talk to me, 6 Instant Shine and 2 ammo)
The self effects I get from Instant Openness is obviously talking all the time. At first I didn’t realise I was talking more but now it’s obvious to me. If I have a few drinks and I’m wearing Instant Openness then I’m gonna be talking my head of. One friend told me last week that “I can’t believe you where talking none stop about sandwiches for 30 minutes the other day” which at the time I didn’t realise. The difference I found with Instant Openness and Come talk to me in regards to self effects where that Instant Openness doesn’t make me want to talk it just makes me talk more when I am already talking. If I’m with someone whos boring me and I have Instant Openness on I don’t get the urge to continue talking, the Openness kicks in when I am already enjoying a conversation. Come talk to me gives me the urge to talk to people, anyone. It was making me open people and introduce myself so I could talk.
Come talk to me had the same effect on others as well. When wearing Openness people will (but not as often) start conversation with me but with come talk to me people start conversation and don’t let it die.
My conclusion is that it feels like a large dose of instant Openness, it feels like Instant Openness on steroids. I thought the name “come talk to me” was just a name but it really does make people come talk to me. I got a lot of female attention because it was combined with ammo more so than I usually get with the same amount of Instant Openness. That is a huge compliment because I love Openness and I find it can also cause girls to become attracted.
I think you are right on the spot. When I use CTTM2 i will talk to myself as I am walking down the grocery isle or at the library, or in my house, I cannot stop talking to myself LOL!
And at the bank when I am in line with other people everyone around me becomes talky talky talky…it is so noticeable because usually in line at banks people tend to be a lot more quiet…
I am going to the library again ---- to test more…let’s hope we do not start a riot there.
I think precise effects depend on your mood, personality and environment. Any amount or combination of alpha or beta nols don’t cause involuntary or strong urges to talk in my case. Perhaps I’ve worn them too long and have more control or developed some resistance? I can don a half dozen sprays of Come Talk To Me Mix 2 and be speechless for hours if I’m not around the right people. Now if I’m with someone I want to talk to, it seems to flow easier. Nevertheless I’m not a terribly verbal guy and tend to have less to say than most folks. Oddly, I prefer writing, photography or music if I have a need to express myself.
However, I do appreciate the increased ease and comfort nols impart to my target’s verbal centers. Takes a little pressure off me and I don’t have to talk as much.
My preferance is A for sure but like Gegogi said it all depends on the enviroment. B has it’s place but I find A more appropriate for my current lifestyle.
oh I thought you meant the A as in Instant Openness and B as in Instant Honesty. I haven’t tested them in there raw form and I know that there is each A and B in both Instant Openness and Instant Honesty as well as buffers but for me I prefer Instant Openness which is primarily A.
The reason I find Instant Openness more appropriate for me in most cases is because I like the extra talking, funness and light vibe. Instant Openness is really good for developing rapport with someone as is Instant Honesty but conversations can die easier with Instant Honesty, Instant Openness keeps them going for a long time. I want to test A and B in there raw form because I think they will be powerfull. The reason hits with CTTM are more profound is because of the lack of buffers apparantly so I imagine A and B would be similar.
I just ordered a bottle of CTTM last week. (due to arrive tomorrow)
I love IO, but I do not see the self effects, of me talking, people stop and talk to me all the time, when I am wearing IO, much more so than when I am not wearing it.
I do see the Chatter increase around me, not talking but chatter, our secretary at work tends to ask silly questions to me, over the other workers. in a restaurant situation it seems to cause more tables to get louder around me.
never tried CTTM but if it works as reported (and i’m sure it does) and i wore it anywhere near the bars here i would have to reject about 1,000 advances per night and that wouldnt leave much time for getting busy.
I haven’t used it yet so I car give a report how it works. I will try it out this week!