This was 3 hours after initial application:
Well, I met a client, V, early 30’s japanese-american, easy on the eyes bit of a light olive toned skin color. Bright smile when she finally did present it to me! Spent some time speaking with her and the director of the site. They were both within 4 feet of me. He was open and easy to talk to. Within a minute of meeting, spoke to me with the confidence that I will be able to help them. Of course, I had to let him air out his displeasures as well, and I disarmed him somewhat, when I agreed with several point he made. He was thinking I would defend the actions of my super but I told him that I try to be honest with the myself, my company and my clients.
Well, he had a good impression and notice the respect factor, though not the same levels as a A314 hit. A complete A314 hit being a 10, this was more of a 6. The IG and AMMO were present in the room…
I also met 2 women, one, late 20’s, M, and the other late 40’s to early 50’s, N, Taiwanese asian. This was about 3 1/2 hours after initial application. I spoke with them for about 45 seconds and asked them questions and just listened. They each spoke for about a minute and I noticed that N, who was closer of the two, both sitting face to face, at desks that faced each other…N was more comfortable with my presence as the time progressed. I waited until I perceived this comfort in their tone of voice and moving her body slowly in my direction not just swiveling her head.
Then, I spoke to them in my limited Mandarin, and that got both their attentions, right quick! N, actually made a couple of funny remarks, as she was more relaxed in convo with me than when I arrived. M, though, was smiling shyly, though she looked for ways to engage, by telling me things about the office equipment that I really didn’t need to know, but, thanked her for that…she was sharing what she could with me…
I worked with V for about 2 hours and here are the results:
From the start, when I introduced myself, she was a bit stand offish as she was also displeased with a few things by my super as well and that was projected toward me. Saw that feeling melt away, within 5 minutes of talking to her. She was sitting at her desk and I brought out a chair to sit next to her as we would be sharing her monitor for some of the work together. During our convos V would alternate from turning her upper body toward me and look at me from the corner of her eye and cross her arms and push up and together her breasts. She had a slit in her blouse that when she did this, would pronounce their inner curvature. I commented on her cute boy, as she had a couple of pictures on her desk. As she talked to me about him, I listened intently and noticed that when that convo spoke on ‘the boys father’ such and such, his father is such and such, she was being clear that she wasn’t with him anymore and open.
When we walked around the office, she would want to follow though, I would have to step aside and gesture for her to take the lead… I didn’t know how to get around her office to where we needed to go…
She told me after about an 1 1/2, 4 1/2 hours after initial application, that she will request for future visits that I be the primary contact…Ok…she wanted to have me go onsite instead of my super…That is a nice hit as this is his client that HE would always insist on visiting…maybe now I know why…
I was focused and empathetic towards others, calm, but ready to be loud when I need to emphasize my point or agree with others. I felt others were easily in a comfortable place with me. Like a friend they haven’t seen in a long time, not sure if the relationship is the same, testing it out so as to not be rejected or hurt, but when finding those feelings of friendship still there, would relax completely.
I didn’t reapply during the day, as I would have to have brought all my bottles…a bit cumbersome… I’ll have to think how to refresh some of these combo’s out in ‘the field’. With the Instants lines, no problem, but carrying multiple bottles…difficult…
There you go…for those that have known me for a very long time at my office, the interactions were friendly as usual. This was from 1/2 to 2 hours from initial application…Still updating their mental image of me!!! I’m probably confusing them with all of these mone signatures…
Now, go to Jesse’s thread and thank Jesse before continuing…go on…this thread will still be here…