Ok, wow… where to start?
Warning: Long-assed post ahead. If you just want the basic breakdown of hits, IOIs and IODs and all that fun stuff, read from “BAD DONUT” down to “ANGRY COFFEE”
Here it is:
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BAD DONUT
IOIs and/or hits**
Cashier at a cafe chatted me up about my new facial hair while she was making me a latte. Do cashiers have a thing for IO? Curious - it’s happened once before. Very chatty and friendly.
9.5 pizzeria hottie gave me extra food when I ordered it.
Guy I’d just met told me he had sex with his fiance 4 times the first night they met.
His fiance told me a story about an incident that happened with him at work. Very chatty and detailed.
Had amazing conversations for the majority of the night with a 9 hottie. I’ll call her Linda. She ended up attacking me physically, shoving her tongue down my throat and straddling me in her car and on a park public park bench. This was after less than 2 hours getting to know her and having intriguing conversation.
HUGE IOIs from almost every woman in a club while I was dancing with Linda. Of course, this is more the power of a social stamp of approval than the mones. Mones may have enhanced the effect. But it was amazing to see all of these hotties with this “talk to me” looks on their faces while my hottie bumped and ground into me.
IODs
Gay guy questioned if I was gay in front of others (I’m not).
Cold attitudes from sisters at a party.
Host at party sort of shut down on me at one point.
9.5 pizzeria girl - asked her to smell my cologne. She didn’t react much to it, or it didn’t seem to have much effect. Was more interested in going outside to look at construction? LOL. I couldn’t blame her. I wouldn’t want to be in a stuffy, hot pizzeria all day. It was nice out!
This the summation of stuff that happened. If you want more, read on below - it gets JUICY!
ANGRY COFFEE
Note that all of the IODs, except for 9.5 pizzeria girl, happened in an environment where people were buzzed, tipsy, drunk or slosh-faced.
So, here is the comprehensive version of the experiences above. I’m going to do the best I can in recalling the most pertinent points.
COMPREHENSIVE VERSION:
Dosage
IO - 2 sprays to both sides of neck, residual spray rubbed onto wrists.
2 more sprays through the rest of the day - chest area.
As explained in my other journal entries, I’m doing a one-by-one scientific method testing of each product day by day.
Self-effects
Felt relaxed, more open and easy. Since I’m experimenting, my “objective analysis center” is activated, it’s much easier to keep things level-headed, not take things personally, and not get TOO excited when things work (it can backfire that way).
In this light, I believe the IO had a positive effect of making my mind a bit more “expansive” and non-judgmental. I noticed this when there were some undesirable effects, as will be explained in more detail below.
It’s my second day of using IO alone, today will be my third day in a row. I may conclude my observations of IO after today or tomorrow.
Outer effects
Varied responses, the most undesirable was negative body language and encountering dismissive attitudes. The most desirable was making out (heavily) with Linda in multiple locations across the city over a period of 5 hours. 
So let’s begin.
Applied the two shots early in the day around 1:30. Had a meeting around 2 with a bunch of guys. Lots of testosterone in the room. I didn’t notice any blatant hits, except for one guy I already knew who is pretty open anyway. Very talkative and pleasant.
The meeting came and went with no notable incident, really.
I applied one more spray when I got outside, for a total of 3 sprays so far.
I was going to go out with the two ladies I mentioned in my previous entries but they canceled. Shrug.
On my way home, I saw the 9.5 hottie in the pizzeria and went in to tease her. I think things with her are at a point where I can transition from the heavy teasing to more connection or comfort-type conversations. Gonna feel her out.
I told her to smell my cologne - she didn’t smell it right away. I teased her about having too much dough in her nose. She didn’t comment on the smell, but gave me extra food in my order. I left shortly thereafter.
There is an alleyway right by my residence and people I didn’t know were having a party. I said “Party? And I wasn’t invited??”
I knew the host of the part by face only and I just asked him what was up. He filled me in that it was an alumni-type party and that he was getting married.
At this point I should say in retrospect that I felt no hesitation about crashing his party. It was in a public alleyway and the guy was cool on the limited face-to-face engagements we’d had previously.
I even brought it up - “Hey man, I don’t mean to crash your party.” He responded with “No, man, crash all you want!”
Around this time, I saw this hottie stranger (Linda) sitting down next to a guy talking with him. She gave me this funny look. I said to the guy “Uh… why is this strange girl looking at me like I have 6 heads?” and immediately switched topics to ask about the party and the people in it. The girl was still giving me this little smirk “who the hell are you” type look.
So I teased her a little more. I said “Holy crap, dude… you’re so weird. She’s all like… ‘what is man doing in front of me!’” She started to say something, but I’d already gone on to another subject with the guy sitting next to her.
You can kinda tell when people’s eagerness for your approval goes up. It’s like when you subtly disqualify them and then start talking to someone else about something, they try to talk louder to reel you back into the conversation or “defend” themselves.
She asked me my name shortly thereafter - great IOI.
There is a reason I’m breaking down the flirtations like this, by the way. I’ll get to that later…
At one point, she gets up to leave with the guy. I’d assumed they were somewhat together once they did, but didn’t really think much of it beyond that (no attachment).
I went to socialize with others.
I flirted with two sisters who were there, teasing them. One of them was the fiance of the host. I had NO intention of going any further with her than teasing. Not that kind of guy.
She seemed to enjoy the teasing, but then, curiously, kind of “shut off” to me during the night.
Example, we were all sitting in the hosts room watching a game on this huge plasma TV. I said something neutral, don’t remember what. She gave me this kind of semi-cold, rude response, as if to say “Yeah, that’s nice, bye.” Not sure what instigated that one. Maybe she felt a type of preemptive defensive attraction and that’s not a good place to be when you’re getting married?
In any case, I kind of got a hint that things weren’t quite right with her when the host (fiance) dropped a glass by accident. She got into a minor tiff with her fiance. She seemed perturbed by the minor altercation. May be things going on behind the scenes of which I’m unaware.
Or… (and I think this may have more bearing), something in the IO may not vibe with my chemistry when worn alone. I also got somewhat of the same attitude from her sister in a totally unrelated conversation, AND a gay guy in the TV room. Brief, trite conversations based on pseudo-sincere social constructs. Blech.
Another example - while we were watching the game, I said “When I was 6 years old, I used to think the point of football was to have everyone falling all over each other, and that’s it.”
Normally this would get a laugh from most people or at least a chuckle. Got nothin’.
The gay guy (partly drunk) said, “You are SO gay, aren’t you?”
I’m thinking… um… NO? WTF did that come from? And I think it registered on my face because he said “No worries man, I’m a homo” (his words, not mine). I said something to the effect of a polite “I don’t give a fuck.”
By this time, I was making mental notes. Perhaps wearing IO alone with my specific chemistry isn’t ideal. The one gay guy didn’t seem to take a liking to me, the two sisters were a bit cold, and even the host sort of shut down towards me at one point.
However, I did get some really notable hits as you will see.
Furthermore, keep in mind that these people had been drinking, so their minds really could have been anywhere. Alcohol plus mones… I think they DEFINITELY adversely affect feelings when combined.
I went upstairs to my apartment and applied one more spray of IO to my lower chest and went back downstairs to the host’s room, determined to ride through my experiment using ONLY IO.
I just remembered another girl there I talked to and this seems to balance things out a bit. She was getting married to another guy at the party. Let’s call her “Cute Brunette.”
I said “We haven’t met yet.” She didn’t hear me, so I repeated myself. She then turned to me and said “Oh, I’m SO sorry! I didn’t realize you were talking to me!”
I teased her a bit on that and then she started to talk. I was standing at first but sat down and listened to her. She went on and on.
At this point, I realize she’s tipsy or drunk and wondering how much I can merit IO with the lessened inhibitions. I think I’ll need test subjects who pass the sobriety test from the outset.
BUT, she WAS open with me, telling me about her husband-to-be. And I felt comfortable talking to her about it.
I went back outside to see what kinds of interesting discussions were playing out or what I could provide. Cute Brunette’s husband was sitting in a chair, so I started talking with him. Interesting guy! Learned how he and his wife to be met.
Okay, time out… now that I think about it, maybe IO really worked like a charm on this guy. He shared with me how they met and that they had sex 4 times the first night. I thought nothing of it until just now. Interesting! That’s a hit right there.
Around this time, Linda returns from space and sits down next to me. If I transcribed what happened next, you’d be here for the next 3 days reading.
Let me just sum up that I dropped the heavy artillery teasing and started talking with her. She revealed some things about her that genuinely impressed me. Really, really awesome conversations, going in a million directions at once. I mentioned I had to go to a party with some friends (and I really had to) and she objected to it, wanted to go with me. I told her I guess I could stay a few more minutes.
At one point she just reached out, grabbed my hand, curled her fingers into mine and rubbed them intermittently. This impressed me, turned me on.
A “few more minutes” turned into me leaving with her from the party (sorry, ladies. Especially YOU, gay guy!
), taking a long walk around the city and making out aggressively on a bench near a park.
Note: while we were walking around the city, I realized she was pretty drunk. Argh! Couldn’t calibrate the real attraction while she was under the influence!
But we arrived at the park, had awesome conversations, and then I just knew it was time to kiss. So I leaned in, and she practically attacked me! Straddled me, biting, clawing, scratching, shoved her tongue down my throat and all over me. I even told her to slow down because I was going to rip her clothes off…
Why am I writing all about this? Well, if I were to take an intuitive guess, I believe that most of my success tonight came from 70% me and 30% mones. While the 4 sprays of IO may have helped lube things up a bit socially, I do believe I have some attraction ability as evidenced by this 9 hottie straddling me on the public bench and in her car multiple times, spilling her guts to me throughout the night.
The point isn’t that I made out with her. Sure, that was a bonus, but the greatest part about it was I connected with a real human being who valued honesty. We talked about a lifetime’s worth of stuff. Mones? Yes. Me? Even more!
What compounded it for me was we spent enough time together wherein she sobered up. And she was just as horny and affectionate as when she was three sheets to the wind. In fact, she was much more coherently open on a deeper level when she was sober.
At one point, as I was cradling her in my arms on another bench in another park, she said “Where do you come from? Is this real? Am I dreaming?”
I learned so much about her. Was touching.
So, IO has enhanced in some cases the effects of game that is already there, if I may toot my own tuba. It also had some effects I can learn from re: wearing it solo and getting some dismissive vibes from people.
I’m going to wear it solo one more time today when I go out today.
Hope you enjoyed this! I’ll enjoy hearing people’s comments and feedback.
P.S. I mentioned this at the beginning, but Linda and I went to a club at a certain point during the night. The IOIs were ALL OVER the place from nearly every woman in the crowded room (and guys, too). I attribute this more to the “stamp of approval” that comes with arriving at a place like that with a beautiful girl than mones. BUT… the effect seemed amplified with IO applied.
It’s amazing what happens in a bar or club when you arrive with a babelicious babe!