As the name says I am a bit of a “meat head”, bodybuilder type. I am a oxymoron in my very exsistence with women.
I am the guy who looks the part (not to be cocky). All my friends in college were the “pretty boys” who got with tens to hundreds of girls. I always looked the part and acted the part but I go silent with women. It aprears I get a good amount of interest but it feels like I give off a strange vibe. I’ve had my share of girls who simply approached me and persued me and that is all I have ever gotten and I am sick of it. I want to pick who I want and sowe my oats because my awareness of my wasted potential makes relationships impossible because I wonder “what if”.
I tend to be the life of the party and the funny guy IN MY GROUP. I draw a ton of attention and entertain everyone but it is more of a defense mechanism. I am sure my size and false personality add to some sort of intimidation BUT that ins my mind talking not my emotions, I don’t feel like an alpha type so maybe it seems fake. I’ve had a lot of issues with insecurity in the past, too many to mention without sounding depressed and I keep myself in great shape to feel decent about myself…
I just want to fix whatever is missing.
I know I need to work on my “game” but the awkward lack of a vibe I get from girls is what I am trying to fix. I get looks or smiles from afar but up close something gets lost even when I am being talkative and funny (rare but I try!) and other guys seem to take the girls attention when things get up close.
All I have every tried Was Axcite and it made me feel relaxed and confident.
Pheromones can help - but you will also have to keep improving yourself
You said that you were interested in gaining confidence:
Come Talk to Me: This really opens people up to you. When I wear it I see people smiling at me, staring at me (in a good way), and moving closer to me. I have even had a few people Come Talk TO ME with this one on. This pheromone really helped me with my confidence. It let me know that PEOPLE WANTED TO BE APPROACHED and that PEOPLE WANTED TO BE APPROACHED BY ME. That gave me the extra confidence I needed to start talking to more girls.
Instant Shine: This makes the wearer and those around him/her feel good/happy. Many members get a confidence boost when wearing it. I like this one because people like to be around happy people. I think that you will like this one because it will help you to have that extra shine that will keep the attention focused on you.
I also think to help the”vibe” between you and girls you may be interested in:
Instant Gentleman: Many members say others perceive them as more mature when they wear it. Personally, when I wear it people respect me more and they want o help me/take care of me. Many members also have reported a lot of success in attracting younger girls while wearing Instant Gentleman too.
Instant Honesty: This really helps to connect with the person who you are talking to. This bond/connection leads to increased trust which is important in building any relationship. Many members (myself included) have observed that people tell us secrets/very personal information quickly while wearing Instant Honesty. I will like this because it will help girls to trust/connect with you- they will feel like they can tell you anything.
You can read about my personal experiences with Instant Shine/Instant Gentleman/Instant Honesty/Come Talk to Me in my journal titled “my notes”
I’m curious, how did you find out about this site?
So it appears your looking for two things, a stronger connection, and possibly more confidence.
For the connection, Instant Honesty is what you want. It creates a bonding feeling that most women respond very well to. They might even tell you things you never expected to hear.
Instant Gentleman can help with confidence as well as making you appear charismatic. It also can increase the respect you gain. The main molecule in this mix is androsterone, and it has been shown to put females in a good mood!
Finally, Instant shine is a good choice too. Its generally a happy, confident product that affects not only you bot those around you.
If your interested in something a sexual in nature, Turn Up the Heat is what you want. A little goes a long way here, and I would personally say that it is best used when you already have a connection going with someone, although others have success using it to attract too.
Good Luck and I hope you find these products help!
Remember though, you make results, not the mones!
I was low on everything, like 3.6 on the alpha one… 3.9 on the others…
Another strange thing about me:
Some women are STROOOOOONGLY attracted to me, I tend to get a very few women but they turn psycho stalker on me but I don’t attract many others. It is odd, my last two “relationships” have been them stalking me and obsessed beyond all logic and reason.
Since the guys already covered the bases perfectly. Just IME, I know where you’re coming from, since you work out a lot and if you’re ripped you’re producing a lot of -anone as it is. I know that for a fact because I’m now about 12% BF and too much -anone ghosts with me. IG works well IMO but since you said you might have had some insecurities in the past, and you don’t know if alpha was more or less just an appearance then A314 is the way to go for your core pheromone product. You also have to face whatever insecurity it might be and just bring it out in the open for you yourself to deal with, that’s all, you will see a longer lasting more confident change with yourself.
Well my build and everything is NOT from my natural tendancies. I am a bodybuilder type and highly enhanced with supplements and fat burners.
I would assume I am about 6-7% bf and a true sub 8% for sure which is generally a lie from most people
Just for an example I will attach pictures… Here is me before I started cutting, mid way through and what I looked like last year after finishing my cut
I use supps too and fat burners. Now assuming the legal kind, they really shouldn’t affect your hormone production too much. Many empirical studies have come out that they help growth hormone production, increase testosterone, but really its your muscles that will do that regardless.
Now if you used other methods I won’t mention in a public forum, you could have thrown your hormonal balance off, and produced estrogen, which would inhibit -anone production. IME that’s what I think could have happened based on the logic of the science behind pheromones. I’m not a chemist or a doctor so I’m not sure.
But stick with the socials like the guys have recommended and go with the alpha vibe of A314. It costs just as much as a big bottle of NO2 Black but lasts longer with better results.
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- but you will also have to keep improving yourself