Data4's Journal

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Journals
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Today was an all around goofy day that culminated in a handjob at the Vu. Yes, I finally got some extracurricular action at a strip club. Woo.

I was wearing about 100 mcgs of P83, 75 mcgs of P74, 4 sprays of IH 2x, 4 sprays of IShine, a drop of A314 to the scalp, and two sprays of MX203.

When I got to work, Sarah was all smiles. For some strange reason, she was acting all glad to see me. Weird. We chatted for a few, then I headed over to the assignment board. I ended up being the only male in a work assignment with 4 other females. These are people I am not in the least bit attracted to. Just want to make that clear. No, no hits from them. Anyway, this particular task is usually reserved for the men, since it involves a lot of heavy lifting. My team leader comes into our work area and makes a comment, “I can’t believe I put all women in here.” As she’s walking out, it dawned on her, and she busted out laughing. I’m standing there with this “Gee, thanks!” look on my face. She started going into this really weak explanation, and I said “Yeah, yeah… I’m gonna have to hit the GNC before work and stock up on some testosterone supplements, since I’m not male enough for this gig.” I paused a beat, then, “I just have to figure out if I want to do this before or after I get my nails done.” Chuckles ensue.

This becomes the basis for an ALL DAY running gag. She even set up the manager from the F-22 side to walk into the work area and say “So, I understand you ladies did an excellent job today.” More chuckles. Other interactions were lighthearted and fun. I’m totally loving this combo for work.

So, after I got off, I decided “what the hell?” and hit the Deja Vu. I brought my bottle of MX203 with me, so I gave myself 2 shots to the neck right before I pulled in. I went in, and the place was packed. A little while later, I see a girl from Fox’s who started at the Vu after the raid. She’s the one I got the dance from when I first wore Dirty to Fox’s. She said it smelled good. Anyway, the dance prices at the Vu are a little different, as you can get 1 song’s worth of “touch all you want” for $30, compared to the $100 for 3 songs with minimal rules at Fox’s. So, she offered a dance and I told her all I had was 20s, so what could I get for $40? A handjob, that’s what. LOL Blew my mind. She took me to the booth and said “I’ll make it worth the extra 10 for ya.” She reached into her little change purse thingy and pulled out a condom, then shoved me back against the booth and started undoing my belt. I helped her out. She then started rubbing me through my underwear to wake up the beast. Then, in an extremely fast motion, she whipped it out and had the condom on it. She turned around, pressing her ass against my chest and jacked me off between her legs. She even cleaned me up and disposed of the condom for me.

I feel like I’ve reached a milestone here. LOL Now I just need to get similar treatment without paying.

-D4

Stripclub seduction
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Had an A314 overdose today. Originally, I was going to do a drop between the wrists, a drop shared on the backs of my ears, and one on my scalp. Well… I’ve got this intermittent nervous twitch in my left hand that usually happens when I hold my arm up under strain. Sometimes it’ll happen when I’m not holding anything heavy. After I’d applied the two drops to my ears and wrists, I held the bottle over my head. Right before the drop fell, my hand twitched, and 3 more drops came out. So, that’s a total of 6 drops.

I figured I’d leave it alone and see what happens. HA! I turned into an assertive, no-bullshit, no fucking around, zero tolerance for ignorance, either shit or get off the pot, business taking care of machine at work. We had some new daily assignments that people were acting childish about, so I stepped up and told the whiners how ridiculous they sounded, and if they couldn’t handle 5 minutes of additional work, then to stay the hell out of the way while the rest of us handled it. People were taken aback by the sudden sprouting of fangs and horns on my part, but they seemed to acquiesce. Some acted a little butthurt, but at the end of the day, everyone did their part.

Keep in mind, I’m just a peer of these people with no authority. I just decided I’d had enough with the petty bullshit excuses people were making why this or that wasn’t fair and stepped up. It was empowering, but I’m afraid I may have pissed some people off. Looks like tomorrow will be extra Shiney topped off with Spaceland. :smiley:

-D4

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6 drops? Wow. Sounds to me like A314 definitely has a dark edge if you go overboard. I bet most of that effect is due to androstenone increasing along with some of the other pheromones in A314.

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I don’t know. I’ve worn a lot of -none before in the form of really wet NPA dabs, and the most I got out of it was a ghosting effect. -None may have been a driving force in this experience, but I think it was the synergy of all the pheromones in A314 working in unison. This was kind of similar to what shosayn reported in the A314 forum.

Normally, I do take notice of the pettiness shown by some of my co-workers, but I just shrug it off. Today, however, it really irritated me. We’re supposed to be a team, but many people were just being obstinate and… well, stupid.

The assignment is part of a Lean initiative by my company. Without going into all the details, “Lean” is an efficiency strategy many companies employ to cut down on costly waste and increase productivity. The end result for us is a better organized work area, and some really nice incentives we’re awarded for reaching goals. Rather than look at the big picture, some of the people were just focusing on “me”, i.e. “How is this going to inconvenience me?”, “Why do I have to do that?”, etc. Grown people acting like elementary school students. I had a really short fuse and just let them have it. I wanted to say more, but I had to show a little restraint.

I’d try this again to check for repeatability, but I don’t want to put work relations in jeopardy.

-D4

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Congrats! I really think MX203 is a winner! It like a dessert, that can be added to any mix!

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Heck, I’m like that sometimes even without pheromones. I don’t have alot of tolerance for petty people. Sounds to me like you did go overboard with A314, but your co-workers were also having hangups.

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So I got to work and the place was dead. Half of first shift had left early, and the only work to do was cleaning. We got the option to use personal/vacation time or take an LWOP (Leave w/o Pay) for the day, so I took off. Called up Paradise to see if she was working tonight. She called me right back and we talked for a bit. I found out she has MS and the recent heat we’ve been having up here has been bothering her, and that she was taking off until Tuesday.

Not sure how or if this relates to the non-contact I’ve had with her after a particularly intimate private dance I got from her a couple of weeks ago. I’ve had a theory that maybe something took place that lowered the “professional detachment shield” I imagine strippers put up to keep things from getting personal, and she was embarrassed about it, but I’m not sure.

She said something about Starbuck’s tonight, but I’m not going to put much stock in that. She told me to call her later to figure out which one and what time. I’m sure the usual “Oh, I can’t do it… something came up” thing will happen. Might be a good opportunity to try to give her the old “Look this is the third time you’ve done this. My time is valuable to me, so I’m not even going to waste it by telling you how rude I think you are. If you decide you want to do something and aren’t going to flake out on me, give me a call. click”

-D4

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Not to be too judgement, but that sounds a little harsh. I’m sure you could come up with something else that’s a little less critical and more neutral, and doesn’t sound so needy in a backhanded way. I mean she does have MS after all, and she might be dealing with some conflicting feelings too. I wish I knew what exactly to say in that situation, but I regret to say I’ve never been it it. Here’s a youtube video that might have some ideas YouTube - Two signs of maturity that are attractive to women!

That just reminded me of something I read in “How to Win Friends and Influence People”. I know I always hated, too, when people have judged my actions in the past through their own eyes instead of trying to see them through mine. So put yourself in her shoes before you say anything.

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Well, actually, this is based on an old Ross Jeffries method of ball-busting. The original context was if you’re picking a girl up for a date, she invites you in, and then proceeds to talk on the phone for 20 minutes when she’s supposed to be getting ready to go.

It is pretty harsh, but the idea is to get across that you have self-worth, and you expect to be respected the same way a girl would. The followup to the statement, (assuming I don’t hang up on her), is “How would you feel if I pulled that on you?”

I know what you mean about the chapter from How to Win Friends…, but this really would be at least the third time she flaked on me (if she flakes), and I’d much rather be told she didn’t want to go than for her to make like she would and then cancel at the last minute. It’s almost like in her mind, she doesn’t want to hurt my feelings or something, but I can take it. The saying goes that the truth hurts, but I like to add “…but not as much as being lied to.”

-D4

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I guess it would depend on your voice intonation, too. If you said the above in a certain way, it could come across as very harsh. If I were to say it, especially to somebody’s face, it would probably make their blood run cold. I have that effect on people :slight_smile:

I’d still try something more neutral like “Hmm… I see you are busy… you’ve been busy alot lately it seems, is something up? Perhaps some other time. I have other things I need to do though and my time is important. Let’s talk again when you really feel serious about doing something.”

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i think d4’s approach is valid in this situation. remember, he is dealing with a stripper.

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That, and I’ve got a little cred to back me up. Every time I’ve ever told her I’d come to the club, I did. Every time.

And yeah, she flaked. I called her like she asked, and she was going out to eat with her cousin, and that she’d call me in an hour and a half or so. That was about 4 hours ago. Ah well… I’m more aggravated with myself, really. I could have gone out and done something, knowing this was going to happen, but I chose instead to wait. Oh well, there’s tomorrow night.

-D4

So, be honest. Spit or swallow?
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I’m a bit confused by your meaning here… I think everybody deserves to be treated with the same courtesey regardless of their station in life. Perhaps I am misunderstanding what you are saying.

I do think the person’s behavior in question (the stripper) was possibly rude, and definitely througthless. But that’s not the same as somebody telling somebody else they are rude. One implies something that is temperorary, the other is a comment on somebody’s character. People tend to become very defensive when you talk about their character, but if you comment on their behavior they are more open to criticism. “You are rude” vs. “you were acting rude”. They are two different statements and only one little word is different in there, so the difference is somewhat subtle

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Heading out to the casino. Just gonna go to relax, have a beer, and play a little. Truth be told, the only reason I go there is that the Indian-owned casinos are the only places in Washington where you can have a drink and smoke. Plus the restaurants they have are great. I may play some slots or a little blackjack, so wish me luck!

I’ve decided to put on a fun social mix, including:

3 drops of A314, wrists, chin and ears
5 sprays of Instant Shine all over
2 sprays of Instant Honesty 2x on the arms
2 sprays of Spaceland on the shoulders
2 sprays of P79
And a “what the hell?” 2 drops of dirty baby oil, 1 to stomach and 1 on the wrists

I let it all dry down for about 20 minutes then covered with 3 sprays of Issey Miyake Intense, 2 to the neck and 1 shared on the wrists. So far, no Dirty funk, so that’s good. Heh.

Depending on how my luck goes, I may hit up Fox’s to celebrate, so I’m bringing my bottle of Turn Up The Heat 2x to apply in the parking lot, should I go.

-D4

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data4, why tuth? I thought you were going for social mix

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i should have said he is dealing with a stripper mentality, i did not intend to demean the profession. it is not a matter of returning a rude act for a rude act. rather, he will stand out from all the others she is most likely stringing along by calling her on her actions.

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Bingo.

-D4

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You should look up Borderline Personality some time, it’s very common among exotic dancers/stirppers, and to a lesser extent entertainers in general. Suffice it to say “tough love” and “straight talk” with a BPD sufferer would fall on very deaf ears and they’d likely throw everything you say back at you. On the contrary, people with BPD have often had a childhood of criticism, emotional and physical abuse and have developed defense mechanisms to deal with any percieved harshness or hostility. You’ld have much better luck maintaning emotional distance from somebody like that and appealing to their wellbeing, but truthfully even trained clinicians find people with BPD trying and it can be difficult to treat, especially without medications (plus, people with BPD love to manipulate and “string people along”). I’m not saying that BPD is the issue in this case, but it’s a possibility.

Sorry for typing up your journal, though, Data… how is the Spaceland? I’ve never tried it… is it useful really? BTW, you are using baby oil? You know you can get mineral oil in most pharmacies, right… it’s next to the laxatives usually. I am using it to dilute essential oils and it seems to work OK for that, and is cheaper than jojoba and has no smell.

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data why Turn Up The Heat ?

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I’m thinking her MS is probably part of the culprit, so I’ve decided to just let it slide. It’s not really that important to me. Sure, I was a bit aggrivated at first, but I don’t want to put too much importance on her. She’s just a dancer who I patronize at the club, and if she wants to meet for coffee and we actually go, then great. Otherwise, it’s no big deal.

Spaceland is cool, but the clary sage makes it pretty strong smelling. It smells like a mix of catnip and tea, and really stands out above any cover or the other pheromones. It gives me a light, buzzy feeling without making me lose my senses. It compliments an IShine combo nicely and makes for an overall happy, laid back vibe. I had a lot of people chatting me up at the casino, both men and women. Mostly people sitting to the left and right of me while I was playing slots. We all became eachother’s cheerleaders, highfiving whenever something big rolled up on eachother’s machines. I was up $500, but slowly wittled it away and ended up leaving with as much money as I started with. Ah well, it was fun at least.

I don’t really mind the smell of baby oil, and it usually goes away after a half hour or so. It’s not very strong anyway.

-D4