Date tonight!

So I’ve got IS x4, IO x4, IH x4, AMMO, TUTH, IG and A314. Both me and her are 21. What do you suggest guys?

My standard date mix is ammo + IH + IS I may sometimes sub IH for IO if its a first date to try and cut down any awkward silences.

How long have you known her? Have you gone out before? Tell us more and we can better help you :slight_smile:

Known her for a couple of weeks now but this is a first date.

I want to be able to help you but your one liners are a killer! :slight_smile:.

I mean there are so many variables here that I could just say three sprays of TUTH and hope for the best. The more info you can provide the better the chances of an expert opinion.

BTW is A314 oil?

Yes it’s oil. Okay we met 2 or 3 weeks ago at our volunteer site where we work with kids. At first I didn’t think much of her but once we started talking we hit it off. She is really sassy and fun. Loves to joke around and be sarcastic. Pretty much my kind of humor. I asked her out last week to this great wine restaurant I came across so that’s where we’re going.

I don’t think TUTH would be such a good idea. I tend to OD fairly easily

Damn, this was last night. Sorry man but my day ended and even though I love the community a guy has got to go and live life too. I wish you could have posted that info a bit earlier.

How did the date go and what did you wear?

No problem at all Steve. I know how dedicated the the community you are.

The date went really well in my opinion. We had a really fun time. There was no kiss or anything though which is the only reason I think she may not be interested but even so I had a great time and we really got to know each other.

I wore 1 drop of A314, 1 spray of AMMO, IS x4 and IH x4

Well I am glad it went well for yah my friend. There are a lot of variables with mones and just recommending something cause it works good on me, doesn’t mean it will work the same for you.

From reading your post, it appears as if you got close to what I was going to suggest anyway. A key to making a combo that I like to do, is to determine how I would describe each product as to what it does.

Here’s how I would go about describing the combo you wore to your date last night:
IH is the quality of the conversation, the deep rapport. You can trust me, I’m BF material, I am discretionary.
A314: I’m the real deal, a gentleman, but can handle myself. I am trustworthy and honorable. I don’t act out, I’m not an adolescent or child and I have stability in my life. I am the confident male you don’t see a lot of anymore. I won’t take your crap, but I don’t let it bother me either.
Ishine: I have an identity and sense of well-being. I love myself and because of this I am confident. My strong sense of identity wears off on those around me and as such I am surrounded by comfort. Because I smile, they smile.
AMMO: I am a sexy man who is not afraid of liking you. I can show that I have a sexual side and am OK with it. I’m mature and respect those around me. I walk with my head up, shoulders back, a swagger if you must. I understand my sexuality and that makes me sexy

Now that I have determined what each product, and how it fits my lifestyle, can be described I start to add those descriptions together. If I want a little more confidence and a good strong sense of well being I use more Ishine. If I want to be that sexy man who is confident and yet has a streak of “bad” in him I wear more Ammo and Ishine and a little of IH.

The thing is, those are my descriptions of how the products work for me. I HIGHLY recommend you start coming up with your own descriptions and putting them to a journal. When the time comes for a romantic interlude, a business presentation, a appeal to better judgment, you have your base descriptions and to get the combo you want you just add the descriptions together :slight_smile:. If you want more of something with just a little of something else you add more of that description and a dash of something else.

I hope that makes sense to you. It’s one of the reasons I never liked CTTM. It was a 50/50 split of IH to IO (pretty much) so it didn’t afford me that opportunity to be more deep than carefree and chatty. I like more IH than IO in that instance.

Keep asking questions, that’s what we are all here for. Its what makes the community great :slight_smile:

Another thing I wanted to add is that I make a listing of every product I own and then categorize each scenario I might encounter. I have categories for guy friend, girl friend, dates, sex, bar/club, business. I describe how each product for me works in those scenarios. Ishine, while similar in most of those categories, at least for me, has some differences too. If I know I’m going to be in a certain situation I can see what I have described for the situation and then make my combo decisions based on the leg-work I already put in.

It’s really not that tough or to much work. I don’t make it rocket science by making my descriptions complicated down to every nuance. Just a general idea what it does in that type of situation so that I can make a better informed decision when the time arises. Its one of the BIG reasons I can pretty much go out whenever I want and make a situation work for me.

A suit for every occasion is … Indescribably Delicious! :wink:

Probably the best advice I have had on these forums. Thank you so much Steve. I shall keep your advice in mind.