So, I used to be an avid user of A314, and for the most part, REALLY loved it. It made me feel very authoritative, and I noticed I got a lot of eyes from older folks, respect from bosses, and younger girls looked like they were trying to impress me.
I’ve been out of the phero game for a while, but now, I’m looking to purchase something else, and I’m thinking A314 again.
Here’s the deal though: my “target” at the time was a (then) 24-25 year old white girl. She was flirty at times, but she was VERY subtle about it. So subtle, to the point that I didn’t move, she moved on and found another guy, and stopped talking to me completely (she knew I liked her).
I have a couple of things I’m looking for with my pheros now as well. Particularly, I’m in graduate school, so I do want to seem like somewhat of an authority, but also approachable.
My current target is a Puerto Rican girl who moved to the US. She is VERY focused and confident, and doesn’t really fit the stereotype of PR women. Based on conversations with her, she seems very passionate and empathic.
With that being said, the vibe I’m looking for is more “lone, confident, wolf” than alpha male, but I’m also looking for “confident, sexy, and certain” more than a typical loud frat boy type. i.e. I’m looking for a quiet confidence, but also very approachable that has people open up to me, yet see me as an authority figure.
It also needs to be suitable for the intense graduate school setting (I am taking many doctoral level courses at an esteemed University), so I don’t want to come off as offensive.
Apparently, my vibe is very “mysterious,” and I have an INKLING that PR likes me, but she’s uncertain about me. I would like something that would open her up a little more and make her a little less subtle (if, indeed, my suspicions are correct about her).
I’ve BEEN using the past couple of classes:
2 sprays of androstenone, 5mcg.
2 sprays of IShine, standard strength
with mixed results. Last class, we were completing each other’s sentences a little bit with some eye contact. I tried to catch her on the elevator (only time we get alone time), and my lady friend (who knows I like PR) came to join us. She RIGHT AWAY asked if we were in other classes together (some may think that my friend and I are dating – I took this as “checking his availability” question). However, there ended up being 6 or 7 people on the elevator, and she went back to her super formal “I’m going to be late for my next class” self (even though she mentioned that the only time she hasn’t been alone on the elevator was with me). It’s worth noting that she laughs at what I have to say ALL the time (I’d say at least 3 times per class–but again, I don’t know if this is a personality quirk or a sign of attraction).
tl;dr – thinking about buying A314, not sure if it’s right for me anymore. Target is a very driven Puerto Rican girl, 23-25 years old. Want a phero to help her open up with real intentions towards me a little more, making subtleties a little less subtle (for better or worse – I think she likes me, but may see me as unattainable, so looking for something that gives off the more “attainable” vibe). Needs to be intense graduate class appropriate. I could also be TERRIBLY wrong about PR, and she may also be playing very nice, and I’m just reading too much into her niceness. She definitely, at the very least, finds me physically attractive (based on something that happened earlier in the term). Looking for authoritative, approachable, sexy, quiet confidence, easy to open up to, somewhat attainable vibe. WILLING TO STACK, but NOT WILLING TO STACK 23423453452345 different products at once
I’d appreciate ANY advice about A314 and other products 