I must say that at first I entered this world of Pheros with a bit of skepticism. Nonetheless, after much research I opted to venture into it. I made my order on Tuesday and by noontime the next day I had my pheros. I checked back at the website to see exactly how to work with them. That first day I used some Instant Sexiness. I went to work and I felt I had a different strut to my step. It made me feel nice. Some of my coworkers noticed. Some were extra friendly with me asking if I needed any help. Sam even walked by me and smacked my derriere. I turned and asked her what that was for and she replied by saying, "It was just there asking for me to hit it”. We laughed it off and carried on with getting our flights out (I work nights at FedEx). Ben, another friend, could not stay away. He got me a water bottle without my asking and asked if I had done anything different to my self. I said not really, I re-colored my hair but that was last week. His response was "yeah I remember that, but today you look very nice…” (We all wear the same hideous uniforms).
Thursday Nov. 20, 2008.
I originally got my pheros to open up communications and intimacy with my husband. I knew we had our scheduled counseling session, so I dabbed on some Instant Honesty, Instant Openness, and Instant Sexiness. I must say that we actually had a breakthrough session. We actually talked about what is really troubling us. Our 1-hour session extended to 1.5 hours. We both experienced a few “AHA” moments. I must say that our therapist is absolutely great. However, after 4 sessions little was the progress we had made until yesterday of course. I even think the Pheros affected all of us, because our therapist was even sharing some of her experiences with us. It was great. We left therapy hand in hand and shared a few kisses in the car. Later we picked up the kids at the sitter, went home, had dinner, and got the kids to bed. I showered and dabbed a little Instant Sexiness and used a dab of Turn Up The Heat just under my nose. Not 10 minutes after laying down my husband was already reaching over to me. Sex was great. It definitely was more intense and frisky than usual. Even my big O was stronger. Of course, me being a skeptic I do not know if it had more to do with the Pheros or the fact it had been about 1 month since our last intimate encounter. I will have to try it out again to really be convinced.
So I know its been a few days since I report my progress, I’ve just been so busy with these Pheros. Wow do they work… So last time I wrote I told you about my break through counseling with my husband. The following day, Friday, I decided to give the Pheros a break. I wanted to see if there was a difference between my hubby and I. Nothing eventful happened other than we didn’t fight.
On Saturday, we had a day filled with errands and what not. So I dabbed on some Instant Sexiness-I just wanted to feel pretty. Can you believe that my hubby actually paid me a compliment? If you knew him you would know that is not normal. Anyhow, we had to go into town (Boston) to renew passports and visit with some friends. When traveling in Boston I usually get lost and he gets upset, not this time, he was calm cool and collected. Later he asked if I wanted anything to eat and treated me to some Dominican Food at the Merengue Restaurant. We visited our friends and they both told me that I looked great and one of them told my husband to hold on to me cuz someone might just snag me from him. It was a funny moment, you had to be there. Anyhow, by the time we got home, I was exhausted and he wanted to go visit a friend. So he went along and came home close to midnight. By this time, I had already showered and dabbed on my Instant Sexiness and Turn Up the Heat. Before coming home, he had called to tell me he was on his way. And added that he was going straight to bed cuz he was very tiered. Needless to say it didn’t quite happen like that. He came home, took one good look at me and grinned. Bedtime was late for us that night, which is a very good thing.
There are however, a few things I’ve realized. These Pheros work, thats a given. But after reading the many posts through out this phorum, I was expecting the results to take a bit longer. Being that he and I have been together for close to 10 years, I was prepared to see results a bit later. This gets me to thinking that the relationship was in a worse position than i had originally thought. Because he and I had been living together for so long he was suppose to have a slower response time being that he was already accustomed to me. His immediate response tells me either that the Pheros are too strong or that he and I had grown further apart. I tend to believe the later. This has become a big AHA moment for me…
The other thing I realized is that when we ladies wear Turn Up the Heat we really only need a little bit. See I made the mistake of using 1 full spray on my chest. The sex was great but I was restless after the fact. I couldn’t sleep I wanted more and more. I ended up having to take a shower so I could get to sleep. So ladies be sure to read the instructions. While being horny is a good thing too much could mean disaster.
I do have a quick question - I’ve read that all these Pheros have different scents, mine all smell like men’s cologne… Is it me or is that the case? I use Instant Honesty, Instant Openness, Instant Sexiness, and Turn Up the Heat. They all smell like my husbands Eternity cologne. Am I going crazy or is this the way it should be?
awesome report, cindy! i must admit, i’m jealous that the pheros have started working so quickly for you! lol! sounds like they’re really helping out your relationship with your hubby, which is great.
i totally agree with you - when i use instant honesty, instant shine, etc, i find the neroli scent reminds me of mens cologne don’t worry, it’s not just you
I think it’s all about location. Last time I was out, I used a full spray (from the to-go bottle, so not a full dose), but I made sure to position it so that I wouldn’t be breathing it in whereas other people would. I didn’t get ravished (unfortunately), but I got the feeling that I put a few thoughts into my target’s head.
I’ll have to keep that in mind. I did spray it right on my chest so I was definately breathing all of it in. Next time I’ll try it on my wrists and behind my ears.
I ended up having to take a shower so I could get to sleep. So ladies be sure to read the instructions. While being horny is a good thing too much could mean disaster.
don’t worry, it’s not just you