Thursday 2/4, I used the oil based A314, two drops split between my wrists and jaw line. The effects were slower to build, but more sustained. The effects were also more subtle. The spray kind of hit me early and hard, while the oil version crept up on me and was more of a back ground. I did notice that after a couple of hours my posture was improving, and I was feeling self assured. The effects on others was also more subtle, more of a nudge, then a shove. The effects seemed to last about ten hours and then slowly tapered off. Most definitely a smoother experience.
Friday 2/4
I again used the oil based A314 , two drops split between my wrists and jaw line. The effects were a little more then the previous day. They still come on slow, but it seemed a little stronger, but still not very overt. People at work were seeking out my opinions and help solving problems in areas were I would not usually be consulted. In most cases I was able to provide input and had the confidence to make my case with out being obnoxious or pushy, and my input was well received.
When I got home the wife was out shopping, so I relaxed a bit then just prior to her getting home I used 1spray plus a little (the first spray wasn’t a full spray) of Shine and maybe half a spray of TUTH. So far the wife has yet to show any response to TUTH. I’m not saying that she isn’t feeling anything, just that she isn’t showing it. The Shine on top of the TUTH plus the A314 that I put on earlier gave me a happy relaxed alpha feeling that seemed to calm and relax her. I still have work to do to break the ice.
You’re doing great Kevin. You should move up to three drops now.
If you really want to see some remarkable results wear about 5 drops of A314 and two sprays of regular strength TUTH. This will rock your socks at parties and social events.
Saturday 2/5, Given that I didn’t shower friday night, and the wife wanted to go to the mall, in the morning, I just put on one drop of A314, and 2sprays I-shine. The A314 at one drop didn’t seem to have much self effect, but the A314 and I-shine improved my mood and seemed to calm and relax he wife. The combination of I-shine and A314 seems to be a good mix for me. But the effects are much better with more then one drop. I made it thru the shopping trip with out being rude, grumpy or complaining, and to any of the sales clerks or my wife. But I didn’t feel particularly alpha, or get any hints of respect or anything from any of the sales clerks, or my wife.
Today, Sunday 2/6 is a day off from -mones.
Tomorrow, I am going to take Steve’s advice and try three drops of A314.
Monday, 2/7. Used 3drops A314, one split between wrists. And one drop behind each ear along jaw line. The self effect were no different then with two drops. I felt confident with out feeling stand offish the way I’d felt when mixing A314 with IG. Work was busy, and people seem to be developing a sense that I’m the go to guy for fixing problems. This wasn’t quite what I was hoping for, but it’s not entirely bad either. I’m bucking for a promotion so being valuable is good, but being too valuable too promote isn’t. So I have to remember to keep an even keel.
The real influence of A314 however, was really apparent when I went out to do a little shopping at lunch. I’ve dropped a bit of weight, and my clothes are not fitting as well, so I went to Macys to pick up a couple of pair of pants and shirts for work. I walk into the men’s dept to get some Dockers, and the sales guy comes up and with in a minute he becomes my personal shopper. He basically ignores the other shoppers in the dept and waits on me getting me pant to try on while I wait in the dressing room. After picking out the two pair I went in for I say I need a couple of polo type shirts which are in a different section, so he escorts me over to the section and gets one of the ladies there to help me. With in a minute she too becomes my personal shopper helping me match shirts with my pants. After a minute or two of this another sales lady comes up, and wonders what is going on, then she too decides whe wants to help out as well. So there aim being waited on by two sales people while other folks walk around unassisted in the section. I only buy two shirts. When they ring me up however they both chat with me with these big stupid grins, and give me a discount. I could get used to this.
At home, when I arrive the wife is still on the computer, trying to solve a problem. She asks for my help, and when I suggest a possible solution she try’s it out, but it doesn’t work. Rather then just get more frustrated, we work together for a few minutes and work it out. Normally this would have been a stressful situation, but she reacted calmly, and folloed my lead. Not that I was trying to tell her what to do, but thtas the way it worked. She has been nicer to me when I wear A314. There are still things to work thru with her however.
Tuesday 2/8, I again used 3 drops of A314. I’m not sure if it was the weather, or just what but I don’t get the same vibe or effect from the A314 yesterday. In fact I’d have to say that yesterday was a real off day. It’s not that I was a ghost, but no one really paid any attention or showed any real elevated level of respect. Maybe my karma was just out of line. Even the self effects were missing. I will try again Wednesday especially after the day I had on Monday. Here’s hoping for a better day.
Wednesday 2/9, I again used 3 drops A314, one split between my wrists, and one each behind each ear and down the jaw line. The effects today were also not good. The self effects were such that I was fatigued by lunch time. I felt like I was shouldering an enormous responsibility. The people I worked with neither avoided me nor sought me out. Conversation generally stopped when I showed up. Most everyone looked down when they talked to me, and seemed intimidated. I found it very difficult to be congruent with the vibe I was putting out and feeling. Monday must have been an outlier, either that or I need to save days where I wear more than two drops for an occasion or business function. Back to two drops.
Thursday 2/10, I went back to 2 drops A314 split between my wrists and jaw line, plus 2 sprays I-Shine. It was a much better day. I got the positive self effects of the A314, and a little added sparkle from the IS. The females I work with definateley seemed friendlier, and I got more response from the guys, who were respectful but not intimidated, like they seemed on the previous day. I can see A314 plus I-shine being an everyday mix for work. The I-S seems to take the rough edge off the A314 with out diluting the increased esteem/respect effects.
After work I had a meeting for a club I belong to, were I am the treasurer. A few minutes prior to arriving, I gave myself a booster shot of I-shine. It provided me a nice little pick me up, and everyone at the table were I sat seemed to relax, and smile a little more then usual. I may have to do some more experimenting with the I-shine to find the good level for me.
Friday 2/12, I wanted to lighten it up a little today, being FRiday and all, so I used 2sprays IG, plus 2sprays IS. The IG does a nice job of confident self effects, and the IS adds the finishing touch. The effects on the people I work with were a “lite” version of A314, definitely an increase in regard, but much more sociable. The women I work with were much more comfortable and closed the personal space, and one, who was single, got very close - which is unusual for her.
Prior to going to happy hour , I decided to put on one drop of A314, plus 2 sprays of ammo,and a spray of IS. This is a mix I’ve read about over and over, so I thought I would give it a try. I definitely got hits. Unfortunately, it was from other women, and not my wife. I had two women I’ve never met, come up and start talking to me, one even leaned in, smelled me, and gave me a quick kiss on the cheek. The wives/gf’s of the other guys I was with were very flirty and more touchy then normal. So I’d have to give this mix a thumbs up, and file it away for future use if things with the wife don’t work out.
Thanks for the reports. I enjoyed reading them
God bless
Joe
Saturday 2/12, was a day off from -mones.
Sunday 2/13. The wife and I had decided to go out for valentines day on Sunday, rather then Monday. After a few early morning chores and errands, I got my shower and used dial magnetic. I applied 2 drops A314, and 2ish sprays of I-shine. We went to one of our favorite restaurants,for the special v-day dinner. I may have gotten a couple of extra smiles from the wait staff,but is hard to tell as the service is always top notch. Wife was pleasant enough, but the IS seemed to really effect her on the way home. She was in a good mood and decided she wanted to finish a bottle of wine we had opened earlier, this is after a full bottle at dinner. After that she wanted port and chocolate. Somewhere in there the IS wore off and her mood with it. The A314 effects are subtle with her, and probably will need more time to fully do their thing. We have been together for 15 years after all. But I suppose it could be that the IS effects were just over riding any effect of the A314. But the combined effects still made for a very pleasant evening.
Monday 2/14, used 2 drops A314 split between wrists and jawline, plus 2 sprays I-shine. I seem to be settling in to a role where I am accepted as being in an alpha role. People seem to naturally defer to me, and seek my advice at work. The self effects are less noticeable but when I think about it I notice I am assuming a posture indicative of leadership.
I went for a haircut, and the receptionist seemed to get nervous with me waiting, and put the person on the phone on hold, and pfusely apologized for making me wait. The girl who cuts my hair was a little less talkative then normal, but kept putting herself in a position while cutting my hair that gave me a nice view of her cleavage. She also spent a rather long time playing with my hair trying to get it to comb and dry just the way she wanted it. I usually get service at this place but I was treated a little more VIP.
Tuesday 2/15, I used2 drops A314 plus 2 sprays of I-shine. When making my morning walk around to say hello, J, one of the single women in the office, stopped after walking past me and said,“you smell good” and proceeded to move real close and get a good whiff. She then got a big silly grin and wide eyes. She walked away making “mmm” noises. Other then that the day was fairly uneventful. Upon arriving home, after a few minutes of exposure the wifes mood seemed to improve. Both A314 and IG seem to affect her positively.
How long did you have it on for both instances to occur?
The first was about 2 - 2.5 hours, The second about 10 hours. J the single girl/women ( she is in mid 30’s)seems very receptive to A314 when its stronger/ earlier in the day. Wife seems receptive in general as well, it just takes a little time to hit her.
Wednesday 2/16, used2 drops A314 plus 2 sprays I-shine. Overall an uneventful day. I didn’t sleep well the night before. So I was dragging ass a little all day.people seemed to sense that wasn’t on my A game so if they needed something they came, asked what they needed to ask, and left me alone. Not a bad thing. The self effects were such that I was tolerant, and confident, but it was probably clear that I wasn’t up for a bunch of bs. Even at home the wife was pleasant, but didn’t really try too hard to engage me. Hey, everybody has an off day.
Ok Time to Catch Up.
Thursday 2/17, Used 2 drops A314 split between writs and neck, and 2 sprays IS. All morning I was busy, and didn’t really have time to notice anything. After lunch I had a meeting with Mad Mal, head of customer service. Along with Mal, several other of the supervisors of various teams are also here. Just Prior to going to the meeting I give myself a booster spray from a to go of A314b and a spray of IS. I purposely sit next to Mal. Normally he goes off on several rants. This day, when he starts to go off he doesn’t have his usual bluster and I am able to redirect him back to the business at hand. Coincidence?
Friday, 2/18 I used 2 sprays IG, plus 2 sprays Ammo, plus 2 sprays IS. It was just one of those days were I wanted to see what would happen. First thing in the morning The admin walks around handing out pay stubs. She stops by my cube and begins to talk, about anything and everything. and giving out blatant IOI’s. Aside from the fact that she is single, not very attractive, and desperate anyway, I just really don’t much like her. So despite her trying to be nice and get my attention I say something that will get her to leave. Normally she would just give me the finger and walk off. This day however she just flips. Calls me names, and storms off red faced. An hour or two later, shes back, playing with her hair trying to talk again.
I go out for lunch, and the girl who waits on me(mid 20’s I guess), gets the big grin, and big eyes, and Ignores everyone around me. Of course I flirt back. She gives me a discount and tells me what time she gets off.
Saturday 2/19 I put on 2 sprays of IG, and ran errands, I seemed to get really good customer service everywhere I went.
Sunday 2/20 and Monday 2/21 were off days.
Tuesday 2/22 - Thursday 2/24
I wore 2 drops A314 split between wrists and neck. There were no overt effects that I noticed, it seemed more that I was generally being accepted and acknowledged as being of a high status or important. I now am beginning to understand the “life lube” description that has been used to describe the longer term effects of A314. I seem to be able to get things done and get my my with less resistance then before, but it is subtle.
Friday 2/25 I used 2 sprays IG, plus 2 TUTH, plus 2 I-shine. Friday is kind of becoming my experiment day. When I came down stairs my wife looked at me like I was up to something and she wasn’t sure if it was good or bad. She didn’t say anything, but I got the raised eyebrow a couple of times. At work this blend was hit or miss. I felt kind of cocky, and maybe was a little too cocky. I’m not sure. After work a couple of us went to a gentleman’s club to celebrate one of their birthdays. It may have been his birthday, but I got most of the attention.
Saturday 2/26
I wore two sprays of IG. I went to a community fund raiser, a fried oyster dinner for the local high schools athletic program. I was was around mostly family and friends and the IG was a nice social mixer in this environment.
interesting journal man. i loved reading your posts but most of them dont seem too interesting or eventful, not that its all YOUR fault, maybe the cologne just isnt working that well.
However, i just wanted to say, nice meeting you, thanks for posting on my thread, and, i really really hope you and your wife rediscover your passion. I mean, im just a young man, but if i could make a suggestion, id just say, come home one day, pick her up, put her on the bed, and get freaky man!!!
But thats just me, thats what I would do. Best of Luck
P.S. Do you like ammo?? i just ordered it and i was wondering if it worked for you. Im trying to attract this girl MY age with it, well, that and IG. Thanks.
Well, at your age I’m not sure how much help you need. I would think that as long as you are well dressed, clean, and have the balls to ask,getting laid should be easy. To be honest, when i was in my mid Teens unto about age 30, I never had a problem meeting or bedding women. All I had to work with was levi’s 501s that fit well and Calvin Klein cologne. Even so I would think that ammo would be about all you would need, but you still will need to dress well and have the confidence to pull it off.
As to my situation, it is still up to me to walk the talk, both at home and at work. I am using this as an experiment to help me get back my game, in uncertain times.