ever think to yourself… why did what’s his name take that girl home… same reason some girls go slumming to find that guy they will never see again… cycle.
I remember one night, I was in our college town dressed down in my mechanics threads, some local tried to pick me up when I was wearing 3X Instant Jerk, 2X Ammo, 2 A314, and 4 Shine. well… she thought I was a dumb wrench monkey she could use as a toy with no brain, well I turned that on her as I lit a cigarette and my gold seiko came out, and starked talking mating rituals in humans and how, I went through a october man sequence on her… love that thing, needless to say…
I was attacked before I hit my car… But this should say one thing… guys are picky, don’t think just because you pick us does not mean we can screen you before we feel comfortable going home with you.
She went in to pick up a dumb guy, I dressed down to pick up a higher value semi intelligent blond, she was expecting a lower intelligence man, I found a lower intelligence woman.
In the end… I feel we both won. She won more times…greedy girls.
It may sound awful but women wont understand until they start producing as much sex hormones as men.
The best way to find out if a man is into you is by banging him and ask him if he is still into you after his testosterone pressure goes away and he can think with a clear mind.
In the end she was still the one who banged you. I fail to see your point.
lol, The point is, I chose whether I felt like a fling or wanted to avert, based on subtle ques and since I opened her while she first made a drink order, then came back.
Well, some guys are hot, but they made lousy bf’s or don’t want to be a bf. I’ve met a few in my college. I make out with em and the first word of relationship and their running for the hills. Not my fault if they want more than one women. Some are just commitment-aphobs I suppose. Others I think are hot, but they just don’t have the right personality to make it work or their beliefs are too far from mine…guess that could have a sub category.
A. Guys who are players
B. Guys who don’t match up to my standards
Funny thing is I’m starting to like option two. More fun and less crying. It sucks to care >.>
Yes I have dated some of the people in category 2. One just never got to the point of being my bf for one reason or another (distance was the main thing.) The other one I dated wanted to be my bf, but his personality wouldn’t have worked for me and again the distance was an issue. Some guys are cute and even have good personalities, but if there are issues that hinder things than it’s best to not get attached and just move on.
Oops, didn’t read the whole question. Yes, they just arrived there. Everyone automatically goes into a category of friend or more than friend. And then of course (once I get to know them) they go into either 2 or 3.
If I understand this correctly your saying how many guys would the average girl have that they’d date?
If thats not right then correct me.
I’d say the average girl gives at least 20-50% of the guys a chance. And thats just at first glance. After we’ve gotten to know a guy then looks could mean little if he has a great personality and if fun to be with.
Mine is a little smaller because of everything I’ve been through with guys. Sure I have 3 categories I follow, but if you wanna get more technical there is always the “Jerk” category. I lovingly name that the Trash Bin. Some guys are just scum and I dont think that really deserves a category
What is your basis for that? What is/are the factor(s) that decide that they go into friend or more than friend. If there is more than one factor, are all factors even in determining which category they go into? For example, physical appearance + intelligence. But maybe looks weigh more than intelligence or vice versa. <Just an example, not saying you do that.
Well besides looks (And I’m not usually that picky as long as they dress nice) I go by their feel I guess you could say. Pheromones maybe? If I’m attracted to a person then I usually know it right away. I could even find them slightly less attractive then the other guy and still put them in # 2 or 3 because they just give off that vibe I like.
I’m all about the feel or the vibe. And a lot of guys I’m friends with who I feel could be potentional bf’s aren’t getting out of #1 because I just don’t feel the chemistry.
If a girl wants to jump in a try to help further explain or maybe you guys already get it. Or maybe I’m just weird lol.
I think this post hits the nail on the head. It’s all about the vibe the man gives off. That’s why I love pheromones so much. They give men and women the power to control the vibe they give off.
I picture Androstenol, Androstenone, and Androsterone as three large knobs that are preset for a man. By applying pheromones, we can adjust each of these three levels to change our vibe. With enough experimentation with pheromones, we can have direct control over the vibe we give off when in public.
I wish it were that simple, but as helpful mones are, they’re only one component of “the vibe.” Your body language, tone of voice, appearance, lifestyle, age, race, personality, etc., are more important. I think of mones as “little helpers”: they fine tune the the total package but don’t control it. And all these elements need to work together or you create confusion (or noncongruence as the forum boys like to call it).
You may have missed Happy Fox’s comment, but it’s a telling one:
I’m not that picky as long as they dress nice and have the vibe! She’s a lot more picky than she lets on. She just hasn’t pinned it down into definable terms and detail.
Some people on this forum like to downplay the potential power of pheromones. Of course other factors are important too as far as attracting women. But I have gone out several times with pheromones and I can definitely say that I have been able to change the vibe I give off with certain pheromone combinations.
I’m a straight guy but I’m very soft spoken and some people think I’m gay because I have some feminine mannerisms that I was born with. Without pheromones I’m pretty invisible and blend into the background. Every once in a while I will get a woman’s attention but it’s somewhat rare.
With a good dose of -None (TUTH or IJ) along with A314, I show up on people’s radar like never before. Other guys are more likely to talk to me and think I’m cool. I have gotten more IOIs and I’ve been approached by more women in the last month than the entire year before I started using pheromones. I have had more girls kiss me in bars in the last month than the entire year before I started using pheromones. I’ve had guys invite me out with them to hang out and that was incredibly rare for me in my pre-pheromone days.
It is so freaking nice not to feel so invisible anymore. So I can personally attest to the power of pheromones. Of course if I stopped working out, got fat, dressed like crap, got a crappy haircut, and was rude to everyone pheromones would not be helpful. Aside from that, I really do think people can change their vibe with pheromones.
Speaking as someone who is overweight (and working on it), I can say that without the help that the pheros have provided, I’d probably still be stuck in the rut I was in without much hope of recognizing that things COULD be better. My weight was a direct reflection of my lack of self worth. Why take care of someone if they aren’t worth it to begin with?
From my first phero order, I’ve had some absolutely amazing experiences and have noticed that people began to see me in an entirely new, more positive light without me changing anything but the pheros.
People who’ve known me for years are now showing me much more courtesy and respect and people I’m just meeting are treating me like an alpha male who they can respect. Never happened before I found pheromones. Pheros have helped my self image/self esteem to the point where even when phero free I carry myself totally differently and feel worthy of being treated with respect. I do notice that with the pheros it is still easier though.
I’m now looking forward to finding a woman who can be a partner instead of just feeling like I need to settle for anyone who comes along, regardless of how compatible we are. Life is good!
That’s a good way of looking at it. Pheromones are good for helping to compensate for a short coming but they are not a magic potion. My main shortcoming is the fact that I have no presence and people consider me incredibly beta. The pheromones have helped greatly with this.
A few years ago, I had developed a gut. And I had it for a couple of years although I don’t have it any more. The gut did impact my self esteem and I was quite embarrassed about it. I did cardio religiously for about a year and it did almost nothing for my gut. I was definitely chunky and I was not losing the weight.
After reading this article, I shortened my cardio sessions and did intervals in my cardio training. I also started doing weight lifting and I did it in a circuit fashion just like the article suggested. Within a month of doing this my waist line started shrinking for the first time in years.
It’s a short article and anyone who wants to lose weight should read it.
I’m gonna have to agree with snoopy and metalTree.
I’m an above average person, and yes I do get attention, but I’m not outgoing at all and am very soft spoken. I don’t get hit on near as much as when I’m wearing pheros. When I’m wearing pheros (ex: IS/b or Spaceland) it gives me the confidence boost that I’m lacking and makes me louder, in a good way, and way more confident. Guys love to be around me and I become the center of attention with both guys and girls. It’s like I’m the same person only it puts on a whole new face for me so people feel more welcomed to me.
Of course you need the hair gel, the heels, the tie, the jacket, whatever. But pheromones help to create the feelings that inspire the confidence that creates the smiles and eye contact that the opposite sex is looking for in order to know your interested. That and the confidence to be a better person. A better you
I guess you’re talking about me! Sheesh guys, what a pep talk and mone love fest! Jazz should pay you and put that up as add copy on Smartmones! Actually I love using mones and enjoy the edge it imparts. But I’m an anal retentive control freak. I wear mones almost everyday and have gotten into all sorts of trouble because of them (don’t ask). Nevertheless, I don’t consider them more important than wearing nice clothing, working out, grad school or projecting a confident persona. In fact, given a choice between True Religion jeans and a bottle of Ammo/GAp jeans, I’d go for the True Religion jeans! They make my ass look good enough I can fake the Ammo part with a little acting!
I’m a realist and believe you can’t polish a turd and expect to fool anybody but yourself. For mones to work their best for you, you need to pony up the total package, i.e., project the appropriate persona. The mone edge is great and helps get your toe in the door and amps you up a little bigger than real life, but you still gotta work damn frickin’ hard to get wonderful results and the attention you crave at your next job interview, business meeting, cocktail party, acting class, etc.
I have to say, that used to be me many years ago. I was so invisible I’d wait in line at a bank or store and the clerk would look at the person behind me and ask “how may I help you?!” No shit.
I’m a professional musician by trade and had no problem expressing myself on stage but was a total buddha head on land. I spent most of my youth in a practice room sharpening my axe. Seriously, 6 to 8 hours daily. I was socially retarded. Taking acting, dance and musical theater helped greatly and eventually I learned to communicate expressively with my face, body and hands, just like a do when I play music. My natural social state is to be soft spoken, mellow and beta. My professional persona is commanding, demanding, outgoing, confident and expressive. I can turn it on and off like a light. Yes, it’s acting but is necessary for success in life, and especially in academia and the music business where I spend most of my time. Of course this all happened before I started using mones. Mones merely propelled my results over the edge and allowed me to get away with all sorts of shit I would have gotten nailed badly for 6 or 7 years ago.
Damn, that was bit of a rant wasn’t it? I should drink coffee and Bailey’s Irish Cream while on a friggen Mac…
Well to each his or her own. I personally feel naked without pheros. Plus their fun to play around with and mess with peoples heads.
Not only that, but pheromones have been the only thing to successfully make me confident because they give me the best uplifting and encouraging self-effects that no hair-do or sexy dress could ever do for me because it gets the guys attention like no other, and reminds me to stay confident and act sexy.
Other’s have downplayed the power of pheromones on this board too. I think it’s sort of managing expectations. If people expect pheromones to work magic they will be disappointed. Pheromones are just one tool for self improvement in toolbox albeit a very fun and effective tool. As you said, you can’t polish a turd. I think if I had these pheromones in my late teens or early 20s, they would not have done me much good because I was way too shy and socially retarded back then for pheromones to help.
