I don’t feel contradict is how I would describe it but I do understand what your saying. There are pheromone sites all over the net that use sex to sell and make claims and promises which mislead people. People buy the products expecting these promised results and when they don’t occur they automatically think mones are a scam.
It always surprises me when someone gets pissed because AD or the long time users here wont blow smoke up there ass as happened with the original poster LOL
The definition of pheromone is not, nor ever has been to change enhance or alter. Its “a chemical substance emitted in the air that communicates and influences behavior”
Now influence does mean to affect but it doesn’t mean to alter or change.
I’ll admit some pheromone websites will make the ridiculous claim that mones can “make you” into something your not. I don’t know if you noticed but Smartmones (the site which this forum belongs to) doesn’t. Probably because making these stupid promises will only generate one sale. When the product doesn’t do what all the hyped up claims suggest you wont come back for more. However if your told the truth as to what mones can do, it may not be as exciting as instantly getting laid by a 20 year old but you will see the true benefit of mones and how the can help improve your social life and once they do people are more likely to return for more. Yes this to is a marketing tactic but one based in science and truth not in hype.
As to the question of will pheromones make a untrustworthy person appear trustful. Only to an extent. Trust is earn through actions. The pheromone vibe of trust is more like communicating “give me a chance to prove I am trustworthy” We often talk about congruence here in the forum. If your not congruent or act in opposition of the vibe your communicating mones wont be effective.
Its the same with verbal communication really. If you say one thing but do another people wont trust you.
That is what pheromones do basically. They communicate information.
This is just the way sexydork is interpreting what we are trying to say. Yes certain pheromones will make women arouses. Men and women are different though. Women don’t have sex with everything that aroused us. Men are more instinctual and women are more emotion driven.
Being attractive and being visually good looking are two different things that people confuse. Our visual preferences vary from person to person. Whats appealing to one person may not be to the next.
Attraction is the act of creating pull, interest, a liking. So we are not saying you have to be good looking or they wont work. Men are far more visually led then women. Sure when we see a good looking guy we take notice but we are more attracted to how you make us feel then how you look. Pheromones communicate using emotions, feelings. In this way they can increase attraction.
I discontinued responding to sexydork because his behavior was unattractive. He was closed minded and insulting from the start. He could look like Brad Pitt and be covered in tuth and I wouldn’t give him the time of day.
Tisha