So after a couple of months of pheromone use I’ve decided to start a journal to keep up to date and share my daily experiences. I like to play around with slightly different mix’s during my working week and as a delivery driver I get to meet mainly the same poeple (I deliver to the same businesses every day) albeit at different locations throughout the day. So what better way to test my daily pheromene mix’s.
So for today’s mix I went with:
2 Drops of A314
2 Sprays of MX292
2 Sprays of I/O 2x
The A314 was first applied to my left forearm with the MX292 layered over the top of that. I sprayed the openness to my right forearm. As I was wearing a T-shirt all day I went with the forearms which I find to be a good application point for my daily work mix’s. Having fairly hairy arms I find that if I’m near a target I can give them a scratch releasing some pheros into the air.
Self Effects: After application my mood shifted from early morning grogy work mode to one of upliftment and confidence. I had that inner YEEEEESSSSS feeling where you just feel everything is and will be allright. Good Times.
Noticable hits/Effects on others: I enter the building of my first drop where I’m greeted by one of the woman that works there. Early Fifties, tall, attractive. She seems very interested in anything I have to say although I’m not that talkative today but what I do say seems to carry a high degree of validity. I don’t say too much so she keeps on bringing up things to talk about and seems really interested in my response. I’ve noticed she can be very receptive to pheromones depending on what mix I have on. Looks like today’s mix has got her hooked. It’s almost as if she has this teen like crush and just has to keep talking with me. On my way out she shows me how to keep the automatic doors open so that I can get in easily if I have a lot to deliver. She has shown me this before but I knew she just wanted to keep the conversation flowing between us.
Later on I’m at another location where I am asked by one of the girls that works there what aftershave I have on and that she likes it which catches me off-gaurd. I felt like I had been busted, not wanting to give away my secret. I quickly replied that it was some foreign stuff my brother had given me thus not being able to read the writing on the bottle. I think I got away with it. She asks about the delivery being small which normaly is never an issue. I got the feeling as with the last woman that she was interested and wanted talk and be around me. Attraction I guess. We talk for a little bit with another girl there too. They both seem interested in what I have to say, happy and relaxed in my presence. Normally I’m in and out pretty quickly with out saying very much but not today.
The MX292 was the key ingredient for me here. I normally don’t use it that often. I really like the effects but would run out very quickly if I used it every day. A 30ml bottle would cure that Androtics, hint, hint. Oh and I can’t get enough of the smell, it’s game allright but with a deeper more sexual quality to it. The women seem to love it too. It added a layer of attraction and interest that I don’t get with other pheromones. Hopefully this MX will make it into a fully fledged consumer product. The results while using it are just too good for it not too.
About 20 minutes before my first destination I spray the right side of my neck with 2 sprays of Instant Gentleman , 1 spray of Instant Openness , 1 spray of P83 and 1 final spray of MX292 . For the first time I have layered the pheros on top of one another allowing each spray to dry before the next application.
Self effects: I feel completely at ease with myself, confident - like I can speak my mind clearly and my point will be taken with the validity and truth it was offered. Coming from an Aspie this is somewhat unheard of in me. I am often not sure what to say or when to say it. I procrastinate more times than I care to mention. I tend to think in a non linear fashion so I have the big picture all ready there in my head but when it comes to translating my thoughts into words there is too much information to disseminate and I usually end up saying whatever I can think of just to fill in the silence. But not today. I feel completely in control, I don’t struggle for words, I just go with the flow. My thoughts, actions and words are congruent with each other which makes a nice change.
Hits: Female, early fifties, attractive. I notice a lot more eye contact than usual in-fact more than I am comfortable with(finding eye contact uncomfortable is another Aspie trait). As I talk she holds my eyes with hers constantly. She is extremely chatty, again more than normal and she seems very relaxed around me. As I look down at my PDA to sort out the order I get my first DIHL . She stares directly at me with big open eyes for a good 4-5 seconds. I also observed a decrease in personal space. I spent around 4 to 5 minutes at that drop and at no time is there ever more than 2 feet between us.
Now my next hit is where things start to get a bit weird. Female, mid-fifties, she’s the nervous type. Apologizes for getting in your way even when there was no just cause. I walk past her and she gets a whiff of the pheros. Hello she says with a kind of overawed expression and a curious smile. I reply hello back and move over to sign out. At this point I’m about 3 feet away from her and she says out loud “who is that guy”. I turn around to make my exit out of the building when she says hello for the second time, again with this really overawed but happy look about her. I say hello and walk out trying not to laugh out loud at how surreal the encounter was. Bear in mind this women has seen me before on numerous occasions and has never really said much apart from sorry.
At another shop I have a lot to take in so I’m in and out the door a few times. The second time I walk in the area manager (female, mid-forties) stares at me from about 10-12 feet away. Not sure if the pheromones got a chance to reach her at that distance. However I make another trip out the door and on the way back in she gives me another stare from about the same distance. I’ve seen her before but never had this kind of reaction. Usually she never pays much attention.
Male, late forties always very polite and friendly along with a good sense of humour. He makes a point of calling customers Sir and Madam which is unusual in the U.K. There had been a spillage by one of the customers just before I had arrived which he was cleaning up. We greet each other then he comes out with “Junkie Bastards” refering to the guy that caused the mess. He was joking but by his reaction to what he had just said I could tell he let it slip out when he didn’t mean to. I make a joke out of it too and he comes back with " Dirty Rotten Junkie Bastards". It seems as though the pheros are not only putting my self at ease but allowing others to feel they can say what is on there mind around me.
I’ve been playing around with my pheros for the past few weeks trying to find a good mix that I can wear during my working day. A couple of days ago I stumbled on a mix that has been giving consistent hits throughout the day.
What I used: 3 drops of A314 , one spray p75 2.5mcg game scented, 2 sprays p83 7.5mcg neroli scented, 3 sprays Openness double strength. The following day I changed the Openness for the same amount of Honesty double strength which resulted in slightly less approachability but much deeper connections with those that I interacted with. All sprayed to my left forearm which is fairly hirsute helping with longevity(I can still smell neroli 12 hours later). Every time I approach a target I give my arm a scratch releasing some pheros into the air. A bit like a scratch and sniff.
I’ve been getting lots of respect hits from men and women yet combined with a fun approachability. People go out of their way to hold doors open, lots of lingering eye contact from women, more physical contact - women seem to love being close to me, friendly respect from men, Intrigue and attraction from women. I might try combining both the Openness and Honesty to get the best from each.
So I’ve hut on a respect, attraction, social mix that is working well for me. Now all I need to do is work on my game/social skills. If I can up them to match my new phero signature the ladies won’t stand a chance.
I went to get my hair cut and thought it would be fun to try out my mx302 . I had on three sprays in total, one to each side of the neck and one to the adams apple. I also had one drop of A314 on my upper lip mainly for the slight confidence boost it gives me.
On the way there I had to go up 2 escalators (I think you call them lifts in the U.S.). As I was going up the first one I was behind a Swedish looking blonde, mid twenties, attractive. As I came up behind her she started to look around trying to get a glimpse of who was behind her. At the same time she was brushing her hair to one side then the other. We get to the top where I follow her to the next one. Again she keeps looking around while trying not to make it too obvious. She still could not keep her hands of her hair, brushing it to the side and over her ears. A hit right there I would say.
So on to the hair dressers. I get a young guy to wash my hair, I would say 19 - 20, not sure if he was gay or straight but the MX302 seemed to have an instant effect on him. As soon as I sat down he began to talk about his holidays as if I allready new what he was talking about. He started mid flow like we had allready been talking and I knew what he was saying. He went on from one subject to another saying anything just to keep the conversation alive. It felt almost like he was talking to someone he had a crush on so was perhaps a bit nervous around me. He has washed my hair before and I have never had this reaction previously.
As I’m taken through to be seated I get a lot of looks and smiles from females. 3 sprays seems to be my sweet spot with this mix. So I take my seat where I have to wait 5 minutes. A women probaby late twenties - early thirties is sitting 2 chairs along from me. I look around and see she has her whole upper body turned to face me. She has the biggest smile across her face while looking directly into my eyes. I’m not sure how to react so I continue to look around the room. I catch her eye again and there she is just staring at me with this massive smile on her face. It takes about half an hour to cut my hair and I keep noticing her looking and smiling through out that time. There seemed to be an increased connection with my hair dresser. She is late twenties, I’m thirty. I’ve known her for around 8-9 years so can tell when there is a difference. The conversation seems to be more natural, slightly deeper and more jovial. I’m not being any funnier than usual but she seems to be really enjoying herself. She is married and I don’t think she was interested in that way. However we’re getting along really well. A more enhanced connection than usual.
As far as self effect go I did’nt notice too much difference than without. I did feel slightly more relaxed and confident but nothing too extreme.
I’ve noticed when I use mx292 it creates a confusion in the women I’m interacting with. Either that or they are deliberatly delaying me so they can spend more time with me.
To add a bit of back story here; I deliver goods to shops were women are predomanantly working. I have a handheld device that I give them to sign which they do everyday and as a result they know exactly what to do. When I apply mx292 to my mix I would say about 70-80% of the time I get the confused reaction. I’m not sure if the confusion is always entirely genuine as on several occasions I’ve seen them pressing back on the screen when they see me getting closer. Now bear in mind that they sign my device everyday and have never experienced this behaviour without mx292 .
The confusion maybe genuine to begin with but as they see me getting closer to try and solve the problem they deliberatly sabotage things. Not sure why, maybe they can’t quite figure out my phero signature so try to spend more time in my phero cloud. Or maybe they feel some sort of attraction and they don’t want it to be over so quickly. Either way I really love the reactions I get with mx292
I’ve seen something similar with different mixes where people (men and women or even kids depending on what I’m wearing) will find excuses to stay close to me and continue to be in the phero cloud. It is funny sometimes, annoying at others but it definitely shows that the pheros are working in a positive way.
