First, I’m announcing that I will be starting a brand new journal on my fallout mix. This is what I’m going with:
10 mcg. A1 (spray, should have gotten the oil) SIDES OF NECK (2 sprays 5 mcg)
1 drop A314 -WRISTS, RUBBED TOGETHER, RUBBED BEHIND EARS
2 sprays IShine -BACK OF HEAD IN HAIR
25 mcg. P96 -INNER ARM (2 sprays 12.5 mcg)
2.5 mcg. TUTH -CHEST (will increase if I get her alone at some point OUTSIDE of school)
For starters, I’m just going to test out A1 with A314. I will be using this on my target in the school I work at, but also I have an orientation with new people (yay! Young 20s teachers) tomorrow (all new people, so should be fun).
My MAIN questions are the following: a) Is this a good mix? b) How should one’s attitude BE with a fallout mix?
With A314, I’m self-assured, VERY confident, almost borderline cocky. I take up a lot of space, move slowly but surely, and just wreak of confidence. Should one be warmer/colder while wearing a fallout mix for maximum effectiveness?
The main thing with a fallout mix IME is the withdrawal/reintroduction cycle and that your base mix remains constant for long enough to let the fallout develop properly. How long that-is can vary very widely between women. Some will start showing signs with just a few exposures, whilst others will take much longer over far greater numbers.
So you are going to need to give her regular periods where you remove yourself completely to let the developing signature sink-in ad for her to miss and wonder about you. So reduce the socialising out of work significantly and cut any online/phone/text contact dead (although she’s done a lot of that for you already). Also no more just hanging-out/hanging around her until she starts craving your attention - and even then, ration any time you spend with her strictly, at least until she steps-up and shows significant attention/investment to you.
This has all the promise of a good mix but the only way to be certain is to see how it works for her. Run with the base mix for a few weeks, steering it in different ways for different situations and if there is no great response, move to something else. Personally I’d get that TUTH off your chest and out where it can diffuse well. TUTH under clothing is a thing for very young guys around young girls and at 24, you are beyond that. Similarly P96 or anything that disinhibits/eases expression of feelings can go against you at work as its an environment where people tend to hold back - better save it for social/less inhibited times.
Mobo, you should win a reward for best 1st responder!
My friends back at home think I’m crazy: whenever a girl shows IOD, I usually frame it positively – her making it simpler for me to find another form of attack!
I think the lack of text messaging is actually a GREAT thing. IME, when girls and guys try to build interest, they tend to text each other ALL. THE. TIME, and FB message each other ALL. THE. TIME. After a while, it grows stale, and the girl is looking for a new “shiny” to play with.
Because she and I are professional and we don’t know MUCH about each other socially, and because we don’t talk AT ALL anymore outside of work, I’m still a mystery to her. She really doesn’t know a whole lot about me aside from the fact that a) people tend to like me b) I’m a LITTLE cocky c) girls find me attractive d) I have an attitude of “I’ll do whatever the hell I want until I get in trouble for it”
It’s up to me to get her interested in the idea of getting to know me and getting her into cracking the mystery that is me. THAT is my objective with fallout, and THAT is my objective for my last 3 weeks of working with her.