hello everyone,
firstly i’m really glad to have joined this community. Would like to thank you all in advance for all the advise that will come. Just turned 30 male and in a relationship with a wonderful lady for the last 10 years. I suppose i’d like to try to spice up our relationship a little : ) i’d like to think we are still pretty young and are looking to spend hell of a lot more time together so, here it goes.
Regards
beatmusik
Welcome!
Tell us a little about your personality and why you have come here. We may be able to give some advice of value and also you’ll qualify for a gift certificate.
Hi there,
Welcome to the forum.
Like GWTW said, tell us more about your objective of using pheromones.
Who are your targets? What is your personality? shy or outgoing?
Then we can recommend better on the use of pheromones.
Cheers
Hi Beatmusic,
Welcome to the forum! I’m sure you’ll like it here, this is a really great forum with lots of fun people to chat too, and countless phero reports to read 
So you told us you want to spice things up in your relationship? Is there any other area of your life you want to give a bit of a boost? Friends/general social situations, work etc?
Like JB & GWTW said…it’s easier to point you in the right direction if we know a bit more about you and your personality
thank you for the warm welcome GWTW and Jamesbonded. quick i might add! Well, to start off without being to complicated. i have a sneaky feeling my partner is not as attracted to me as before. i think she’s gorgeous. as for me. hmmm.. might be a tough one. but, i’m hitting the gym and excerising as much as i can. after a long relationship i am hoping to spice things up a little. being an acedemic she’s surrounded by the greatest minds and virtues and so on. so.. i’m left on the shelf at the moment.
would still love to have passionate sex as before and well.. doesnt seem to happen these days. i’m hoping with the help of phermones i might be able to slowly work on our relationship : )
a brief intro of myself, i’m 30, of asian decent. shy at times but some say cheeky. havent really thought much about who i really am. but. i seem to need some help.
thank you again
regards
beatmusik
Beatmusic, what makes you think she isn’t as attracted to you anymore? Is it anyting she’s said or something in her behaviour? If she’s an academic do you think it’s possibly that she’s going through a really busy phase in her studies/work? Stress is a major romance killer 
If you are looking to spice things up with her then I’d suggest you have a look at TUTH. It’s very sexual so best left for what you are intending… spicing things up in the bedroom. It’s a -none based phero which is very arousing for females 
You might also want to look at Instant Honesty…if you feel like you guys are not as close as you used to be then maybe talking about it would help? To help improve communication, and make it more intimate I’d suggest IH. IH is great in that it helps increase the quality of communication. It’ll make you and the person you’re talking to feel more comfortable and it gives a sense of closeness to the conversation. It’s not the choice for quick chats though…IH tends to make conversations last longer too.
Hope that helps…let us know if you have any questions!
hello xiphoid,
mighty impressive matey! perhaps insecurity lends me towards assuming she’s not interested. i reckon i’ll have to deal with that. And i’m sure, stress and the common symptoms of acdemia, but, looks like turn up the heat might be the way to go. i’m a little hesitant on instant honesty, we communicate pretty well and i’m not too sure about longer conversations…
thank you your a legend
ps: how would i qualify for the $25 gift certificate?
I think you’ve probably already qualified for the GC. You just need to be patient until Tisha gets to this thread to hand it out. She usually hits a thread before it has been up 24 hours. The lassie never seems to sleep.
You may want to do a little introspection and give us a bit more information on yourself and your significant other in terms of personalities, how you used to relate, and how you’re relating now. There are a whole range of effects possible and many are dependent on the personalities involved.
Don’t discount the IH. It may be a little scary but you may end up digging down to the root causes of some difficulties. Of course, they may not be things you want to hear …
At least when you have a grasp of the situation you can begin to address it.
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk
I think TUTH and IH would be a great start for spicing things up.
TUTH is for arousal and it will grab her attention. IH is for deeper communication not longer conversations just more meaningful ones. It also gives a feeling of connection and intimacy.
They both come in full size or to-go size. The to-go is great for when you want to test something out without investing in a big bottle.
If you have questions just ask. Your GC is on its way
Tisha
Hostess/Guide
Hi tisha thank you for the warm welcome. once again i’m glad to have found pheromonetalk and an wonderful community. thank you for all the advise and i hope i’ll be able to contribute or provide some basic feedback real soon.
hi GWTW,
I apologize for the late reply. Had to ponder on a few things you posted. well, to start off. i’m 30 of asian decent with an average built, 5"8 and from down under. i’d describe myself as a pretty open minded dude, with a slight cheeky sense of humour that lends towards a slight touch of vulgurity! i suppose being in a relationship for a while allowed me to hide behind the “i’m attached facade” and converse with the opposite sex without the awkward pretense of a horny bastard with an agenda : ) although otherwise
My partner’s a beautiful, intelligent… artist. currently as with many of their kind will always present a dichotomy with themselves and and more frightening their ideas concepts and ways of life. which i’m perhaps unconsciously very attracted too. well read, articulate, sharp and a real bitch if woken up early or on the wrong side of bed.
We communicate very regularly and like many other couples are very different but perhaps are fortunate to be attracted to this difference. However, after a number of years. things start to plateu and its probably time to rock a reasonably stable relationship.
A bit lenghty at this point. but, i’d love to take up your advise and start with A314 For work mainly : ) turn up the heat and instant honesty.
thank you once agan for the advise
beatmusik
hi GWTW,
I apologize for the late reply. Had to ponder on a few things you posted. well, to start off. i’m 30 of asian decent with an average built, 5"8 and from down under. i’d describe myself as a pretty open minded dude, with a slight cheeky sense of humour that lends towards a slight touch of vulgurity! i suppose being in a relationship for a while allowed me to hide behind the “i’m attached facade” and converse with the opposite sex without the awkward pretense of a horny bastard with an agenda : ) although otherwise.
My partner’s a beautiful, intelligent… artist. currently as with many of their kind will always present a dichotomy with themselves and and more frightening their ideas concepts and ways of life. which i’m perhaps unconsciously very attracted too.
We communicate very regularly and like many other couples are very different but perhaps are fortunate to be attracted to this difference. However, after a number of years. things start to plateu and its probably time to rock a reasonably stable relationship.
A bit lenghty at this point. but, i’d love to take up your advise and start with A314 For work mainly : ) turn up the heat and instant honesty.
thank you once agan for the advise and i’d be glad to post soon
beatmusik
No worries, mate. You’re off to a great start.
In a stable relationship sometimes the unexpected is good to keep things exciting. Once you have tried the products you’ve ordered you may want to branch out to a few more also, so you can continue to change things up a bit and keep your lady guessing.