If you’ve been called those things negatively then maybe you should change the tone of your comments. IJerk(not tried) gives that just-laid vibe which i consider very edgy and a difficult vibe to manage. If you want to play on the jerk factor then i would say that you might hit it off with a girl you would never see again, depending on confidence and things like that.
If you know you’re not acting like a jerk then IGentleman would probably make a better vibe for you, but you should look at your interactions and see what kind of things you are saying.
Asking trusted friends for their opinions is a good idea aswell, since they will allways try to give contructive criticism(or they should).
I know that I’m cocky at times, but i allways try to be fun about it, it will go over the line sometimes but yeah.
That reminds me, was called a jerk today for not saying hi to a girl at my school. She never really gives me much attention and that feeling is kinda mutual… but then again, she might be getting hit by the ammo(tihi).
So I can fully understand that things are beyond our perception at times
I’m laid back, chill, and a very nice guy so I figure that’s another reason why IJ works so well on me. I haven’t tried P83 as of yet, but if you want to try IJ I suggest you buffer it a bit because if you’re already cocky and don’t buffer IJ then I really don’t know if you’ll be getting a bunch of anger or people wanting to kick your ass. IJ CAN work for you, but it depends on how you buffer it and MOST OF ALL how you play your part.
If you take a chill pill (control your cockiness) and wear IJ, and add a few buffers then I’m sure it’ll give you that awesome confident vibe without looking/being too aggressive. Just like I said though, you also have to behave (act like people can go up to you and not get beat up.)
Hmmm…if you come across as cocky & stuck up I wouldn’t go for P83… If you do a search you’ll find that the common consensus on P83 is that it intensifies underlying traits or emotions you have…It’s a disinhibitor and causes increased peacocking… Do you really nned that?