hi guys first post here. im 23 shes 18. we work together at a grocery store but im leaving soon to work in a factory(need to move out of my folks house). she asked me out for coffee tomorrow but its not really a date per se. i know she likes me and was wondering what i should wear to help steer her towards more of date mindset. im thinking long term relationship.
here what ive got:
alpha a314
instant shine 1x and 2x
ammo 2x
instant honesty 1x
turn up the heat 2.5 mcg
p83 40mcg
instant openness 1x and 2x
mx297
p102 5mcg
p131 5mcg
i normally wear 1 spray ammo(2x) on the chest and 2 sprays shine on my hair.
i really appreciate the help. i have to work till 12 so wont be able to respond.
If she’s already responded well to Ammo/IS, then you shouldn’t vary it too much - although at 23, I’d suggest you get it out from under your shirt to an app point where it can diffuse properly - Wearing under clothing is a tactic to slow/reduce diffusion on young guys with overt products like TUTH or IJ around very young women. At 23, you are beyond that but two sprays are not unreasonable around an eighteen year old, so maybe try it open at work to see how she likes the free breathing product..
If you are already talking well with her, IH will go-well with Ammo/IS to help deepen connection in a pleasant/feelgood/sharing way and/or a smallish dose of P74 will help with connection/closeness and “boyfriending” effects. It can be used with IH in the mix but keep the P74 low - below 20mcg with the sort of doses you are currently using.
Keep the likes of MX297 for when you go to a club or party - It suits highly fun/social behaviour like no-other product and sexualise it with TUTH.
P83 won’t do a lot on a coffee date unless there is a very good chance of getting physical - again, maybe half a spray with the sort of doese you are currently using.
If there is any chance of your going-on somewhere more uninhibited/raunchy, I’d also suggst you keep some TUTH and P83 handy to up the sexual and disinhibiting factors if things start going your way.
I read on a PUA site that when you go to the coffee date, the best seating arrangement is on a sofa side-by-side, rather than at a table across. The former allows more room for touching and flirting, rather than having a table put a barrier between you two. If she likes you like it seems now, it’s pretty much a given that you’ll end up flirting and cuddling like there is no tomorrow.
Thanks guys. Ill probably wear ammo shine and honesty.
Advice on app points? I dont want to wear ammo on my neck cause it affects my mood too much. And ill only have a couple hours with her. I gotta work after that.
if you can wear a t-shirt or a shirt with sleeves rolled up, inner side of forearms would be good; spray on one side and rub together. Easy to wash off afterwards. Although I find that strong masculine molecules like androstenone and androsterone (both in Ammo in pretty much equall quantities) work better and are somewhat more believable if worn near the core of the body - chest, neck (I use back of neck sometimes).
thanks guys tomorrows actually my last day at the store. i start at the factory the next day. some of the girls made me brownies and a cookie cake these pheromones have really boosted my confidence and helped me keep the right mindset in life. anyways ill let you guys know how it went. thanks again.
I like this ^^^ definitely break the touch barrier OP, it really separates you from the friend zone to lover zone IME haha go for the kiss at the end of the date in a private area like your car. Girls dont like a first kiss in a public area.
oh and going for the kiss, stroke the side of her hair then plant it on her. Women expect you to do the first move.
ammo+IS is great. I made out with one of my first dates with only 1 spray of ammo and nothing else…you can keep it simple.
i actually read your message just before meeting her. good advice. i feel today went great! got coffee and went all around town and had a lot of fun. we talked about it and she does like me but wants to get to know me more before actually dating. ive always been the same way just waited too long and got friendzoned or someone beat me to it. i gave her a kiss before i left. she responded in kind. anyways i took a chance today and i really feel like it paid off. thanks for all the help
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