Another FIRST DATE Thread WOO-HOO

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I got a date with my target. Taking her out for dinner and drinks Saturday night.

A mix that worked with her was Ammo + IH, but the mix that got her going (went from ‘interest’ to ‘I like this guy’) was Ammo + Lotsa P74 + A lil’ P83.

TUTH + P83 + TAC + P74 was a TURNOFF for her, she seemed like she was running away from me.

I’m thinking about sticking with basics - 2X Ammo, 3X P74 10mcg., 1X P83 5mcg., and MAYBE throw in 1X TAC 5mcg.

Let me know, guys! DEFINITELY not looking for sex on the first date (HAHA) but maybe something that will help me with that first kiss.

ALSO, something kinda dumb I’ve been tossing around in my head. She lives in a dorm. Do I walk her to the front of the DORM door, or do I walk her to her ROOM door? :confused:

LMK!

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WHats up brotha. congrats on the date. but in my advice its a landslide victory for walking her to her ROOM door.

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Id say throw some IO on instead of IH, found that some girls don’t know how to respond to the feelings that arise from IH, especially so early in a relationship. IO will get her to be more open towards you, but make sure you combine it with ammo to the chest 1-2 and with p74 to the back of neck and forearms. always gets the charmer response for me that it sounds like your looking for, without tossing you into the friend zone. I use A314 almost every day so I would say throw a drop of that oil on as well. Good luck with the date!

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Thanks, guys.

Night before the big day, I’m feeling first date nerves. I keep trying to tell myself, ‘c’mon, this is the girl you LOVE spending time with, why are you so nervous?’ Hopefully, it’ll subside before 6:30 tomorrow night!

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Ladies and gents, friendzoned. That is all. Literally.

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That’s harsh dude, but it happens to all of us at one point or another.

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Dont forget shine. I think shine gives you DHV more than p74

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Yepp, she was such a sweetheart. I thought she was perfect until AFTER my date, a friend told me they saw her “all over another guy,” and he posted on his Facebook her name with a <3 next to it. Bullshit. Haven’t gotten much work done today. Gonna take a little bit to recoup from this one.

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Damn it would take me a bit to recoup from that one, and the guy even longer after I beat the shit out of him, lol.

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We have a mutual guy friend, who’s a bit more her friend than mine that will probably ask me about the date. I’m going to tell him that I think she got the wrong idea. That, yes, I say it as a ‘date,’ and yes, I like her, but not in the sense she may think. Call me old fashioned, I take girls off-campus out on dates to get to know them better, the end goal isn’t ‘I hope to get in a relationship with you,’ the end goal is ‘I’m just having a good time with a girl that I think is awesome.’ I didn’t touch her (I honestly missed my window), and I’m going to tell him I thought I was being pretty straightforward about liking her, and by NOT touching her that my goal was simply JUST TO GET TO KNOW HER BETTER. I made her aware that I want a 2nd ‘date.’

Also (I’ll tell him to ‘keep this between you and me’ knowing he won’t) I have a date on Thursday, similar situation (this is actually a fact, but I like the girl I took out last night better. Won’t tell him I like her better though). This may build up some jealousy. I’ll tell him if she’s weirded out and never wants to do 1 on 1 with me again, that’s fine, I’ll treat her the same, and that’s what I’ll do.

Meanwhile, I’m getting a tattoo hopefully also on Thursday. I’ve been meaning to get one for a while, know what I want to get, just haven’t found someone to go with me yet. I also want to purchase a pair of K-Swiss white sneakers. Change my image up a bit, something fresh.

I REALLY like this girl. A lot. She’s on the top of my list. I’m hoping by her seeing that I’m (continuing) to make myself unavailable to her, going out with other girls, and changing up my image (c’mon, what girl DOESN’T think a tattoo is hot), I’ll get a second “date,” and then, I won’t make the same mistakes I made on the first.

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That’s actually a really good plan! Let us know how it works out for you.

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And what mistakes do you think you made?

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Just stupid things. Parked the car in the parking garage, then forgot where I parked it, took us 30 minutes to find it.

The BIG one was we were in the lounge on a couch for 2 people. She said she had to go to the bathroom. I waited on the couch, when she came back, she sat KNEE TO KNEE VERY CLOSE TO ME, but I got up RIGHT AWAY saying that I had to go to the bathroom too. Then when I went back to the couch, I asked her if she wanted to go for a walk. I PUT MYSELF into the friendzone.

Looking at her FB now, it seems to me like this guy is hanging out w/ her often, and she’s having a blast with him. But they’ve been tight for quite sometime (is he just her girlfriend? Is she using this as a jealous tactic? Are they actually going to become an item?) The only thing I can do is act like I don’t care, and treat her the same way (when I was ‘on top of the world,’ I got there by being unavailable, smooth and funny, and talking to other girls. Just continue to be my old self might work).

Also, think I’m going to settle down w/ the P74. Maybe just one spray – may be coming off as too friendy. When I get my tattoo, I’m going to put A314 back in the mix. Give off that BADASS vibe. If she doesn’t run to me, some other girl will…

The exact post-date text conversation:

Me: I had a very good time tonight. We should do something like this again! Except closer and no parking garages hahahaha.
Her: Hey me too! Is it cool if it’s not a date next time? I’m not sure if I’m ready for anything right now
Me: I’m not into the whole label game, Jane. But that’s cool (Note: I NEVER EVER EVER said the word “date” to her, her friends, or acquaintances. Just to this forum and in my head).
Her: Ok, just making sure!

^That was night of date (Saturday). Haven’t spoken to her since. I saw a friend of hers, and he never brought up the date. I made sure to act happy and smiley, and never brought her up either.