This is kinda long so get some coffee
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Ok, first off I have to say that I was very surprised to find a to-go bottle of instant shine in the box that I got on Saturday - I ordered both spray bottles separately and paid $5 shipping each time so I guess they threw in the shine since I was supposed to get free FedEx for ordering over $50 (nice customer treatment IMO).
Before I start the actual story, I’ll say a little about myself. I’m usually really quiet around my friends and known as the “smart guy,” I’m really good at making friends, but terrible at being assertive enough to get girls. Most of the people I hang out with are 3-4 years older than me, since I’m about to graduate college and hang out with people in my classes.
I took stevo’s advice and didn’t bother with the Turn Up The Heat that I ordered for now. Also per stevo’s advice I applied 4 sprays of Instant Openness to myself as well as two sprays of shine (I didn’t have time to get advice on that one, but I read around and it seemed like a good move).
I met up with my friends and ate dinner out - not too much happened here, except that I was feeling very talkative and I attribute that to the pheromones completely. Nobody seemed to be uncomfortable with my new-found talkative side, so I just kept going.
The original plan for the night was that we were going to skip around several different parties that we knew of that were being thrown by girls in our classes, but one of my friends parents owns a restaurant and the employees were having a pretty big party with lots of people that we knew ther, so we decided to go there and commence to drinking.
I was amazed at the effects that I saw when I was there. Whenever I go to my friends restaurant I always feel like I’m “that guy” that my friend is just dragging around, never really “invited” to be in any conversations that are going on. But at that party all of the employees were talking to me, and not just “hey man,” but pretty long conversations that three or four people would gather around to listen to/chime in. We talked about everything from music to the movie 300 and so on and so forth - nothing really in depth, but I was talking so I felt really liberated for some reason
. By the end of the night the cooks (a pretty tight knit team that are all part of a local metal band, with piercings, tattoos and all) invited me to see tool with them this summer (one of my favorite bands).
The drawback was that I didn’t really talk to many girls. The entire night I said “hi” and refilled many cups for the different girls at the party, but nothing really like I was expecting it to be.
When we finally left we were all pretty drunk (except our DD) and all the cooks shook my hand and one of the waitresses gave me a really drunken hug/kiss that I took in stride.
The moment of the evening (in my opinion) happened about 5 minutes after we got in the car. One of the waitresses texted my friend who owns the restaurant and asked a few questions about me (am I single/looking to meet anyone/blah blah) because apparently her younger sister was there (19 just like me) and was really interested in meeting me - so my friend texted the answers and gave the waitress my number.
I haven’t heard anything more about it, but that is pretty out of the ordinary for me, so just that was a major self esteem boost.
Anyways - great night and some of it is most likely directly from the pheromones, which I think had a greater effect on me than anyone else (and that’s definitely a good thing).