Hey I’m new here too, but over the past few days I have read A LOT. No expert at all but replying here may get your post some more attention from professionals.
Based off what I have read you might want to look into AMMO and mix that with some IS. Instant shine is going to bring the “good feeling vibe” that is going to make her feel good around you! AMMO is going to bring the “sexy vibe”, yet not a “sexual vibe”.
I said AMMO because you said you didn’t want to seduce her, but you wanted to make her feel attraction.
That’s my two cents, BUT if you really wanted to go further you can look at this post, though I would think what I stated would be by far more cost efficient and ethical: