So I’ve been researching PUA (Pickup artist) techniques, and has interested in trying something that helps people feel at ease and more open around me. Also, is there anything that helps with confidence? Confidence is a key part to success, and it would be helpful if there was something that either make me feel more confident, or at least appear that way.
A314 and Instant Shine
I haven’t tried AMMO yet but I hear it also has a boost in confidence type reaction.
A314 makes me feel like I can take on the world… Instant Shine totally makes me happy and just makes me feel like I’m having more fun
Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, Instant Openness.
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The PUA path is a bit egotistical and over-rated – listen to a new earth by Tolle and power of now by Tolle (tolle is not a pua). The mindset to becoming some kind of flawless PUA – is flawed – Take advice selectively, many times it applies to the given person and their path and not you. Find out what your weaknesses and strengths are and who you are and then learn how to present them in the best possible way. If you just copy others and blindly follow advice that does not fit with you than you become a robot or a ship lost at sea. Trying to take in all the advice will not get you what you want out of this.
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A314 should not be used in clubs or bars unless your aim is to have it help you to get a solid number. Also I don’t feel extra confident when i apply it – even under my nose.
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None based products, shine, and Instant Openness are great for clubs and bars.
Good point Fire… if you don’t have the same self-effects as myself with A314 - then it doesn’t have the same sexual kick AMMO brings to the table… however it does have a display of higher value quality to it that could help in picking up “higher quality” girls - I would still suggest A314, especially if it gives you a confidence boost… perhaps a small dose combined with AMMO would be ideal?
Hey thanks for the replies guys, I think I may start with instant openness due to monetary constraints; I’ll go from there if it works out well.
Instant Openess would be a PERFECT way for you to start out given your path. I find that it is very effective for starting and holding onto conversations that flow. I would stick to 3-5 shots especially if your not too masculine in appearance.
Also keep in mind that you could pick up a togo of Turn Up The Heat or AMMO for 8-12 bucks respectively. What a none product will do is to make some women very sexually aggressive. This is good. 
Just make sure to take control of the conversation and lead a bit – especially if you guys decide to take it to the bedroom. I say this because if you just become her little puppy dog than she may get bored.
As for women – in general – they don’t go to clubs to find the A314 guy. Trust me on this one. 
It may help you to get a solid number but you will still be the guy she met at a “club”. lol. Maybe if you make fun of that fact first?? Anyways wouldn’t be the first thing to pop in most guys minds for that kind of environment – maybe I will test it some time though…I know it is great at work for respect and more non-sexual attention.
Tonight I am hitting the club. My mix?
2-3 drops Alter Ego with 5 shots of Instant Openness.
So if I order a bottle of Instant Openness, how much should I start with? I’m going to college really soon so I will have plenty of chances to test it in a party and class environment.
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listen to a new earth by Tolle and power of now by Tolle (tolle is not a pua). quote]
The power of now is an amazing book. Reading that book was a totally life changing experience, one of the best deicsions I ever made picking it up. It turned me on to spirituality and has made me a much better person. Being “present” is easier said than done though, you need real solitude to achieve it. I still spend nearly all of my time in the “ego”, only a hour or half hour before I go to bed I can become “present” usually when I’m doing self Hypnosis.
There are a few different ways of looking at the PUA community, some people do take the analytical, robotic approach and become “lost at sea” but you can view it as a way of self imrpovement. Your original character is still intact you just alter your personality to become more desirable.
Apparantly it’s all about DHV (demonstration of higher value) so A314 would be perfect for that. Making people more comfortable Instant Female Magic, Instant Openness and Instant Shine would be the obvious choices.
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I’m looking into PUA because even if I met “the one” I would blow it within 15 minutes. I have the “just friends” disease. I’m selectively using elements of the PUA lifestyle to better myself, with regards to confidence, character, humor, etc.
On another note, how much Instant Openness should I use? If age matters, I’m 19.
haha thats exactly why I read the PUA stuff. THe over analytical approach does bug/make me laugh sometimes though.
I was 19 this time last week and for me my sweet spot is between 2 and 4.
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This affliction that you have – the “just friend” affliction is something that the “community” will expose in you to try to get you as a customer and make money off of you.
This affliction is a common one and they know this.
Just keep that in mind and try to stick to the constructive advice that focuses on YOU becoming a better person at displaying YOURSELF. Things like confidence, tonality, storytelling, conveying emotions ect.
I cannot believe nobody mentioned TAK. If you just want to talk to people, TAK is great for this.
Also, definitely Instant Openness or Instant Honesty. Also, Instant Gentleman.