Hey everybody, James here.
When I was younger, I had women smelling me, licking me, coming on to me. That has changed in recent years. It’s my charm, strength and sensitivity that makes women pay attention to me now, but I long for that past life when women just wanted to get close to me for reasons they didn’t understand, that time when that asked me " What are you wearing" as they smelled my neck. “Ivory soap” was my usual reply. The gals used to go out of their way to do things for me. I knew it had something to do with my smell. I would like that edge back. I have been reading about pheromones for about five years now, and even thought I can date 20 year old women from the local community college, I long for that “I can’t keep my hands and mouth off of you” reaction I used to get.
So any help I can get from you experienced guys and gals will be greatly appreciated. J.
James, the truth is, you cannot go back to those days where women or perhaps I should say girls of 20 years old would chase you around like a love struck puppy on heat, simply for the fact you are no longer a 20 year old guy.
Women are very conscious of a mans age, especially young women. However, you can reinvent yourself physically and mentaly to be alot more attractive to your target. Pheromones help, but if you want to really increase your allure, work on some of the other things.
Hi Jporterjr and welcome to the forum. I believe the use of pheromones will help you a great deal. You just need to chose the right products. Instant Openness was my first purchase and it seemed to work in opening the lines of communication. Once you have your foot in the door you can initiate the rest. I would also recommend Pre-Release Dirty oil, Turn up the Heat and some TAA oil or spray. Jasmin wil be glad to offer up suggestions if you PM her. She’s great.
I’m a female but I recommended the same products to my older brother who is now 55. He used a combo of IOpen,Dirty,TAA and TUTH along with his favorite cologne and now he has women all over him. Before using the products he couldnt even get a second look from any of the same women.
Goodluck and PM or contact Jasmin she’s very helpful. I think you’ve come to the right place. And remember your not getting older your getting better.
Working on communication should always be a priority, but,
I’m sure there’s a whole world of women (not just young post-adolescent college chicks who you probably wouldn’t be interested in anyways for a long-term relationship) who would be interested in a man your age. Just about anyone age 30-50, I would think..
Highly recommend getting A314 for you, as well as Ammo. Ammo has a great smell, and I love this combo on my husband, and he’s 44. He uses 3-4 drops of A314 and 2 sprays of Ammo. Believe me, you will have women following to sniff you once again!
He hasn’t tried TUTH, but that’s next.. It has a higher -none concentration than other products.
I think your husband and you will enjoy an a314/tuth combo! It’s a good mix and my wife and I enjoy it. Has the potential to be a bit strong out and about though, depending on the dose.
Thanks everyone, for the advice. I seem to still have a lot of the trust pheromone in my system. People have always trusted me and will tell me their deepest, darkest secrets before we really get to know each other. NOT always a good thing! lol! Especially when I don’t want to be a woman’s “girlfriend”.
I have a powerful build, so I usually get respect from guys for that reason.
My main problem is that at 43, I still have a bit of a baby face, I look like I’m in my early thirties, and many of the woman my age don’t want someone who looks younger than them. Another problem: THAT is the age group that I’m most attracted to. I prefer someone who has had the same experiences.
From what I’ve been reading, it sounds like A314 might be something I’d like to try along with instant shine. And then maybe Turn Up The Heat when things get going.
hello. when i was in my early twenties i loved older men. as long as u continue to workout and keep in shape so u can have the natural glow and sweat you’ll be ok. mucles are hot no matter what age.
i think for you, Shine, so you can feel good about you, and something with -none so you can sell yourself with a sense of authority.
for me there are plenty of times i was hestitant to get involved with a guy, but once he showered me with kisses and passion, i got past his appearance, no matter what age. we can smell fear and doubt. it’s a total turn off. so avoid those thoughts. even goodlooking guys are repulsive once you get too close every now and then.
A314 is really for the set of women you would like to attract. It’s not to attract the post adolescent woman in her 20s, but more to a woman your speed.
Everyone has made some great suggestions here, too. Looks like you have all the heavy hitters replying in one thread!
I looked at love scent’s site, but there seemed to be a lot of drawbacks to their products, so I never tried them. I wanted to order their mix-your-own chemistry set, but I don’t have the time to research and experiment.
I appreciate YOUR efforts to fine tune your products. THAT is what I was looking for, someone who was putting out many different mixes and cataloging the results.
Other sites seemed to think that they had a one-fits-all product, and knowing that female reactions to my scent, and reactions to other male friend’s scent was totally different, I knew that couldn’t be. Everyone has a different chemistry.
Thanks to you and everyone else! James
P.S. This forum is a fantastic library of results!
Ah-ha! Getting old is mind over matter, if you dont mind, it doesn’t matter! Women’s desires/choices are subjective too! It’s entirely individual. Just for an example, I’m 42, and almost all my hits came from girls age between 18 - 23. Wear your pheromones, be nice to people and when time is right, use your personal skills and charm on your “targets”.
Btw, welcome aboard and good luck to you!
“Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be” - Robert Browning
