ok guys like i said a few posts ago im gonna try all diffrent combos to see the diffrent reactions from my female friend. im goin out to a bar with her tonight when i leave work. im gonna pay close attention to her behavior and see what happens. ive been using ammo and shine with her so far and i did see her being a little more flirty than she normally is. tounching me when she laughs at my jokes and stuff like that.
anybody got a combo i should try tonight? i will give feedback when i get home. i have ammo. shine. female magic. heat. honesty and openess
i think if i do this and keep a record of actions i might be able to help the people tryin to use pheros to escape the friend zone cause i see a lot of posts about it. lol
Yeah sidekick, your perfect combo is Ammo, Instant Shine, maybe a bit of Instant Honesty, and then to talk to other women while you’re at the bar.
If you are in the friend zone, there’s a reason for it, and for you to have any chance of escaping it you need to make her realize that you can do fine without her, that you’re a prize, and that if she doesn’t step up and stake a claim some other girl will.
Hey man, I was going to post something along these lines later this week. I am also carrying out a similar experiment, I have been friends with this girl for 7 years so its a serious challenge and it starts on Thursday! I am going to use a mixture of ammo and instant openness but i have not decided in which concentrations…I have the double strength Instant openness.
Anyone with any experience with a mixture of these two have any suggestions? I would be grateful for anything.
Hope things go well for you tonight mate…might mean i stand a chance on thursday! Good Luck!
If we don’t like you in that way, you can date Halle Berry, Melissa Miller, Angelina Jolie and anyone else on any top 100 Hot list and we won’t care. We’ll be happy for you. I hug my male friends and all that, but have no sexual feelings for them. Never will. I touch them because I am comfortable with them, not because I am attracted to them. Hell, I hold hands with some of my female friends, doesn’t mean I am a lesbian.
If you have shown her you like her as more than friend and she hasn’t changed your relationship, most likely she doesn’t like you in that way.
Please do not take this the wrong way but do you want to be her man or just f*ck her? If you have made it seem like you just want to sleep with her, even if she like you she won’t take that step. Are you known to be a womanizer or do you treat the girls you are with bad (your bad and our bad are 2 different things)? If she’s been around for a while, she’s watched how you are with other women and made the decision she doesn’t want to be one of them. Nothing you do short of changing all of that (from the inside out) and telling her straight out that she means enough for you to do so will make her trust you. and even then she will go forward with much trepidation. Just don’t tell her that if you just want to bed her.
I’ll have to agree there mate, if your already in the friend zone, it is prolly not a good idea to paint the picture that you just want to strike her with your “one eye’d-cyclop”. That could easily be a turn off, as thats not the way she knows you.
Maybe try to get more cozy than normal and work your way from there.
However if she’s a true friend–not merely a casual acquaintance–she’ll weather an attempt to storm the fortress and redraw the boundaries. Just as long as you reach an understanding the friendship will continue on just fine. And, I think it’s just as common for women to want more than friendship and make a play for it. The rejection stings a bit but with a true friend the bite fades quickly and you resume your former roles.
