I’m a 22 year old female currently attending college in San Diego. I actually heard about this site from a friend who gave me some Instant Shine to try for a party. I liked the effect it had and so I’m here to learn more and get some guidance.
As my thread title implies, I’m actually bi and am feeling a little helpless on the female side. I have had girlfriends in the past but it just sort of happened, I’ve never actually tried to “meet girls” in the traditional sense. It’s been quite a while since my last girlfriend and lately I haven’t really had any luck so I’m hoping pheros can help.
I’ve read several of the intro threads and I know pheros can’t make a straight girl bi or anything like that. But everyone experiments a little in college and I’m hoping maybe I can find something to give the bi curious girls an extra little nudge. I don’t know if this has been covered already on this forum, I tried doing searches but couldn’t really find anything so any suggestions or guidance is appreciated.
I think the social ones are a good place to start (I already know I like Instant Shine) but I’m curious if a girl wearing something like Turn Up The Heat would have the desired effect or if it would just creep other girls out. Thanks in advance!
Hey there Curious, welcome to the forums! Well, out of curiosity, what’s been the difference between “just happening upon” a girlfriend and finding one? Are you meaning that you’re trying to target a certain or several certain women, as opposed to letting it go to the fates? Honestly, it’s really hard to tell you whether a bi/lesbian women would be more attracted to androstenone (male sexual phero) or copulins (female sexual phero), or even both. The best advice i can give is go look up posts by a forum goer called KatieA. She’s also Bi and has been experimenting with several -none products on her target girl. So go check out what kind of results she’s had so far.
Would you mind telling us a bit more about yourself? Like what kind of personality do you have, shy or outgoing? What personality are you attracted to in a woman? Where were you planning on using your phero’s? And were you just interested in the attraction factor, or also for other things? These questions will help us give the best advice we can, as well as earn you a $25 GC. Oh, and i’ll see if i can’t send KatieA your way as well.
i know MFG said to look up katie’s posts (which i think it’s a good idea) but i rmr there was another one awhile back.. i will let u know if i rmr that one also.
anyways. i dont think pheros are different if u use them on girls as opposed to guys. like for example, when i wear instant sexiness, i feel that girls find me more attractive than i am also. im not sure if they find me sexually attractive tho, but i know it is still enhanced somewhat.
however, to be safe, u should probably start up with some socials like instant shine. i mean, everybody is attracted to shiny, bubbly person
want to tell us a bit more about yourself so we can help u pick one that suits ur personality the best?
“Just happening upon” basically meant that I met them at a jobs, became friends and everything played out from there. Now I’m more actively looking for a girlfriend and have been for a few years with no luck at all. So, yes. I would like to attempt targeting certain women.
I am generally shy, but have found that Instant Shine works well on me too. So I think, even if only to bring out my own outgoing side, Instant Shine will remain my favorite pharo for now.
I am usually attracted to women who are outgoing because I can easily be brought up to a more outgoing level by being around them.
The attraction factor at this point would be a good place to start. Please let me know if any other info will help.
Thank you for letting me know about Katie A. I will check her posts out.
hmm.. i mean, def instant shine. btw, let me know if that doesnt work out because for some of us, TAA (which is the main ingredient in instant shine) ended up working out better than IS itself. but it’s only a few, so u prob wouldnt fall in that category. i did tho
as for the attraction factor.. it might be a good idea to try on some turn up the heat. im just iffy about definitively recommending something just because i havent really looked into it yet. but i feel that turn up the heat tends to arouse women a lot so it should help u, as long as u dont over-do it and come off like somebody only after sex.
No normal usage of TUTH on a women wont really attract BI women to you it can arouse them though. Some signals it can send are… indicating you have have a man or you can come off butch or more dominant. It can also make the men around you more aggressive sexually which is why women use it. Now you can use a few dabs of a half spray of it to arouse BI women but it would be best used by you with other attracting products so you just don’t arouse them but draw them to you. I will explain below.
Generally you would use the same mones that women use to attract men to attract BI women. The reason is simply if your Bi and looking to hook up with a women then women’s mones are what turn you on. Do your first goal would be to draw them in.
So something like Instant sexiness A and Ishine would be great for attracting women to you and establishing a rapport. Using a few dabs of TUTH under these will increase arousal. Arone on a women has been reported to increase same sex interest to so you may want to try a little IG later with your female products when your ready.
If you have any questions just ask. Your GC is on its way
and I’m hoping maybe I can find something to give the bi curious girls an extra little nudge. I don’t know if this has been covered already on this forum, I tried doing searches but couldn’t really find anything so any suggestions or guidance is appreciated.
