Hey Guys how’s it going? I hope all of you are doing well. My buddy wants me to go to a strip club with him. I haven’t been to one and I’m really nervous. I told him that I won’t be comfortable in that setting but he said I’ll love it. Now I know beautiful girls take their clothes off in a strip club and I like beautiful girls but..I don’t know I just feel weird, so I thought I’d ask you guys for advice. As for pheros I have CTTM, IS, IFM, AMMO, TUTH, MX203 and IO AND IH and also I want some basic advice. I mean what do I say when they come up to me? Do I buy a dance or something like that ? I freeze up when women ask me stuff so I’m pretty sure I’ll make a fool out of myself when a 10 asks me something
You will be fine, just act yourself. If you recognize a strip club for what it is, just a bit of fun with the lads then nothing can really go wrong. Be nice to the dancers, they usually dont bite lol.
Dont do anything untoward, dont grab to try touch them unless they say so. Apart from that chill out, have a drink and just have a good time.
Oh and they might ask you for a private dance but it is alright to decline, they will understand and it is your money.
data can give you the strip club bootcamp (where’s he been lately?) but here’s a few pointers from me. and please, if i’m wrong on anything, feel free to correct me. i’d like to learn more too.
contrary to what you may think, a strip club is a very relaxed environment. you or your buddy can tell the dancers that it’s your first time and they can take it easy on you. the dancers will walk around and chat politely, then ask if you want a dance. if you do, say so; if not, decline nicely. they know their work and they talk in the back so if they see that you’re not comfortable getting a dance or straight up don’t want one, eventually they’ll stop hounding you. you can work this out with your buddy so that they’ll keep coming around but know to talk to him for dances.
so, now you’re there. sipping a drink, relaxing, good conversation, smiles from the girls. don’t forget to bring some singles. if you sit stageside or near the stage, a dollar on the tip rail per girl is the norm. if you like a girl, you can go up to the stage, tip her privately, and request a dance later. some places, the girls walk around and offer dollar dances. these are short dances at your chair for only a dollar meant to give customers a taste. if you like a girl but don’t want to get a full dance, this is for you.
the slightly advanced section:
let’s say you get a dance. the dancer will tell you her prices, usually one for a straight dance and a higher price where you can touch her. on a straight dance, no touching. hands by your side at all times. the no touch rule also goes for stage shows. i’ve seen plenty of people get kicked out for trying to put a bill somewhere they’re not supposed to. on a touch dance, she will state where you can touch. if not, always ask. better safe than sent out on your ass. it’s ok to pay her the quoted amount for the dance (usually up front) but if you like her you can tip her at the end.
the really advanced section:
if you are offered a private room, you can decline.
THERE IS NO SEX IN THE CHAMPAGNE ROOM.
if the club only does dances in private rooms, fine, but if you are offered champagne or strawberries or whatever back there, decline, unless you like paying for overpriced bubbly and fruit.
THERE IS NO SEX IN THE CHAMPAGNE ROOM.
back to the basics:
enjoy yourself. you know why you’re there, they know why you’re there, go out and have a good time with your buddy.
surprisingly, if you think you’re bad at talking to women, this is a great place to practice. they come to you. that’s half the battle right there. if it’s a slow night they might even sit and chat longer. a girl once chatted with me about postgraduate schooling. talk, talk, talk.
bring singles. generally i keep singles in one pocket for stage tips, bigger bills in another pocket for dances, and my wallet somewhere far away. know your budget and choose wisely. you don’t need to get a dance from every girl that talks to you. mind your manners and your hands.
THERE IS NO SEX IN THE CHAMPAGNE ROOM. (from a chris rock skit in case anybody doesn’t get and just thinks i’m weird)
the pheros:
io if it helps you open up and talk more. ishine for a fresh look. young cats like us sometimes have a bad rep at clubs because we don’t have as much money as the older guys, but if you look nice and have a good personality, you’ll go just as far. a dancer’s job is to talk to you and be attracted to you so you won’t need much else. maybe a shot of mx203 for that “something special about this guy” feeling.
Basics, think of it like this…great place to practice conversation with hot women. Take an amount of money that you can afford for entertainment, leave the ATM/credit cards at home. That way you can just go and have a good time. Practicing eye contact with a nearly naked 8 1/2 (you probably won’t see any 9s or 10s unless it’s a very expensive place) who’s doing her level best to make you give her your paycheck is a very fun way to do it.
Like Jay said, they know you’re just a guy out with his bud for some laughs. Go, remember these girls are people, enjoy yourself…that’s really all there is to it.
Strip clubs are fun when you bring enough money to feel like you can buy a dance or two if you want to, but less than you will actually miss the next day. The girls are experts at making you want to give them everything you got, but that’s their job so don’t get too excited.
If you’re nice to the dancers and respectful, many of them will treat you in a way that both of you will be satisfied. You’ll have a good time and get some practice in talking to a half naked girl. Don’t feel obligated to get a dance at all, just politely decline if you don’t want to at the moment. You can also tell her you don’t at the moment, but she should stay and talk to you and your friend who might want one soon. She’ll most likely stay a while at your table which will give you time to just talk to her.
A314 is good for the clubs, they think you are rich LOL 3 occasions…
Wear a nice cologne, if a girl comes over you do not like, tell her "I am waiting for another girl " ie. you are someone elses customer.
Do not sit on the first row of seats around the stage “perverts row”.
You can spend $40 for 4 hours if you know how to do it, and still not look like a cheap bastard, you will be a picky bastard which is good, else you are sleezy or a creep.
If a girl you do like sits down with you and asks for a dance right off the bat, say I’d love to, but I want to talk here before so I can become comfortable.
ie. (let your phero’s work their magic before you get a dance)
Only get one dance per girl, because if she can not do her thing right in 8 minutes… she is a dud LOL Plus she will nickel and dime you.
If a girls decides to talk, tell her this is a “safe” table and you came out for the show, but would gladly “Bird Dog” for her (pointing out guys with lots of cash) you can earn free dances as well as club renown like this.
Dress sexy, be careful with suits, do not wear linen (had a girl rip through these)…it was worth it (Back booth special for free) hot cha cha
Data is away, but club questions can be routed to me.
A vice is where you let yourself think you’re getting something you want when you really know you’re not. Like gambling as a way to make money or alcohol as a solution to your problems.
In this case, you pay your money to let yourself think you’re getting sex, or close to it.
However, what you do get is willing social and maybe physical interaction with fertile females. Guess it’s cheaper than a therapist. You might get some anatomy lessons too.
Most of the girls do enjoy their work but it remains a commercial transaction and their motivation is money. They enjoy being chosen and being chosen more than the other girls.
From a pheromone point of view, less is more in a strip club environment. You are going to get a lot more up close and personal than normal, so don’t pherobomb the poor girls
And probably better that you stay away from 'None… it’s very rare that dancers find the customers sexy - and very common that they find customers akin to Dogs on Heat… Be different. A314 would be good if you had it. Of the products you listed I’d choose IFM and Instant Shine.
Sir, I respect your position however I must decline your conclusion. You are afterall on a forum for Pheromone products that influence those around you to perchance thoughts that they would normally not have had, had you not brought pheromones to the table.
