Greetings all, I go by the name Ray. I am attending a college with a large population of students, some 30 thousand students. I’m looking forward to meeting people who have the same motives as just about anyone else (building a social network). I am 20 years of age, but usually behave in a manner that is older than my years. As you can tell from the title, I am from northern California, the state capitol to be specific. (The heat is killing! Perfect for fragrance diffusion?)
I guess I will say that my personality type is more on the passive-assertive side. I will keep a fair distance from people unless and until I get to know them. Then, I’m much more assertive and open/carefree. Members of my family always tell me this, but I don’t know if it’s absolutely true. They say that I look like a mean/aggressive person. The look of my face is the reason why people don’t really initiate conversations with me 
. That is just great. (btw, will NOT consider cosmetic surgery 
). But I will admit that even if I look like a scary person, I am an easy to get along with type of guy. About 70% of my friends say to me, “You are totally different from what I thought you were.”
I guess the bottom line is, I feel like people are afraid to talk/approach me because of the way I look. And on top of that I sometimes hesitate to initiate conversations with strangers. But I am in no way mean. People have trouble initiating convos with me, and I have trouble initiating convos with others. My hope is to somehow find a way to make it easier for the two parties to communicate. I’ve read, but not that much, that social pheromones might be the answer to this problem ? I do not know, but ladies and gentlemen, please step up to the stage, because you guys are next.
hi ray, welcome.
there are some products to help you with communication. the first is io. it helps you initiate and carry on conversations. it is commonly referred to as the “quantity” enhancer, in regards to conversation. the other product is ih. this is referred to as the “quality” enhancer, in that you can get some great insight in your conversations. both of these stay true to their name. i would recommend io for you. sometimes you just gotta get out there and start talking, and people will start talking with you.
another great product is ishine. this might help you with looking like a mean person. you’re probably not mean, and people need to see this ishine gives the user a “shiny” vibe, like someone who is very happy and pleasant. additionally, the people around you will also feel this vibe. these feelings, combined with something like io, can lead to fun and casual conversations. that is your foot in the door to more conversation and building your social network.
are there any other goals you wish to reach, perhaps attraction with women or building rapport at work?
Hi there, welcome to the forum.
You intrigued me with this:
Good for you! You shouldn’t feel like cosmetic surgery is necessary to compensate for the opinions of others. Everyone has beauty in them, and the good stuff is almost always under the skin. When someone takes the time to find it, then you know you’ve found a gem.
This is a great community, and Androtics really delivers quality products that rock! When it comes to being more approachable, try Instant Openness, as was already mentioned. It makes people chatty, and will extend to them an approachable, willing to converse vibe. Instant Honesty helps people to open up and be frank about their opinions and thoughts. It is often used to enhance the quality of communication within a relationship, or to put others at ease.
Come Talk To Me is a balance of those two, and offers some of the traits of each.
Instant Shine is a feel-good phero that adds a lot to the quality of your interactions with others. It makes people cheery, upbeat, and they come to associate those good feelings with being around you.
Hope you have fun with whatever you choose to get. There are sexual pheros here too, some that are more classy and wearable anywhere, others that are more blatant and must be worn with care. Lots of options. Let us know if you need more suggestions.
HI rhuang,
Welcome to the forum.
You are more or less like me. My face will scare off people but deep insude I am a friendly human being.
You need some friendly pheromones.
IO will make people want to talk to you. It makes you more approachable. You will enjoy more conversation with people,
IH will make the conversation more meaningful and longer lasting. People will tell you more details and they feel like they have known you for long time.
SHine is another social pheromone. It can uplift your mood and the mood of the people around you. People will like to be by your side.
Good luck to you.
Cheers
Yes. I forgot to mention, but female attraction is something I would like to achieve. Thanks for bringing that up.
Moonwhisper, I did not know Come talk to me was a mix of both IO and IH. That is very interesting. What does it smell like?
Thanks for the great response!
cool. ammo is a great product for attraction. paired with cttm or any of the conversation products, you can shape a nice friendly and attractive vibe for the ladies. tuth is another great product for attraction, though it’s more “forward” than ammo. if you’re worried about primary conversation, i would stick with ammo.
cttm comes in a light neroli (orange flower) scent. smells pretty good. ammo comes in a game (cologne strength) scent, and tuth has a spicy scent.
The confusion around Instant Openness, Instant Honesty and Come Talk To Me is easily settled.
The ingredients at work to draw people into conversation are Alpha-androstenol and Beta-androstenol. A-nol tends to bring out happy, but mindless talk. B-nol tends to bring out deep, meaningful communication.
It is my understanding that Instant Openness contains 70% A-nols and 30% B-nols, hence the emphasis on light, chatty communication.
Instant Honesty contains 30% A-nols and 70% B-nols, hence the emphasis on deeper, more intimate conversation.
Come Talk to Me contains 50% of each one, hence the blended effect.
I remember reading this somewhere on the forum, but where exactly has slipped my mind. From testing out all three of these products, I can say that they do behave in the way described. Hope this helps.
Hello and welcome to the forum. I’m very happy for you. It takes a man with confidence to admit what everyone else perceives as shortcomings and change their perception of him. GREAT GOING! With that attitude alone you will achieve success.
First off I am sending you your Gift Certificate in an email in just a few minutes.
My suggestions would be go with some Ishine 2X and some IO 2X. This gives off the I’m a happy carefree guy (Ishine) that everybody can talk with openly (IO). I might actually suggest you stay away from the IH. It’s designed to give off a certain deepness to the conversation and a lot of time people mistake deepness for someone unwilling to have an open conversation. I think you would rather come across as carefree.
On the attraction aspect I agree that Ammo would work the best. Mix it with the Ishine and IO and you are GOLDEN.
Welcome to the forum
Oh yeah I almost forgot Ray, when I visit my family in Roseville I would hang out at your school sometimes. Lots of fun ladies there. I even got to see the Counting Crows there once.