Hello!

I’m Admonish, from the humid flat-lands of Florida. I’ve been building an interest in pheromones over the last week or so, and I’m thinking that I may be about ready to take that final step.

I’m trying to figure out where to begin.. I’m 27, and I’m incredibly shy when it comes to meeting new people of the female gender. I guess I’m looking to pheromones to give me that extra edge to make it easier with introductions and making people more receptive to me. I recently got out of a five-year relationship, and I’ve been taking efforts to get to meet new people, but needless to say, being shy kind of makes it difficult, especially when you’re thinking that the other person isn’t interested. I’ll leave out the traumatizing childhood experiences that left me with some slight social anxiety issues and save that for another day.

Hmm.. More about me.. Uhm.. I guess I’m that guy who tries to bring humor to any situation to lighten the mood. I try to make people laugh, and try to make them feel more comfortable. I also have a very sarcastic side that does tend to get me in trouble.. And yeah, as I stated before, I guess my goal with pheromones is to give me that extra edge. I suppose that I would feel more comfortable meeting new people if they seemed more interested in meeting me, and pheromones seems like the proper route to take with that. Well, that, and to hopefully get things moving at work where it seems like a dead-end job. -_-
Even more about me: I’m interested in computers, I’ve built several, and have made meager earnings repairing them, I sometimes hobby in photography, but that is on hold since I lost my camera.

I am needless to say a skeptic, but that’s why I’m here! Reading up on the success stories and hopefully build up one or two of my own.
Sorry if the introduction is a little mixed up. I normally avoid describing myself since when I do - things kind of come out with no order, so kudos to you if you make sense of it. o.O

Redacted version: Hi! I’m Admonish.

HI Admonish .. great that you found the PheroTalk Forum

the coolest place on the net … dealing with Pheromones … hehe

what.. a final step … each journey start with the first step …

( NOTE : you made a great intro … )

don´t worry about shyness … you can do something to overcome it … takes a bit time …and work ..

and with the support of Pheromones … it will be easier

No wonder that you´re having problems with the other Gender … it´s tough after a long Relationship to get back into the Game …

and considering that there´s even more …

well…

i think you´re a wormhearted guy … very sensitive to reactions of other people …you analize quite a bit .. and you´re a person that like harmony a lot

have you considered to look into some PUA stuff

there is some good material out there ..

Ross Jeffries has a great program to overcome shyness with women .. it´s NLP based

the Gambler from UK offers tons of free material on his site ( how does this guy sell anything :wink: )

hmm

there´s a thread here .. to see if women are interested in you

**How do I know if I am getting hits !!

**
i actually found two ..

read up on some body language book too…

Leil Lowndes … David Givens .. Martin Lloyd Elliot … i have them all

mones can only help you … to get where you want to be .. but you´ll still have to do the driving ..o.k.

think about them like tools … the better you learn to use them … the better the effects will be…

alright … let´s look into what to get

for your shyness .. Instant Shine will help you ..

it´s great because it´s making you more confident … and women dig confidence …

it´s great as well in combinations … easy to use for new users ..

but no matter you´ll get with mones .. you´ll still want to have this around

Shine uplifts the mood of people around you … It will give you the same effect too ..

and Ladies love beeing around uplifted guy´s

alright …

then .. you should get Instant Openness…

It´s super for chatting up people … and you´ll only have to start the conversation …

as you target will open up .. drop their guard . and it will do most of the talking ..

then there´s Ammo

it´s a well dosed mix of social .. sexual ..and status mones …

a great pheromone to start with for attraction

Ammo will pull the attention of women towards you and will make you stand out of the crowd .. you will be noticed a lot more when you wear it ..

it´s a great attention getter with a few negatives

and you won´t end up that easy in the friendship zone when wearing it

guy´s and girls will show a lot more respect towards you ..

and Ammo will give you a nice confidence boost as well .

there are 2 Products that i suggest for the workplace

first on you should consider is Instant Gentleman … it´s nonthreatening Alpha … it gives you an aura of charme …

it signals ..smooth and suave vibe .. and it signals a great deal of quality in the wearer

you can compare it to A314 as it´s little brother

once you´re more used to mones ..and their effects .. you can look into A314

as you have a few confidence problems ..and you are shy ..you should first work on them and then .. you´re going to profit from the tough Alpha stuff

…

once you got our own mones … you´ll see that beeing sceptic was good … but there was no need to ..

i think you´ve already qualified for the GC

i´m sure you´ve checked the link in the stickies

taking about the stickis

read up on them ..

you´ll find them on top of this site ..and at the main male forum

and ..

no worries ..

you´re going to make it

let us know what you decided ..

and once you got your stuff

you should start your own journal … you have a great writing style ..

hear ya

Pago

Hi there Admonish,

Thats cool that you finally decided to try out pheromones.If your shy with approach,then instant openness may be the one for you as it makes people more chatty so you wont have to talk as much and will make you appear more approachable.That being said you will still have to talk(^_^)Looking into some pickup and conversation books like david deangelo and leil lowndes may help.That sucks when you have trouble socializing from some past trauma,used to have a similar problem.Thought everyone wasn’t interested and didnt want to talk to me so i didnt try.Pheremones will help but you still have to be congruent with the vibe your putting out.This link is good on explaining what they can do.

What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated (What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers)
For what you want to do,instant openness and instant shine should be good.Instant openness makes people more chatty and you seem more approachable.Instant shine gives a fun confident vibe and makes the people around you happier.For the job,instant gentleman or A314 will probably be good.A314 usually requires quite a bit of confidence to be congruent with it though since it can be intimidating,instant gentleman is probably the best to start off with.Thats cool that you like computers.I also work in the computer line(><)Haha,its all cool to be a skeptic.Thats what the 25$ gift certificate is for.You will be able to try out some to-go’s pretty much risk free as im sure pago will mention.Haha,your introduction was fine.Easy to read.You may like to read some of the stickies below as they have a lot of good information in them.All the best and hope things go well for you(^^)

An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of

Updated AndroticsDirect Pheromones for newbies

The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies

What works: BUSINESS APPLICATIONS (sales, meetings, etc)

Ok. Now I’m all confused with myself. Don’t mind me. Thought I suddenly jumped to a different thread. BLAH! LOL!

Nice to meet you here :wink:

Yeah IG is a good product for guys in your age!

The girls will love your warmth charismatic confidence and the feelings that you can protect them :wink:

Young girls love that much more than sexual aggressivnes!

Try products like

IG for the feelings I told you above

IO for a feeling of talkabilty and openess

IS for a lot of fun ( girls in your age also like a lot of fun)

you can also try IH for deeper feelings of trust, honesty and love

but for parties I would prefer IO for dates and 1 on 1 situations IH !

You can also use all products together just like most guys here doing but first you should get a feeling for every product on it’s own!

A nic e selfeffect of IO is that it enhances your talkability and lowers your shyness! The IG will give yourself a nice confidence boost together with IS!

You can also get a 25$ GC from Androtics if you just tell us a little more about you!

If you have question I and many members here on forum will help you!

Wish you a pleasant journey to the pheromone land :wink:

Ok, now I see what happened. You two edited your responses. That sudden change made me think that I responded somewhere else, and then I got all confused. I’m normally a little more tech-savvy than that, I swear.

Thank you for the response, Pago! I am currently trying to work on the issue of being shy. I’ve been getting back out into the scene. Shyness goes out the door once I actually know somebody, so it’s just getting through the threshold that is the difficult part. I can be a tad eccentric at times, so I’ve figured that my biggest problem is worrying about how people will react to me once I begin opening up to them.

I’ve read up on a number of the products that are offered, and a couple of them did pique my interest a bit. Specifically A314 and AMMO. Instant Openness seems like a good one, as well. Confidence is a bit of an issue with me. I’ve spent a good time of my life working sales, and I think that I am a pretty decent salesman when it comes to selling a product, but I’ve yet to be able to sell myself, so-to-speak. I guess that is where the pheromones come in, to put the icing on the cake.

Thank you for the response, as well, Looifook! I’ll definitely read into those links you provided. I have already looked at a couple of those links, like the Snook’s guide, and the updated AD one. Considering the price for some of these things, and while being skeptical - yeah, I had to spend some time reading into it. I suppose that is why I’m hoping to get a gift card, so I can see how well these products will work for me. :smiley:

Haha,no worries.That can happen sometimes(><)Haha,its pretty normal to be shy with strangers.You should stay eccentric,eccentric people are the best people to know(^^)

Thats awesome that you already started reading.They are pretty helpful and answer a lot of questions.Yeah,they are pretty expensive.Thats why its usually best to fit some into the gift certificate and get more once you get hooked(:-p)Usually best to start off with to-go’s though as they cost a bit less and let you try them out.Lol,ended up reading for about a week to try and figure out what to get before i actually put in my order(:-p)

Definitely! I will be starting with the To Go sizes first. Specifically the A3 Sauce (If A1 makes a steak better, then A3 should make a man better, right?), the Ammo, and possibly the Instant Openness one. I certainly have to look more into mixology to find just the right combination for me between work and play, though.

haha,instant gentleman might be better for you since a314 is a bit harder to be congruent with since it can come across as intimidating sometimes.Its cheaper too(:-p)Though should be fine as long as you buffer it.Mixology wise,ammo+instant openness for play and A314+instant openness for work should be good.Instant shine also is a good buffer and lots of people get good results with ammo+instant shine for play and ig/a314+instant shine for work(^_^)

Welcome to pherotalk Admonish!

You received excellent advise and just to emphasize the points.

Ammo will give you a confidence boast and that is a great product for what you described.

IO our ice breaker

Since you are shy I wouldn’t use A314 as it would not work out for you the way it should but I am still a bit skeptical about letting you go with IG.

You seem to already have this nice , gentleman personality so it would go with you but not give you that edge you may need.

I will continue to let the guys guide you into the right direction with the ladies.

Remember, we ladies love a guy who is funny but not a clown.

Your gc was issued! :slight_smile: