I’m new to this forum and wanted to say a hello to all that have more experience with the use of pheromones. I have heard of them in the past, but found this site and wanted to get some input from real people (men or women) as to their effects.
I’m a 47 year old divorced male and looking for the means and courage to get back into the world of dating thought such means would be a possative for confidence and love. I may be divorced, but far from dead and ready to get back to living.
I look forward to hearing back from everyone and thanks in advance !
Good morning, Hersh (though it’s night here my place )
I’d like to welcome you to the forum. There’s lots of men and women here who’d be genuinely glad to help you out!
Since you’re looking towards dating, are you looking for more solid relationships with women, and tell us, what has been most difficult for you in approaching woman?
If you tell us more about yourself, a plus would be that Steve will come here with a hugeass GC for you
Hi hersh,
Welcome on board Hersh, I am almost 47, actually in feb will be. What kind of personality are you? The best all round phero is Ammo, you cant go wrong with that, its a well buffered with some social mones, and gives off a sexual vibe. Instant Shine, Instant Gentleman, CTTM are also good social pheros to make it easier to break the ice, giving you confidence to talk. Tell us what you hope to achieve with the pheros, and how you found out about this forum. By telling us more about yourself and personality, will be able to give better suggestions and SteveO will be around with a GC to help you with your first order. Reading the stickies in the men’s forum will also be of great help.
well good morning to you too,hope you have a good day.
i would just like to welcome you here and also let you know that you are in good hands, some fabulous ppl in here that are more than willing to give great advice so we will all have you up and running in no time.
i must agree with kusro as far as i’ve seen Ammo is a good beginner everyone seems to like the product and all say that it works well
I was married for 23 years prior to divorce and married to a very aggressive an dominant woman that over time, definately took away much of my confidence both as a person and sexually. Now that I have been out of that marriage for almost 2 years, I would like to meet women and start dating, both for intimate and relationship bases.
My real issue is just getting out and meeting people without worrying if I’m making a total idiot of myself. The confidence to make an introduction and confidence to know that it will be received.
Thanks to all for the quick replies - time to answer some of the questions! To answer the question of what I hope to achieve, it is the ice breaker.
My background involves being married to a very dominant woman for 23 years that ended in divorce that was approaching 2 years ago. It was an unequal relationship and a very sexless marriage as well. Now I’m seeking a relationship that has both a true relationship component and also a sexual component (I’m far from dead ).
Hence, it is an issue of self confidence and just getting the juices going as well. With everyone’s help, I anticipate a terrific experience!
Hey Hersh, I would recommend first off for you is Alpha A314 and Instant Shine. The Shine would get you noticed by others around you especially at work and the Alpha A314 would get people around you, possibly co-workers, looking at you in a different more positive way. That I feel is a good starter for you.
they make for a good read with loads of info and i can’t tell you all that much about the boys products myself 'as so far i have not payed any attention to them:o
look whatever you decide on try a couple of different products in the TOGO sizes, see which you like and work for you and from there you’ll know what to get next
Hey Hersh, welcome to the forum. You have already received some great advice, so I’ll just throw in my 2 cents here.
I agree with the suggestions so far, and thought I just try to give you a little better idea of how they can help.
A314 gives off an alpha male aura and will help in not only making you feel more confident, but also in others seeing you as having higher status and commanding respect.
Instant Shine gives off a happy-feel-good vibe for the user and those around them. People will want to be around you because when they are they feel good.
Ammo is a great all around product for generating attention and interest from females.
There are also other products that you could consider, such as Instant Openness - which acts as an ice-breaker in getting conversations started and makes people more chatty, or Instant Female Magic - which makes women feel more relaxed and comfortable around you.
Whatever you decide to purchase, come back and tell us about your phero enhanced experiences, OK?
And again, welcome to the forum. If you have any questions, just ask.
LOL Hersh, Like my mama used to say, “not at ya, with ya”. Sometimes my mama was a little mean.
Man, I know about the confidence thing. You know what helped me more than anything? Looking at Mark-in-Dallas’s avatar. One day I saw that and said
“I’m scared to put myself out there because I’m scared I’ll look like an idiot. Mark’s probably scared of looking like an idiot too, but he’s got a cute chick on his arm and great stories about having fun.”
So I signed up for a night class at my local community college. It’s full of women. I’m still scared to death of looking like an idiot but I’m taking the chance and talking to them.
I know I’m not giving you advice about pheromones here. I just wanted you to know that taking a chance beats heck out of not taking a chance.
Why thank you Renny. I really do need to consider replacing that avatar though, as I’ve had that one up there for a couple of weeks now.
Many years ago I was a scared, self conscious, afraid of rejection kind of guy, who never had a girlfriend and was a pretty sorry excuse of a man. But, I read a few self improvement books, realized that I was actually a pretty good guy, and that I would actually be pretty good catch. I started talking to girls, and you know what? very few of them were not willing to at least be social and talk back.
After that it was pretty much ON! And, it wasn’t long after that I discovered that more often than not the prettiest girls in the club were easier to meet and get to know than the average looking ones, and usually had better personalities.
I guess the reason the prettier ones are easier to pickup is that the guys think they don’t stand a chance with them and are afraid of rejection, so they chase the more average looking ones, while the best looking girls in the club are left alone.
A simple line like “You know I bet you if you tried really hard you could smile” would usually elicit a smile and a bit of conversation. And what works incredibly well is to get them to smile, get a name, and walk away. It really throws them off balance and opens the door to coming back 10 or 15 minutes later and really getting to know them.
Another that’s actually worked for me in nightclubs, but completely goes against what the PUA’s say, is to tell a girl in passing that she is gorgeous, which again opens the door to talking to them later.
The best way to overcome a lack of confidence is to bite the bullet and start talking. I can now walk up to any woman, without fear of rejection. I may not end up with a date or a girlfriend, but more often than not I can at least get a conversation going.
It’s surprising how little it takes to overcome years of awkwrdness and lack of self-confidence. Once you’ve gotten a few girls to talk to you and maybe even a bit of rejection, you realize how much you’d missed out on, and even when a girl does completely reject you, it doesn’t change who you are or what you have to offer, and it’s not going to kill you.
A little rejection is actually a good thing, otherwise we’d never appreciate our successes!
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