Yes, it is definitely agreed that you must take care of yourself, i.e. clean shaven, teeth brusehd, proper attire, well spoken English (if you are American or English is your First language) and all of the things that go along with taking care of yourself and your surroundings, i.e. clean appartment/ house and no nastiness there either.
I suppose you are correct that skinny may be a bit derogatory and lean is a bit less abrasive as it can mean a self that is well maintained but limited in its physical ability to gain weight.
Props nonetheless and hopefully these posts have helped a few people out.
Well i have already done my introduction. And received my Gift Card. But at the same time, I Guess i should say that i am 6 foot 2, and i am 220 pounds. I work out, and i play sports a lot, (basketball, volleyball, jogging and others) I’m actually still only a high school student, but i never wanted to say anything seeings how i now may be considered one of the babies on the forum, and one of the newer members. I am a white Canadian male, (even though i am very tanned) and i really don’t have a problem keeping the ladies around, and not even attracting them lots of times, but there is this one girl in particular, and i’m just looking for something to get a spark going between us again.
I hope that helped a bit, Marc~
(and yes i do realize that this thread has grown a bit and went on to other things a bit off topic, but i don’t mind, it’s all a learning experience, but i still am looking for help, please and thank you 
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