Hey everyone,
I had a random bout of curiosity and I came across these forums…I have to admit, this is like finding a diamond the size of my fist in a pile of internet crap. Thought I would make a nice introduction and get involved in what seems like a solid community of like-minded people.
Note: My future posts at times will be randomly chaotic and sometimes will be perfectly coherent. My apologies ahead of time. ![]()
I am a 23-year old Asian male living in New Jersey, just recently graduated from a school in Atlanta, GA. Currently working two jobs, one in NYC as a fund allocator for social media networking clients during the day and another as a tutor in the evening for (what I believe) the biggest tutoring company in the US.
The only exposure I have had with pheromones is using Pherlure and PherX, the typical over-marketed brands
. Mixing with my regular colognes, I found that I had to rely more on my own personality and game rather than an invisible helper to succeed with women.
I have a tendency to write lengthy posts so I’ll cut it short soon with what I want to get out of all this and a general basis on who I am.
I’ve never really depended on physical traits (on my part) to attract the ladies…just seemed way too shallow and attracted the superficial types. Oddly enough, my eloquence in speech and ability to exercise tact at the right moments has sufficed to keep me satisfied more than the average guy. In general, I just love women. Understanding the nuances, studying their reactions, trying different things regardless of result…its just too much fun and rewarding (can’t learn without screwing up sometime along the way).
My initial interest with pheromones and the intricacy of male-female dynamics peaked with the pick-up books by Mystery and others before the stupid MTV show. So I bought a few crap pheromones and eventually gave up using aids and relied on my own skills to make it. However, as I’m sure many of you will agree, work life is MUNDANE and BORING, even with the weekly weekend social life, especially in a city like NYC.
So begins my second foray into the world of pheromones and pick-up attempts but its more serious this time around. I work too much during the week so I doubt I’ll post or reply more than once or twice a week but it will definitely be a serious attempt to stay in this arena for longer. I’m not looking for a simple hook-up through the information and chatter here but something more along the lines of the Men’s Journals section where its a definitive attempt at trying different products and seeing what the best results are. (Random info: last girlfriend was 2 months ago and I’m not feeling commitment right now so yeah…)
Props (I’ll rep next time I’m logged in) to Jayarea as he is a fellow asian male and I’ll be damned if people think it isn’t harder for us asian males to dominate the game. Your journal is very very good reading man…keep it up.
As weird as it may be, I speak completely different than I type…I find the written word much more able at delivering eloquence while spoken word delivers nuances
So cheers to this site and hopefully a great trip into what the rest of you love.
My first question or rather need for advice is what is a great mix for someone like me, getting back into it just now? Secondly (apologies if this has been answered elsewhere, its time to snooze, not much time left to surf), does it matter which pheromones are applied first? As in coating multiple pheros together? It seems for the most part that the pros here use different ones for different parts of the body. It also seems like mixes are highly individualistic and requires self-experimenting to a high level…unless there are users who have general mixes (like Jasmin’s post with the attraction, comfort, seduction mixes).
My bad for the lengthy post but I love typing, I love women, and I love this site. Will be back in a few days…if anyone’s particularly interested in helping me, I am heading into DC this weekend with a bunch of cute ladies my friends and I just met 3 weeks ago in Philly…I have enough money for next day shipping and what-not so I would love to try experimenting this weekend, just need a friendly direction to go.
PEEEAAAACCCCEEE (thats more like me in public with friends)![]()