Just wanted to take a moment to say hello, and a little bit about myself - in case anyone has some product suggestions
I just turned 40 last December, and live in Los Angeles. Not being the “LA ideal woman” and now being 40 does interesting things to my self confidence from time to time…
I work in the entertainment industry, and am an executive in my company. I tend to be very confident and driven with work matters - however confidence in the relationship department could use a boost. I hear how I “intimidate” people a lot, particularly from my male colleagues or employees…
Special man? Not really. Guy I like…yeah, but fraught with problems. a.) I intimidate him and b.) he works in my department so technically my employee - although he doesn’t report directly to me. So not exactly workable… Meeting new guys - difficult for me. For all my outgoing tendencies and work confidence - somewhat shy with men…sigh…
Tried pheromones a couple of years ago - can’t remember what the brand was. Seemed to work for me with a guy I liked, but he lived in England which made the relationship somewhat difficult to sustain (lol).
Currently researching here in the forums to decide what to try. Leaning toward Instant Shine (which is confusing in the store cause it says “for men”), maybe some TAF for focus - 'cause I’ve recently been promoted and given more responsibility at work - and the closeness of the guy I have the crush on is causing me to fall behind in work due to daydreaming. Otherwise, still have a lot of reading to do…
Thanks to all for the posts I’ve read so far - extremely informative and fun to learn about!
Hey there, welcome to the boards, i think what you need would be somthing more like instant openness, i havnt tried pheromones yet my self, and especially not the female ones ^^ but my take is that thats the one that would have the most positive effect on you intimidating other people though some instant shine (i think its unisex.. though it says for men) mixed in probably wont do any harm
But im sure some of the girls on the board can give you a more precise answer to what would work for you.
Instant Shine is a great product. It is the only one that I am confident works for me. I have never tried TAF, but I have always wanted to.
Since you are having problems with intimidating people, I would probably stay away from TAL or any other pheromones containing a lot of TAL. I would try to soften your personality a little bit with TAH. I have never tried that one myself, but I heard it has that affect. For starters, I would try Instant Sexiness B. Instant Sexiness A ships by default, so you would have to specifically request the B version.
I would also try some Instant Openness and see if that would make you more approachable.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions in the Women’s forum. Everyone will be happy to answer any questions, as well as hear about any hits you might have!
It looks like you’re right on track, be sure to let us know if you need any assistance and what your results are! Be sure to check out the Womens forum, too
