I’m a 20 something woman who lives in Brooklyn. I’ve heard about pheromones, but I don’t really have any experience with them.
I’ve been told I’m attractive and I do meet men pretty regularly, but because I’m shy, I don’t know how to get the ones I want to ask me out. I’m hoping pheromones will help to make me more open because I usually end up tongue-tied when I’m around men I’m attracted to. It’s like being 12 years old again!:o
I also want to be more assertive at work. I’m pretty laid back, but I want to be able to present my work and express my ideas more. I know I have good ideas because I get a lot of positive feedback once I tell people, but sometimes I hold back because I feel “pushy.” I think I’m going to try Instant Shine for that.
Anyway, I’m looking forward to trying these products and I hope I’ll have something wonderful to report soon.
Instant Shine would be a great pheromone to start with. For me it makes me and those around me feel good/happy
You said ," I don’t know how to get the ones I want to ask me out. I’m hoping pheromones will help to make me more open because I usually end up tongue-tied when I’m around men I’m attracted to."
for that I think you would like Instant Honesty. It will help you to open up and also help him to open up (because maybe he feels the same way and that is why he is afraid to tell you he’s attracted to YOU)
I also hope you decide to keep a journal it helps you to find out what works best for you as soon as possible. That way in the near future you can be hitting the town with your tried and true go-to mixes.
By now I’m guessing you have read on the description and application on each individual product.. In my opinion, what you need is to wake up every morning and prep yourself in the mirror, telling yourself that you’re awesome..
After washing up try to get a drop of the social lubricator pheromones, for example Instant Shine, Instant Honesty and Instant Openness, so far as I know, that’s the only unisex pheromones that is available (correct my if I’m wrong) for social lubrication..
I agreed on ClintX2 recommendation without a doubt on which mones to use and definitely write your own journal, whether it’s personal book or share your experience with the rest of the forums mate..
At the end of the day, I believe it all falls back to you, as you long you do your homework and build up that confidence of yours, these pheromones will work like a charm (as long as you remember that mones in the bottle is only act like an enhancer, it enhance you for who you are) when you applied it, your confidence and your believe will come in natural..
Thanks so much to both of you! I’m pretty confident in general and I’m especially confident with men I’m not interested in ; with them, I’m the cool, fun girl. But like I said, I want to be comfortable around the ones I AM interested in. It’s funny, but even if I’m not interested in a guy at first, but keep talking to him and become interested, the same thing happens: I start feeling really shy.
Anyway, I definitely want to try Instant Shine and Instant Openness. And thanks for the journal suggestion - I didn’t think of that, but it could prove useful.
for an Asian Layman terms (in my own words) Instant Openness ; The Listener
Instant Honesty ; The Comforter
Instant Shine ; The Finisher
IO ; 2-6 spray
IH ; 1-4 spray
IS ; 1 spray (if I were to pick 2, I would pick IO and IH, IMO )
Having a Journal means you can moniter the combination which is more efficient and productive, and finding your “sweet spots” too, determining which pulse produce the best result.. Like if you said you’re pretty confident and just feeling shy, Instant Honesty will help you.. Always believe in yourself first and mones will help you believing in it and (correct me if I’m wrong) your body will eventually produce the same effect of the mones which makes an even permanent solution, it’s just the same as having these pheromones like having a training wheels on a bicycle..
The guys gave you some pretty good pheromone suggestions but forgot the main ingredient.
Instant sexiness a or b for attraction
Pheromones can’t make ppl act against their will but I know you are looking for something that will make you feel more confident and more comfortable around the guys you like in order to take it to the next level.
I know these products can definitely help you out with that.
; with them, I’m the cool, fun girl. But like I said, I want to be comfortable around the ones I AM interested in. It’s funny, but even if I’m not interested in a guy at first, but keep talking to him and become interested, the same thing happens: I start feeling really shy.