I am a multi-racial mature, quiet and reserved classic lady over 40, but not of retirement age, yet.
As a former corporate professional, I am confident and not generally considered a shy person to those close to me, but to be truthful I really am shy. Although some women are not afraid to make their desires known, unfortunately for me, I am not one of those women. I usually am uncomfortable expressing affection and emotion to others. Sometimes men feel that I am standoffish, but I am not. I just don’t know how to appear relaxed, even when I smile. I would like something to make me approachable. Is there a pheromone like that for women who desire to attract men?
I know virtually nothing about pheromones and would like to learn as much as I can about them. This appears to be the site for such an education. Where should I start?
The introduction section is actually a great place to start because the introduction section will equip you with the $25 dollar gift card which will help you to begin your journey in Pheromones.
You mentioned:
“I just don’t know how to appear relaxed, even when I smile. I would like something to make me approachable”
SO I think you would like:
Instant Shine: This makes you and the people around you feel good/happy. I like this one because people like to be around happy people.
Instant Openness: This really helps to open people up to you. I used this one a lot when I was starting out and it really helped me to approach and talk to more people. When using it I could see the change in others people’s body language that told me that they wanted to be approached and that gave me the extra confidence I needed to actually approach them.
You also mentioned:
Is there a pheromone like that for women who desire to attract men?
Instant Sexiness B: This is a pheromone for women that helps to attract men. I have it and have used it for experimental purposes but I am sure some of the ladies can tell you more about it.
Also, Im curious how did you find out about this site?
Hi there, MzKaxxic! Welcome to the mone forum! You are in the right place to learn about mones!!!
For what you are saying about appearing relaxed, at ease, and having others see that signal about you, that would be Instant Shine, for sure. If it’s just opening up to others, truly shy, then I’d say Instant Openness. This gets me going with all sorts of bubbly convo’s…
Now, if it’s expressing your intimate thoughts and gettings others to look at you as a long time friend that can be trusted, then that would be more of Instant Honesty.
To not appear standoffish, feel more comfortable with your desires, then, I’d suggest IS/b with others around you getting that kittenish, sexy, Marilyn Monroe type vibe. This with Instant Shine and either IO or IH would work out. However, THESE mone signals are NOT the end all… to get the most out of them, you’ll need to have your attitude reflect that signal as much as possible.
ON my sig below, check out both Steve O’s Intro to Mones and Tisha’s, how do I know what are Hits?! to really squeeze the most out of these suckers!!
Thanks for posting up… classy ladies are always welcome and bring a je ne se qoi… to the forum!
I totally understand, I have experienced a similar thing, where others can mistake shyness for standoffish-ness or stuck-up-ness.
The guys have made some great suggestions, and although as 1Alpha said, you need to be congruent with the effect you wish to achieve, but with social anxiety (which I have experienced too), it’s easier said than done.
The best products for this are most definitely Instant Openness and Instant Shine.
Instant Openness will relax both you and those around you, everyone will be friendlier and more open, conversation will flow more easily.
Instant Shine will give both you and those nearby a nice mood boost, you will give off a positive, happy glow that others will want to be around, that will affect them as well.
To help others feel more comfortable with you and want to open up to you more, Instant Honesty is the way to go. Instant Honesty is also great for creating and strengthening emotional bonds.
I gott say that you’re getting good advice here. I have anxiety disorder and I can personally vouch for all the pheromones mentioned here (except I haven’t tried IO yet - need to do that).
If you’re looking to learn, I would recommend reading this thread here: Womens Pheromone Guide
That’ll give you a good rundown of the various mones. Then you can pick the ones you’re interested in (pick your poison? ), and start asking us questions.
because the introduction section will equip you with the $25 dollar gift card which will help you to begin your journey in Pheromones.
), and start asking us questions.